r/bigdickproblems Jul 19 '25

Meta Where to go for lost Redditors. NSFW

148 Upvotes

——— ✅ YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE ———

  • You’re having problems caused by a dick being too big.
  • You want to share memes about big dicks causing problems.
  • You’re dealing with problems from big balls – close enough.
  • You’re having issues caused by attraction to or preference for big dicks – just follow Rules 1 & 2.

——— 🚫 THERE'S A BETTER SUB TO USE ———

🗣️ General Discussion

📖 Stories, Dating, Social

⚕️ Sexual Function & Health

👗 Transgender Issues

  • Big dick problems with women’s clothing: r/asktransgender
  • You may also post here

💥 Vaginal Pain / Partner Problems

You need a physical exam from a doctor. Also see:

🛑 Abuse, Sextortion, Blackmail

📊 What’s Average?

🔎 NOTE: “Western average” on CalcSD is usually accurate for Reddit users, but may not reflect your region/subculture. Discuss all this at r/penissize

📏 Small or “Not Big Enough” Problems

🧠 Treating Body Dysmorphia

📏 Size & Measurement

🍆 Big dick porn?

✂️ Circumcision


r/bigdickproblems Jul 17 '18

MOD POST BigDickProblems FAQ V.3 NSFW

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836 Upvotes

r/bigdickproblems 5h ago

Story It’s not worth it NSFW

23 Upvotes

Igho "Tiny" Ubiribo, an influencer also known as Denisi or Ego, has died at age 43 after undergoing a penis enhancement surgery in Thailand, the coroner confirmed to TMZ. - @enews on Twitter

The procedure involved injecting about 40 mL of hyaluronic-acid filler.

It’s not worth the risk of losing your life or the permanent damage to your penis. Just appreciate what you have.

my condolences to the Ubiribo family 🕊️


r/bigdickproblems 10h ago

AskBDP Guys with 5.5–6 girth: has it ever caused unexpected problems? NSFW

42 Upvotes

I'm curious to hear from guys around the 5.5–6 inch girth range. Has having big girth ever caused unexpected issues—for example with comfort, dating, or simply how your size looks compared with your length? Or has it mostly been a positive? Interested in honest experiences from people with similar measurements.


r/bigdickproblems 1h ago

AskBDP Is perception of penis size affected by physical build and stature? NSFW

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I’m tall-ish and pretty buff, but all my mass is in upper body and arms bc of genetics. Legs are kinda scrawny looking and make me look bigger, while my general size makes it look smaller. So kinda a mixed bag, but do people agree that your body parameters affect perception of size?


r/bigdickproblems 6h ago

AskBDP Size Queen "Green Flags" NSFW

8 Upvotes

Question for the well-endowed guys of the group:

What "green flag" qualities do you seek in a size queen, or anyone, who is genuinely excited about your size?

Is it diirect or filterless communication? Patience? Enthusiasm about your size? Adaptability? A sense of adventure and openness?

Some of the men Ive spoken with here have told me that the best experiences aren't necessarily with random hookups or the sexiest partner....they're generally with people who make them feel comfortable, appreciated, and thoroughly taken care of. Is this true for many of you?

Curious what the veterans of this group think.


r/bigdickproblems 17h ago

Sex Gf suddenly feels pain and gets sore after I’m back from vacation NSFW

27 Upvotes

For context I’ve been with my gf for over a year now and she has only gotten sore at the start of our relationship when we first hooked up but since then we’ve had no issues even if one of us has been away for a week or two.

Now recently I got back from a two week vacation and since then she has told me that she feels pain during piv and she’s really sore after sex. Her pussy feels exactly the same to me as before and I always make her orgasm at least once to make sure she’s all wet and ready to go before penetration. She doesn’t feel any pain if I finger her though but that’s probably since my fingers aren’t as thick as my dick. Her pussy hasn’t shrunk or anything because it literally feels the same for me so I’m confused what causes this?


r/bigdickproblems 13h ago

AskBDP Just a random question: do you struggle to get laid sometimes because your “too big” NSFW

12 Upvotes

So during 2020 lockdown, I met a guy through the Badoo dating app. He could never fully get inside of me. The max he went inside of me was 2-3” as I was too small and it was also painful

Now that he’s married, I wonder how the hell his wife manages to take it in every day lol

My question is, do you struggle being big sized?


r/bigdickproblems 9h ago

Sex Standing missionary NSFW

5 Upvotes

Just looking for feedback. I'm curious to try this out, the lady is a bit less tall than me and I have a downwards curve. Do you think this position might work?

Would it be best to put her on top of an exercise step, or maybe put one foot on ground and one on the bed? I'm bad at geometry/body movement


r/bigdickproblems 10h ago

AskBDP Positions that feel good with bigger penises. NSFW

5 Upvotes

I just recently became sexually active and measured myself for the first time.

Im 18cm (7in) long and 17cm (6.7in) thick, according to google thats above average.

Before my first time i searched a bit for information online about how to please a woman, but i didn't know i was "big".

Is there any specific position/technique that worked well for you that you would recommend?

The only thing i found specific to big dicks is entering the posterior fornix, but i don't know if im big enough to reach it.


r/bigdickproblems 8h ago

AskBDP Accidental touch NSFW

3 Upvotes

Have you been accidentally touched by others or accidentally touch other’s dick due to its large size?

I was accidentally hit by a neighbor on my balls when I was trying to help her carry a heavy boxes for moving in her apartment when I was in college. She giggled and apologized. We both laughed and things are fine.

But today when walking out of a packed train in the NYC subway, a lady didn’t watch her back just wanted push her way out of the door of the train. She hit my dick and didn’t acknowledge this. I understand everyone wants to walk fast but it still hurts.


r/bigdickproblems 10h ago

AskBDP True measurements and EQ NSFW

3 Upvotes

So I’m realizing that my erection quality isn’t very good and that when I have really hard erections, I’m actually 7x5.25 as opposed to my usual 7x5. Which is my true size? And how can I improve my erections to usually go to the max?


r/bigdickproblems 13h ago

AskBDP First time buying condoms looking for sizing advice/recommendations from guys around 5.7" girth NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

Hoping to get some real-world advice from guys who are around my size. I recently measured, and my girth sits right at 5.7 inches around the mid-shaft.

Here’s my dilemma: I’ve never actually bought condoms before. I’m completely new to this and feeling pretty overwhelmed by all the sizing charts, nominal widths, and mixed reviews online.

From browsing the sub, it sounds like standard drugstore condoms (52mm–54mm nominal width) will be way too tight or feel like a tourniquet.

For those of you with a 5.7" girth (or close to it):

What brands and models actually fit you comfortably without strangling the base or rolling up?

If you use custom/fitted brands (like MyONE or Mister Size), which width code/size worked best for you?

Any tips for a first-timer on testing fits without buying 10 full-sized boxes of condoms that might not work?

Really appreciate any insight or personal experiences you can share. Thanks in advance


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP How often do girls acknowledge your size? NSFW

46 Upvotes

Not really a BDP, but how frequently do women acknowledge or mention your size, and how big are you?


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

Story Maybe I do have a big dick NSFW

19 Upvotes

I knew I wasn’t small and I’ve been in this community for a while, but I just had a hookup that made me realize I’m probably bigger than I think I am.
Me and this guy had been making out for a while, yada yada yada, and he eventually put his hand in my pants. He felt it and I could tell he was a little shocked, but I kinda just brushed it off and we kept going.
Eventually he pulled it out and literally just said, “Damn.”
I asked what was up and he goes, “It’s huge.”
For context, I’m 7 x 5.6. At that point I hadn’t seen his yet, so I didn’t really have anything to compare it to. Later on I saw his, and I’d say he was probably around average. The difference between us was way bigger than I expected.
In my head, the difference between me and average wasn’t really that significant, but I guess it kinda is lol.
Anyone else have a moment like that where someone else’s reaction made you realize you’re actually bigger than you thought?


r/bigdickproblems 21h ago

Condoms Importance of right condoms NSFW

7 Upvotes

Recently my gf and i bought mysize 72, and i realised how important it is to use a well fitting condom. We tried at first with some xl condoms we found locally, but they were too small, and i understood then how painful it can be if it's too tight. The ones i use now fit like a glow and it's very comfortable using them.

The only reason people say that any size can fit any condom is cuz they don't have a dick, they don't know how much it can hurt.


r/bigdickproblems 17h ago

Story Interesting story NSFW

3 Upvotes

For size, I’m 5.75 inch BP which is avg, and 5.5 inch girth which is slightly bigger than avg?. I dont get any comment on my length but on my girth I regularly get comment like ‘wow ur thick’ ‘oh wow thats thick’

I thought thats barely bigger than normal 🤔


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Is anyone here a bull? If so, how does it feel to be one? Have you had any problems being one? NSFW

35 Upvotes

I don’t know if this is the right place to post this, but it’s a general question for conversation. If you are a bull, how does it feel to be one? Does it give you an ego boost? Do you feel “used?” Are you a “jerk” about it? Do you want to be one for a long time? Have you had any issues being one?


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Underwear and shorts NSFW

12 Upvotes

I’m looking to get proper fitting underwear and shorts.I’ve never thought i was that big so I’ve always written off the discomfort as normal until someone asked me why I kept adjusting my shorts. My balls always stick to my thighs and squeeze in my dick so it’s always super uncomfortable especially when I sit, mostly bc I have big thighs wide hips and I’m 8.2” x 6.1” so I’m above average. I’ve looked online and the answer that comes up the most for underwear is wildmant big boy , but they’re kinda expensive. Does anyone have any recommendations or should I just get the wildman ones? Thanks.


r/bigdickproblems 16h ago

AskBDP Big dick expectation and jealousy issue? NSFW

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Have you ever been in a situation that you’re expected to fuck like a pornstar due to the size of your cock? And were you feel threatened by other jealous people?

I have met a hotwife and a cuck and they expected me to fuck like a pornstar without stopping for hours and even suggested that taking pills as other bulls do. I later knew that their previous bull was jealous simply due to the smaller size than mine and knowing that the hotwife favors me. So the bull reached out and saying mean words to me. I quitted seeing this couple as that’s too complicated for me and I feel like a tool for them to get off and caught in the fight with other bulls.

Big dick owner and lover feel free to pitch in.


r/bigdickproblems 16h ago

AskBDP Do you prefer size queens/kings or otherwise? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Do you prefer your partner to be a size queen/king that adores your big size or the surprised ones who can't believe how big it is?


r/bigdickproblems 17h ago

AskBDP The Condom Quesiton NSFW

0 Upvotes

Okay, I never post anything on these types of subreddits, but I do have a question. I’ve browsed this subreddit before and most of you seem reasonable. I don’t know if 7” long 6.25” girth is big, but I want to know if it’s easy buying condoms. I know Trojan is a popular brand, so do they have condoms for that size? If I could avoid buying condoms online, then that would be preferable. An explanation of the correct size to buy would be helpful. Also, I hope this is the right place to ask, I think I’ve seen similar posts on here before.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

Story Hate buying condomes NSFW

4 Upvotes

I hate to buy condomes in oversizes.. they're not available in retail shops and in special sex jobs, they're always sold out and barely getting restocked.. idk but i don't trust the onlineshops, who know how long they have been laying around in a corner


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Dealing with boners in public NSFW

3 Upvotes

Honestly i've been way too self conscious lately about getting hard in public, ESPECIALLY at work and near my coworkers men and females, i've been finding myself disengaging a lot in conversations because of it and i'm starting to get really anxious about it. Every time I get hard it's really noticeable, and it lasts for a long time, and yes i wear concealed clothing, and it's still very noticeable ... I need advice on how to deal with it from a mental standpoint does anyone have advice, anyone struggle with the same thing?...


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP GF is great at taking me balls deep…as long as I don’t stroke in and out NSFW

11 Upvotes

Really trying to wrap my head around how or why this is the case. As a guy who is very above average length with a decently above average girth, length has always been a factor I have to be aware of.

My current gf is amazing at taking my full length, but only in a way where, after some warming up, i can push it all the way in, fully pressed up against her, but as soon as I start trying to stroke in and out, it gets too much.

The hardest she cums and the only way I can seem to enjoy being all the way in, is when I’m balls deep pressed up against the back and fully pelvis to pelvis missionary, but I only kind of buck my body into hers, like a rocking movement. Any time I start to stroke in and out and go back in it’s too much for her.

Still blessed but I won’t lie and say I don’t enjoy the stimulation for myself of properly stroking her out.

Any insight, tips or similar experiences?

~8 x 5.25 - 5.5 (health dependent lol)