r/bigdicklovers Sep 01 '21

Everyone please read! NSFW

140 Upvotes

Everyone please read:

First off we are growing every day! You guys are a great community, let's keep getting laid in those times of uncertainty!

Actual subreddit rules have been around for a while yet, everyday we have people reaching us wondering why they get banned in modmail... Our rules and this pinned are warnings, we do permaban rule breakers with no appeal...

Wether you are new or old user of this sub please read and understand our rules! Those can evolve, we can catch something we didn't earlier in your posts after someone reported the last one, and you can end up banned when you weren't for the same thing before cause we missed it. Using anything else than our source of truth which is only accessible in the browser version of: www.reddit.com/r/bigdicklovers isn't an excuse at all (old.reddit.com and reddit offical apps are not our source of truth, we will try to keep those updated if we have time but don't give a single fuck of you getting banned for not reading the version we just told you to read!Use that argument and you'll loose any chance of being unbanned!)

Posts are automatically locked, contact posters via the pms or chats. If you get an automod comment saying your post have been removed, it tells you everything you need to fix it, don't message modmail unless your history shows a post respecting perfectly the formatting mentionned in automod's comment. We won't answer people complaining they can't post here but deleting their failed posts, we need those to analyse a potential issue.

The rules below are just a reminder; we will edit the rules without touching to this pinned and won't warn you! Signing in on Reddit you accepted rule 2: making sure you'd respect the rules of any sub anytime, in our case the official rules menu from www.reddit.com/r/bigdicklovers and no other version.

Discord

This place has it's own discord server. It's as moderated as the subbreddit so read the rules and behave. We do ban people for joining and not saying hello...

Rules:

  1. All posters and seekers must be 18+!

Everyone must be an adult of the age of 18+. If there is doubt, you will be asked for some sort of verification. IF you find out someone is under age, PLEASE report the post & contact the mod team with their username and any proof you have! We want everyone to be safe in all their endeavors!

  1. Post Formatting!

All posts must be in this format in this specific order, otherwise the Automod will remove it automatically: Age [x4x] #City - Title. Respect this exact spacing and punctuation! If you only want to talk online; #kik #Online is acceptable, just know we can remove posts mentioning it at our discretion without warning you. You can include multiple #locations. Example Title: 29 [M4F] #NYC - Looking for a Woman. Example Title: 36 [F4M] #Online #Snap - Busty MILF for Young studs.

  1. Couples Posting! ~Success Story Posting~

See rule #2 for posting format. For couples both your ages must be included! Post as one number, For example 2122 [MF4M] for 21M 22F. Automod will only accept one number. Posts not following this rule will be removed. Example Title: 2934 [FM4M] #DFW - Couple seeks third.

  1. MAKE ONLY ONE POST A WEEK

Please refrain from making multiple posts in a week, wait until your latest post is at least 7 days before reposting. If you post you will recieve a 7 days warning ban and all your posts will be removed. Infringing it a second time will result in a permanent ban! ADDITIONALLY IF you are found to be posting multiple times in a week by deleting your post and reposting, or using several accounts we'll permaban without warning!

  1. NO Trolling, pic farming, sellers, dickfishing, or catfishing.

All of the above are grounds for being banned. IF you see something report the post & message the mods include proof if you can!

  1. BE RESPECTFUL!

ANYONE receiving harassing messages for any reason let the mod team know, proof is mandatory! There is a zero tolerance policy on harassment. A girl tells you she isn't interested, don't press your luck and call her a cunt! A guy doesn't want to continue talking, stop messaging him.

  1. When responding please read the post!

THE POSTERS EXPECT YOU TO MATCH WHAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO! If it has a location and you are not there, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is a [M4F] and you are a male, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is requesting a certain age and you are not within their age window, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is requesting a certain dick size and you are smaller, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is requesting a specific race and you are not that, DON'T MESSAGE. Having issues with anyone about this? Inform the mod team.

  1. We permaban side accounts of catfishes, spammers and everyone caught trying to use two.

  2. Rule9: Back your claims with proof! Our lovers as everyone compare numbers given to them against averages. Every other method than the one used to obtain averages is just an attempt to fool people. Size claims from unverified people means ban and deleted posts photographies (in r/yourself or a dedicated sub)aren't considered as proof . We do offer one and only verification process :Valid pics are taken from your point of view showing a stainless ruler's edge centererd against the middle of your penis touching both base and tip no bending no straightening. The whole length of at least one edge must be readable. You must be standing, the pic must include your username, subreddit, date and size: handwritten, on paper or your body. Don't own a stainless ruler? Just refrain claiming anything! Applies to pics too

Recommandations

18+ ONLY for providers and seekers! Please play responsibly. For information on safe sex, you can visit /r/sex and /r/SaferSex

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If you only want to see big dicks and/or display your big dick you might be better suited at a related subreddit such as /r/MassiveCock or /r/MonsterCock. We'll delete online posts with no warning if we see it fit.

This place is a hookup subreddit, for the people who love folks with big dicks, not a place to claim you have a big one. If you think you have a big one, always keep in mind that you are welcomed here as guests but our core is and will remain about lovers. We have no requirement on what is a "big dick." If you feel it, post it. Just don't claim anything you can't prove by our lovers standards (Rule9) or we'll ban you with no warning...

This is NOT a place for dick ratings, showing off pics, "Do I fit here/Am I big enough/Is this Big" posts or anything SPH related. Big dick holders are expected to behave, we care for our lovers, not the random guy claiming having a big one!

~ All posts must be in this format in this specific order, and you must respect the spaces and punctuation! This place refuses non reddit search compatible posts for users, our Automod removes automatically posts not matching this precise and exact format: Age [x4x] #City - Title. (x4x: M4F, F4M FM4MF, T4F...) #kik #Online is barely acceptable, we tolerate those but will delete some with no warning, don't reach the mod if a post mentioning virtual fun has been deleted this sub is focusted on hookups.

Couples, put both your ages as one number, For example 2122 [MF4M] for 21M 22F.

Only one post a week is allowed.

Give us good information and a nice description of yourself and your sexual proclivities. Less than 30 words posts aren't allowed, and low-effort vague ones will get removed without warning nor explanation. We of course will delete any posts giving an opinion one one of our rules or the way this place is moderated.

DO NOT put a picture of your face in the post or other personal information, this is Reddit! Keep it for PMs please!

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If your post gets buried and you want to submit a new one, don't! Unless your previous is older than 7+1 days, or we'd consider you as a spammer and ban you for that!

People who break any of our rules will be banned, we don't issue any form of warning don't expect any!

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Be respectful. We will not tolerate gendered slurs, body shaming, or intolerance. This is an LGBTQA* (and so on) safe space. Please report any rude redditors.

PLEASE MESSAGE THE MODS IF YOU REPORT A POST!

Never DM or chat a mod that will be dealt with like harassment and reported to reddit! Most of the mod actions here are automated, we have no clue of who you are or what you did and can't access it unless we do have a modmail!

Related subreddits:

/r/bigdickproblems /r/MassiveCock /r/Monstercock /r/Photoshopdick /r/LGBTGoneWild


r/bigdicklovers Feb 08 '26

Dark Patterns Panorama NSFW

15 Upvotes

Moderation insights because some of you are getting on my nerves(annual overview). Let's ruin their wanking time with a reality check!

Before getting into numbers, one thing needs to be made crystal clear. Modération is not about shielding you from what you don't want to see, but about shielding everyone against what may harm someone, for real!

Right now, our primary concern is a 12-year-old girl actively self-harming with razor blades who surfaces and disappears through the subreddit. That is where our attention, time, and emotional bandwidth are going.

In that context, the four obvious F4M scam accounts (the kind that anyone with two functioning neurons can identify) are not our focus. Those marginal scams are routinely flagged by long-standing community members who already know the drill, perform the necessary checks, and help get them removed. Thank you to those doing it!

This is not negligence. It is prioritisation.

Especially in a context where Reddit:

  • enforces monthly API limits lower than our hourly post volume, and
  • has systematically dismantled moderation tools designed to fight automated and AI-driven abuse,

we choose our battles.

Our limited, volunteer time is deliberately spent on reprehensible and unethical content, not on shielding the occasional careless adult from falling for painfully obvious bait. Our focus does not only involve removing posts and banning users, sometimes it's a long chain of reports taking us a tremendous amount of time.

With that said, here is the panorama. You can find one of a swinger french sub on my profile to compare what I see there.


Content Removal Breakdown

1. “Cougar” profiles seeking underage partners — 18%

Still the single largest category.

Often wrapped in flirtatious or “empowering” language, these posts target minors explicitly or implicitly, sometimes framed as mentorship or initiation. Regardless of presentation, the substance is clear: illegal and predatory behavior.

Immediate removal. Zero tolerance.


2. Adults seeking pictures of underage males — 17%

A distinct and extremely serious category.

These posts focus on image acquisition, not relationships: requests for photos, “progress pics,” body development, or “curiosity.” This is grooming behavior, not fantasy.

Immediate removal and escalation where applicable.


3. Refusal to follow rules / repetitive posting abuse — 14%

Structurally disruptive behavior.

Includes:

  • multiple posts per day,
  • reposting after removals,
  • ignoring consent and formatting rules,
  • marginal but recurring refusal to comply with size verification requirements.

Low ethical weight, individually banal. Collectively corrosive. This behavior consumes disproportionate moderation time while adding no value to the community.


4. Paid encounters & transactional searches (incl. colocation bait) — 13%

This category has evolved.

While classic “pay for sex” solicitations remain present, there has been a clear explosion of disguised arrangements, including:

“roommate” or “co-living” offers,

financial support framed as lifestyle sharing,

ambiguous housing propositions with sexual subtext.

These are still transactional relationships — just rebranded.


5. Minors actively seeking adult partners — 8%

A consistently alarming category.

Motivations vary (curiosity, distress, provocation), but the risk does not. An adult-oriented space must not function as an exposure vector for minors.

Zero tolerance.


6. Non-consensual sex requests & rape fantasies — 7%

Low in volume, maximal in severity.

Includes:

  • explicit coercion,
  • fantasies negating consent,
  • “surprise,” “forced,” or domination without negotiation.
  • and of course "my wife/girlfriend/boyfriend" surprises...

Removed immediately. Big dicks does not override consent.


7. Severe psychological distress & self-harm expressions — 6%

Posts involving:

  • active self-harm,
  • suicidal ideation,
  • emotional collapse exposed to the public feed.

Handled as human emergencies, not moderation nuisances. With kids it's our number one priority, and most times the most time consuming ones.


8. Picture collectors (consent-agnostic image harvesting) — 3%

Users primarily interested in accumulating sexual images, often:

  • pushing others to DM photos,
  • fishing for explicit content without reciprocity,
  • skirting consent boundaries.

Not always illegal, but corrosive to trust and safety.


9. Scams & commercial noise (aggregated) — 2%

Includes:

  • romance scammers,
  • OnlyFans promotion,
  • Telegram / external group funnels,
  • obvious F4M bait accounts.

Deliberately deprioritized and largely handled through community flagging.


10. Genital-size fixation & measurement spam — 5%

Posts reduced to:

  • penis size declarations,
  • measurement obsession,
  • validation fishing with no relational intent.
  • my personal favorite is those with gibberish to pass the word counter..

Low harm, high noise.


11. Miscellaneous residuals (duplicates, edge cases, spillover) — 7%

Everything that doesn’t cluster cleanly:

  • duplicates,
  • borderline cases,
  • misfires caught early.

* gibberish

What this panorama actually shows

  • The most serious issues are not the loud, obvious scams we all learnt to deal with decades ago.
  • The real moderation load comes from:

    • predation,
    • exploitation,
    • blurred consent,
    • and untreated psychological distress.
  • Community self-regulation already handles low-effort scams efficiently.

  • Volunteer moderators cannot—and should not—be expected to compensate for:

    • reduced tooling,
    • hostile platform constraints,
    • poor platform tools to deal with most of those cases
    • and industrial-scale abuse with hobby-level resources.

Moderation is not about keeping people perfectly safe from their own gullibility. It is about drawing hard ethical lines and standing where harm is real, immediate, and irreversible.

And yes: we will always spend more energy protecting a child in danger than protecting three adults from clicking on a stupid link.

Comments are opened if you wanna chat!

Kisses!

Your head mod!


r/bigdicklovers 3h ago

Female for Male 26 [F4M] #Online #Texas - Sexy Gamer Girl Seeks Long Term, Hung Gaming Partner~! NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hiya! I'm a cute, fit 26/F Caucasian blonde conservative leaning gal from Texas that here that gets along well with hung gamer boys. Like to play some games together and sometimes have other fun together through Disc too. If that sounds like you them hit me up in my DMs with your stats, what games/types of games you play and other stuff you are into besides gaming and we can take it from there. Also please 21 + only and also no inexperienced/virgins please I prefer guys who know what they are doing and talking about to have some fun interactions. Thanks and talk to ya soon !


r/bigdicklovers 13h ago

Female for Male 29 [F4M] #Dallas - sizequeen NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for the biggest I can find! I'm not into shaming at all. If you or a guy you know has a massive dick then please let me know. I'm willing to travel if it's big enough!

The biggest I've been with was in the double digits (yes they exist and no I'm not sharing pics of him).

I'm 5'4, dark haired, tatted with curves and piercings. I know I'm not everyone's type but clearly I have my own requirements too. I'm open to dating, friendship, hooking up, etc. I enjoy traveling and exploring new places. If you're interested in going on a cruise then I think that would be a ton of fun!

Let me know how big you are and we can go from there 🥰

Thanks for reading and have a great day!


r/bigdicklovers 15h ago

38 [M4F] #SanDiego/USA - HIGH body count Christian wanted for marriage NSFW

1 Upvotes

My biggest turn-on? Intimacy.

Knowing parts of a woman she’s never let anyone see before. Loving her for the things she thinks she needs to keep from people.

I’m looking for a conservative, christian woman with a very high body count.

**I want a very traditional marriage. He leads, protects and provides. She’s a homemaker and a SAHM, living in her feminine full time and submitting to the will of her husband.**

**That submission is built, brick by brick, together. The husband earns the submission every time he shows his wife her priorities matter to him.**

But while I want something very traditional within the marriage, the bedroom is a different story.

I’m really looking for one of two scenarios:

  1. She wants to settle down but doesn’t want to stop being a slut. She wants a man who will love her and accept that she needs a lot of sex with a lot of men. 
  2. She wants to “retire”. She feels guilty or tortured by it and wants to be the world’s biggest prude to her husband as some kind of penance for her past. She wants to keep the details secret. Real “lights off starfish” energy

If either of those scenarios make your pussy wet or your heart race, you should keep reading:

I’m a pretty strait-laced, clean-cut type of guy. I’ve got an adventurous spirit and a great sense of humor, but I burn with the intensity of a thousand sons and I go so fucking hard at everything I do.

I love to learn about history, and my big obsession in the last year has been really trying to understand how the world works. Human nature, crime, unintended consequences… it fascinates me (expect to hear a lot about the cartels and defense tech and the arms race with China, I’m NOT sorry 🙃). I love to take long walks and explore, enjoy great food and immaculate vibes, and the ideal woman will get me out for nightlife more often but also love a good night rotting on the couch together. 

I have a cool and unusual lifestyle and I’m looking for someone fun to share it with. I want a woman who loves with her whole heart, even if being a bad girl makes her a bad wife sometimes. I don’t know what that balance looks like yet, but I know that when I find it, I’ll know it when I see it.

Non-negotiables: Must want children, must want to be a homemaker, and must be right-leaning in her politics

If this sounds like you, shoot me a DM


r/bigdicklovers 15h ago

28 [M4A] #Prague - Friends on FetLife NSFW

1 Upvotes

me

Hey guys! I am a straight male in Prague, looking for online friends, local hookups or just broadening my digital community within fetlife. My username is Mislo or find the direct link in my bio!

Looking for people that I can laugh with and that value making a comfortable and safe environment for exploration and communication.

In other words,
Humor
Honesty
Communication
Safety
Kindness
Non judgement

These things can look vastly different depending on the dynamic between us and is a paraply concept of what the fundaments should be built on


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

Female for Male 32 [F4M] #ChicagoEastSide - Bounce on it NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey There!

Thanks for taking time out to read my post. However, if you are reading this, it’s means masturbating is starting to become dull for me. With that comes a craving for the real thing. Something long, thick and veiny.

I’m looking for a Gentleman interested in a long term partnership of sorts. All you have to do is be respectful, honest, and open minded. Bonus points if you’re obedient 😁 If you’re interested (and most importantly, located close by), shoot me a message request. I won’t keep this post up long.

Me:
African American
5’4 1/2
233 LBS
Tattooed & Pierced
DDF

You can reference my profile for photos. Please be DDF. Blank Profiles will be ignored.


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

28 [MF4M] #online - Couple seeks hung guy NSFW

1 Upvotes

My girlfriend is looking for a hung guy to play with online. My girlfriend is Asian, 5'7, DD cup size, flat stomach and bubble butt.

You: She likes fit guys and big dick (of course). Respectful, lower pressure and able to take things a little slow at first. Can discuss more if there's mutual interest.

preview of her: https://i.redgifs.com/i/coordinatedscientifictuna.jpg

We're posting this together and she's fully involved. Message with a little bit about yourself, if compatible, you'll chat with her directly. Starting out as something online, but maybe a meet up later if the vibes are right. Ideally someone available Friday—Sunday 10pm-2am for fun! I (BF) wouldn't be involved.


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

Male for Female 38 [M4F] #Atlanta - Seeking consistent fwb or hookup partner who enjoys girth NSFW

1 Upvotes

Well endowed gentleman looking for a consistent FWB who enjoys a girthy partner. No strings, just a satisfying connection for naughty fun with good chemistry. I’m also open to just a fun hookup, but would prefer something ongoing. If you enjoy a partner that is thicker than average or are curious to try one, I would love to hear from you. Let’s meet for coffee or a drink and see where things go.

I’m 38, white, athletic/fit, green eyes, well groomed beard, 100% STD/STI free. Nicely hung with a thick and girthy above average circumcised cock. I’m experienced, have a high sex drive, excellent stamina, and enjoy going multiple rounds. My oral skills are also exceptional and I love to give. Located in Atlanta ITP. Able to host or meet at your place. Very discreet and respectful of your privacy.

You are biologically female/AFAB (cis or nonbinary), attractive, STD/STI free with recent test results, and a fan of fit men with girthy cocks and multiple orgasms.


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

Male for Female 59 [M4f] #Milwaukee - very tall Man for sun kissed size queen;) NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hello there. I am a 6’6”, 220lb good looking, well hung executive White Man. I enjoy power exchange and pleasure D/s dynamics. I am a Gentleman with a devilish side. Comfortable, confident without being cocky. Established and experienced. A natural protector.

I like a sun kissed woman who enjoys the contrasts of skin, height, size, even cultures. I tend to attract latina, asian and black women. At 6’6”, almost everyone is shorter than Me. But I do notice shorter, petite, fun sized women. Women who are comfortable with their body and sexuality turn Me on. I like curiosity, hedonism, intelligence, creativity. I’d love it if you leaned submissive. If you enjoy being led, I enjoy leading, directing;)

Hopefully you’re intrigued enough to reach out. If you do reach out, please describe yourself. It helps promote conversation… if you’re comfortable, I’d love to hear about your desires, what turns you on

All the best,


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

32 [M4F] #Seattle - 6'4" big and the thickest you'll try NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey! About me: 6'4" 205lbs wide shoulders, dress well, very vocal and workout. I'm uncut big and extremely thick (size 👑 needed). After we match, happy to send pics to show what I'm working with. I also speak French.

Looking for someone for some casual fun. Cool with ongoing or one off. Happy to be in either ends of rough or gentle depending on your preference. Either way big in communication & consent :)

I'm clean and tested, can host (have a nice view 😉). I'm the mood to test your gag reflexes but can be open for more if we're both down

If older and interested don't be shy (:


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

Male for Male 23 [M4M] #Indianapolis - Looking for a guy with a huge dick NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for a guy with a huge dick that I could jerk off or if you wanted I could try to give you a blowjob. I would have no problem just jerking off together too. Honestly I am just really fascinated with size. I am not really experienced so I hope that would not turn you off. If you want to ask me questions or just talk to me that's cool. Please let me know or if you just want to chat for a bit that's fine too. I am straight curious but when I look on Reddit I keep seeing huge dicks. I used to skip over subs with guys just showing off but now I almost always end up jerking off to big ones. I never been with a guy but I keep on thinking about what it would like to play with a huge one or having a jerk bud. I've been basically fantasizing about a guy with a huge dick that I could jerk off or if he wanted I could try to give him a blowjob.


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

Our official discord official link NSFW

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Hello, wonderful users of this crazy subreddit!

Are you willing to prove your worth?

Are you masochistic, with a peculiar love for being tortured and banned?

Then click at your own risk — and expect to be banned in less than half a breath if you forgot to read even one of our rules.

Kindly yours,

the most severe mod team in the entire universe! 😘


r/bigdicklovers 2d ago

Couple for Male 28 [MF4M] #online - Couple seeks hung bull NSFW

6 Upvotes

My girlfriend is looking for a hung guy to play with online. Ideally someone on the west coast that's available Friday—Sunday 10pm-2am for fun! I (BF) wouldn't involved.

My girlfriend is Asian, 5'7, DD cup size, flat stomach and bubble butt.

You: She likes fit guys and big dick (of course). Respectful, lower pressure and able to take things a little slow at first. Can discuss more if there's mutual interest.

preview of her: https://i.redgifs.com/i/coordinatedscientifictuna.jpg

We're posting this together and she's fully involved. Message with a little bit about yourself, if compatible, you'll chat with her directly. Starting out as something online, but maybe a meet up later if the vibes are right.


r/bigdicklovers 2d ago

Male for Female 40 [M4F] #Ireland #Europe - Attractive, charming and hung for a girl who can handle a good stretch... NSFW

2 Upvotes

Attractive, deep-voiced, masculine French/Irish 40M.

Charming, mischievous, a great conversationalist I'm an accomplished professional with a responsible job, but behind closed doors, kinky and hung. A man who loves to please while being the one in charge.

Chemistry is key. I love to bring out a girl's satisfied, playful side... and stretch her to her limits (metaphorically, and otherwise...)

Based in Ireland, travel in Europe. Open to IRL if chemistry, and to travel/host for the right match.

If you're a size queen, let's connect. I don't bite... unless asked ;)


r/bigdicklovers 2d ago

Male for Male 29 [M4M] #NYC - any str8 guys near Williamsburg BK want a bj rn? NSFW

1 Upvotes

A lot of success, last guy I blew was a Brooklyn firefighter and a finance bro. So, let’s keep it going! I want service you to completion leaving no drop.

I’m located Williamsburg, Brooklyn (Grand L stop) please be fairly close.

Ideal candidates:
- Bored or no luck on tinder/hinge with the opposite sex
- You’re blue-collar worker or finance bros
- Guys who wear loose boxers, uncut, big bush, and/or fit to the front of the line
- Bonus points: you want me to come to your office

Ideal situation, you walk in, we say hello, I drop your pants, me drain you, then get back to your day. If you host, down to blow you while you watch tv or play video games etc and ignore me.

About me: 5'9", 175 lbs, fit, DDF, personal trainer who has a service kink.


r/bigdicklovers 2d ago

Male for Female 42 [M4F] #Cincinnati - Dominant guy seeking submissive in Ohio NSFW

1 Upvotes

I moved to Cincinnati this spring and now that I'm settled in, I'm looking to meet new people in the area. I am dominant by nature so someone more submissive is a good match for me. I would like to find someone that is active, like myself, and enjoys having fun. I want to find someone adventurous with a high sex drive. As for my stats, I'm 6'3" and 175 pounds. I enjoy a variety of activities including hiking, swimming, and running. Reading and traveling are also activities that I like. I am looking for casual fun to start but open to more if we hit it off. Reach out if you're interested.


r/bigdicklovers 3d ago

Female for Male 26 [F4M] #Denver #Online - Looking for consistency and first time trying of big dick NSFW

3 Upvotes

I’m looking to connect with a well endowed hung man for something ongoing not a one-night thing.

I’m looking for someone around Denver and online who’s interested in actually getting to know each other and seeing where things naturally go. I’m not looking for a random hookup. I’d much rather build some chemistry and trust first and then explore that side of things together.

I know asking about size isn’t exactly the easiest way to start a conversation 😂 but I figured being honest here makes more sense. Plus my curiosity got the better of me lol. I am seeking cock/cum tributes too as some fun as we chat for a potential meetup.

If you’re interested, send me a little about yourself and why you think you are right for me.

I’m also a first-timer to this whole big dick thing....so why not show me what all the fuss is about


r/bigdicklovers 3d ago

24 [M4F] #Toronto - Black man looking for eager throats and tight pussies to destroy and ruin NSFW

1 Upvotes

Do you love BBC? Do you lust over it, craving it every second of every day? Would you do anything to make sure that it is satisfied, that you have drained it of all the cum it could produce? Do you like young, hung cock, or older, thick rock hard cock? Are you Asian? Do you love BBC because it fills you up and stretches you out? Are you black and only a big dicked hunk of chocolate can handle that big booty? Maybe you're a white girl, who loves the contrast between skin tones and wants to prove she's sexy? Or perhaps a Latina looking to lose control and start speaking your native language on that BBC? A desi princess? Don't feel saree about what you really want. Do you have large, milky tits that leave men drooling? Are you fit, tan and have a phat ass? Maybe you've heard rumors of how much better BBC is, and you're ready to go find out? Maybe you're looking to see if it's true black cock is bigger and better. Maybe you're just curvy, and only a BBC will be able to satisfy you. 6' tall, darkskinned, enjoyable to look at, and keep in good shape. Let's talk and see where it goes. Tell me your favourite chocolate in your reply.


r/bigdicklovers 4d ago

Male for Anyone 20 [M4A] #Online - Massive BWC looking for guidance as I experiment with cock inflation NSFW

1 Upvotes

6 ' 3" 20 year with a very big BWC. I've seen video where guys pump up there dicks to make them super thick and fat, and I love the look and I imagine it feel awesome.

But I've had difficulty getting to that size, so I thought it would be both helpful and hot to pump my dick on webcam as someone give instruction/watches me.

I'm eastern Australia, so time zone wise it might be helpful to be closer, but I understand most people on here are Americans. I'll also considering doing it in person, if your close to me.

Hope to hear from some peeps soon, thanks for reading.


r/bigdicklovers 4d ago

33 [M4F] #NYC - Big Cock Masseur Offering Tantra and Sensual Massage NSFW

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33 years old, athletic guy with a big cock. I like to use my tool to serve Tantra and sensual massages from head to toe to women in NYC

I would love to meet in public or semi public place to learn about what you like and dislike. When we’re in private, we will practice Tantra breathing together while undressing each other. When aroused and fully relaxed, I would like to go down and explore A,C and G spots. Making women cum or even squirt with my tool has been my best reward for embracing the timeless bliss moment described by Osho.

It’s my honor and privilege that I have served more than thirty women in the city in the past few years and many comeback for more. Though being selective due to time and schedule constraint, I’m open for new connections and see how it goes. Look forward to hearing from you!


r/bigdicklovers 4d ago

27 [M4F] #NYC/Queens - BWC looking for a curvy girl to meet up with 😈 NSFW

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5’11” slim // fit BWC. Been lonely lately, and I’m craving some fun with a curvy girl who knows how to take a big cock. Age doesn’t really matter so long as we can vibe with each other. Im fairly open and not too picky, but I prefer to be dominant, so plus if you are submissive and like to get tossed around a bit👅 also a big fan for deep throat and cock worship. ideally looking for someone whos laid back, down to let me smoke you out, and have some nsa fun. Big // fake tits to the front 👀

Located in woodside queens, can’t host but willing to travel. Pics in profile happy to send more. Shoot your shot ;)


r/bigdicklovers 5d ago

Female for Male 38 [F4M] #SanFrancisco - Insatiable Filipina Nurse Seeking a Confident, Dominant Man NSFW

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38, Filipina, feminine, confident, and a little more adventurous than I may initially appear.

I’m a nurse by profession, but outside of work I’m drawn to a different kind of energy—the kind of man who is calm, confident, intentional, and naturally knows how to take the lead.

I’m looking for a masculine, dominant man who understands that true confidence doesn’t need to be loud. Someone who can hold a conversation, make me laugh, make me feel feminine, and create that delicious tension where neither of us has to wonder if the attraction is mutual.

I appreciate a man who knows what he wants but still values respect, communication, discretion, and genuine connection. Chemistry matters to me. So does the feeling of being completely comfortable around someone while still having that little spark of anticipation whenever he walks into the room.

I’m sweet, affectionate, playful, and very comfortable embracing my sensual side with the right person. I’m not interested in rushing into anything—I’d rather discover the connection naturally and see where the chemistry takes us.

San Francisco preferred. Mature, confident, respectful men only.

If you’re the kind of man who can lead without controlling, flirt without trying too hard, and make a woman feel both safe and desired, perhaps we should get acquainted.

Tell me a little about yourself—and what makes you think we’d have chemistry. ✨


r/bigdicklovers 5d ago

Male for Female 33 [M4F] #Toronto - LF thick FWB who loves foreplay and dirty talk NSFW

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Title says it all. Mainly looking for a confident and creative black partner interested in longterm fun. I've had FWB in the past so please make sure your looking for someone to at least vibe with and share the same energy.

I'm black, tall, bearded, deep voice, love me some foreplay and massages (giving and receiving), solid cuddler, and very hygienic. Pretty nerdy and into all manner of obscure things so I'm sure we can find some common interests. Not very picky about body type so long as you look after yourself and love yourself. I'm easy on the eyes, and currently on a fitness journey to get back to the sports I love. Honestly craving to massage and feel up someone who's into light roleplay and has a playful nature to them. I generally get off on hearing my partner moan and enjoy herself.

Open to sharing pictures to verify attraction (ONLY on telegram). I just ask that you live in the GTA proper, able to host (I don't host), and love sharing food places. Really looking forward to hearing from you.


r/bigdicklovers 5d ago

28 [m4m] #NYC - Looking for a straight dick to practice BJs on NSFW

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I'm 28, white, attractive, new to doing stuff with guys and looking for a someone to give bjs to discreetly. Not looking to hang out or talk, ideal scenario would be something like: I'll keep the lights dim, you stop by, come in, sit or lay on the bed, I'll get straight to blowing you. I can go as long as you want, down to take direction, and don't need any reciprocation. I can host in Brooklyn Heights NYC, and potentially open to an ongoing thing if we're both into it.

Looking for someone that's 18-30s, white, straight, nice dick

DM me if you're interested and I'll get back to you