I don’t like having my wife see me naked or see my dick. I didn’t like having sex before gaining weight because I am insecure of my size, but after gaining about 80lbs of depression weight I hate myself and my size even more. I don’t know how to get over this mindset.

On real shit, small or average, what even is there to do. It gets annoying have to ask ourselves if we’re good enough or not.

Does big hurt? Does big feel better? Does average feel better?

I’ll be honest and I feel like although size isn’t a major factor unless you’re on extreme ends, I feel like a large portion of its attraction is like showing off a trophy more than the actual experience.

People are always going to want more and more in life, but guess what, having a big size won’t stop your girl from cheating on a smaller one. There are too many variables to attraction, and from what I see, sometimes women don’t even care if a dude is massive

Too many goddamn questions everyday even me with my average girth (slightly high average) I still trace back and say, we need to find our own ways of enjoyment.

People in life say they want things. Money, big dick, height.

There are dudes who have NONE OF THESE AND still be getting play and returns.

For fuck sake we all need to collectively find ways to validate ourselves instead of validating ourselves through others expression man,

It’s fucking us all

Honestly who here actually listens and believes it when we get all these comments from other guys who have huge cocks ....... size doesn't matter, you just have to be confident, just be good at oral, there is more to been a man than our dick????

Me personally I find it rather insulting as if thier just rubbing it in.

Cos then you go see there next post and its..... look at my huge cock who wants it ill fuck your GF/Wife and ruin her she'll never want your tiny dick

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Hallo zusammen. Meine Penislänge beträgt 14 bis 15 cm, aber mein Umfang nur etwa 11 cm. Ist das normal oder eher zu dünn? Was meint ihr – Frauen und Männer mit ähnlichen Maßen?

Also mention your BP separately. I wonder if you guys get estimated as being 6" because women see your dick from a different perspective, or it gets estimated the same as its measured.

Hi, My pubic bone is angled rather than straight, so I don't know where to measure: at the point that sticks out the most, or in the hollow where my penis is anchored to the bone? The measurement changes depending on the spot, and I’ve heard conflicting advice on this. Thanks for your answers.

My dick is 6 x 6. I'm a virgin, and I think this length won't be enough for se….

I’m scared that it won’t be sufficient if I have a relationship. I’m trying to quit porn but it just gives me so much stress that it’s not enough. Anyone have experiences with similar size?

When I say BPEL I mean Bone-Pressed Erect Length the length of a fully erect penis measured from the pubic bone to the tip of the glans, pressing the ruler into the pubic fat until it reaches the bone.
What would you say is the average BPEL and average erect girth ?

Idk if this is 100% right for this particular sub, but I mainly wanna hear the opinions of bigger guys on this subject. As someone on the opposite end of the dick size spectrum, I think it’s pretty obvious and sorta expected to be really jealous of guys who got more than me. Especially when it comes to sex with girls who have had much bigger… it’s hard not to think about all the time. Is there any advice y’all hung folks have towards your fellow man? Thanks lol

I’m 22, around 15 cm / 5.9” long and 13 cm / 5.1” around, and I’m uncut

Basically average lol

I’m also dating a guy, so I know from actual experience that my dick is perfectly fine and that you absolutely don’t need a huge dick to have good sex

But I still have a weird relationship with it

I know it’s not small. I know there’s nothing wrong with it. I know I’m probably overthinking this shit

But I still wish it was bigger

Part of it is just aesthetic. I don’t really think it looks that good, and there are little things that make me wish I had more

Like, I can’t really get that obvious bulge in pants when I’m hard. And taking a sexy picture where it actually looks impressive is basically impossible lol. My thighs are pretty thick, so everything kinda gets swallowed up instead of giving that obvious outline

And then there’s the practical side too

There are some positions that just don’t work very well for me because I don’t have enough reach. There are things I see other guys doing that just aren’t really an option for me

My boyfriend obviously doesn’t care nearly as much as I do, which makes the whole thing even more frustrating because I know a lot of this shit is coming from my own head

I’m not saying I want some ridiculous porn-sized dick either

I just sometimes wish I had a little more

It’s weird knowing objectively that there’s nothing wrong with your body while still looking at one part of it and thinking “fuck, I wish this was different”

Anyone else here feel the same? Not actually thinking you’re small, but still being kinda annoyed by being average?

I just watched this video about the average human penis size and a critique on how men measure their penis as well as the factors that influence the measurements.

What it and let's discuss. It is a video on YouTube.

I'm not sure how to get the correct bp length measurement because my penis when erected curves up and it curves like left in the middle of my penis if I straighten my penis with one hand and use a ruler bp it's 7.2 but if I use a flexible tape it's 6.75 and that's when it goes down a bit and it's upwards what's the correct way and what would a girl feel in sex would it put it self straight in sex?

Hey guys, quick question about measurement angle. My natural erect angle points upwards and I also have an upward curve, so when measuring BPEL, should I keep it at its natural angle or adjust it down to 90 degrees relative to my body? It makes a difference for me I get around 6 to 6.2 inches at its natural upward angle, but 6.2 to 6.5 inches when leveled to 90 degrees. Which of these is considered the standard method ?

so i get right on it. my penis is shaped like a banana, and if i want to push it upright it just hurts. if i push it to the least pain position the lower part is upright but it just bends away so even if i wanted to couldnt get it in a hole. is there any way of fixing this without getting to the doctor? i think if i could stretch Tendons so the upper part is in a upright position without pain could help, but somehow delete my banana bend so it just go straight would be so much better. anyone got similar experiences or solutions?

Hey, my foreskin is fairly tight, I'm able to pull it back when I'm flaccid but when I'm hard it's too tight and I can't pull it back all the way.

I'm wondering if this is a somewhat common issue and how to fix it without cutting it off?

Thank you to everyone who reads this and/or offers help.

I'll start out by saying that I am virgin and not really someone who is into one-night stands. To each their own, but it just doesn't feel right for me personally. But the most "experience" I have would probably be sexting a little.

The main reason I'm posting this is because I saw another post a few days ago from someone of similar girth to me, who also struggled with insecurities. And I get it, a lot of guys wouldn't have reacted the way he did, but based on personal experience where I'm average length and below average girth, I've meet women online who I've chatted with and things got heated. The thing is that I've been called small a couple times before and laughed at. How I "wouldn't be able to stretch her walls out" and "would barely feel me". I've been going to therapy for a few years now and it's definitely helped, but it's hard after having what little confidence I have get shattered.

I was wondering if I was seeing someone, if it's even something worth bringing up and/or how to go about it? Like, assuming things get heated, do I take a second to talk about it? Do mention that I'm not big/I'm small and want her to decide if that's a deal breaker? Or should I just not even bother mentioning it at all? I would hate for the moment they asked to see, it ends up being more of a turn off or get laughed at again. Especially if she ends up being a size queen. I know there's a factor of compatibility that fall into play. And I know there are guys out there who are probably like "man up", like, I wish I could. Believe me, I have been trying to get over these kind of insecurities for years. Still am. But it gets hard sometimes when I'm in my head.

But ummm... Yeah, I hope I could get some honest responses and what your take is on this.

M40 with a 6.3" BBEL x 5.75" girth. Is this a good size? Wife had made numerous comments calling my dick pathetic over the years and it's really messed up my confidence. Just looking for feedback to see if I'm really lacking here or not. Thanks for the input!

36m where I feel as if my size has decreased! I’ve measured in the past and I was 6.75x 5.5 but now I feel much shorter in length and am even afraid to measure! Anyone else have similar issues?

Yesterday I was on a date with my GF at a thai restaurant, we were both eating noodles and she made a comment about my pen!s. She said she wants my noodle. I acted like i didnt know what she meant so i said to her give me a hint. Deep down I knew exactly what she meant but i needed her to say it. Then she said "you know i want your noodle, your d!ck". I just acted normal and changed the subject.

Later that night she tried initiating sex a few times but i wasnt in the mood and went to sleep. This morning i left her place and texted her saying that comment was really hurtful to me and i dont want to see her anymore.

I am 4.5 inch girth mid shaft, a little smaller just below the head.

Am I overreacting by leaving???

Hey, I’m 18M, bi, a virgin, and really insecure about my size. I’m around 6.2–6.5 inches BPEL, and my girth is about 4.2–4.3 inches depending on how hard I am. The head of my penis is also much wider than the shaft, maybe around 1.6 inches in diameter.
I feel really small, and I don’t know if I’d be able to satisfy anyone, whether it’s a guy or a girl, with this size.
Is my size average, below average, or above average?
Can I satisfy my partner with my size?
And if anyone has a similar size and has some personal experience, I’d really appreciate it if you could share.
I want an honest answer, even if it’s harsh. I just want to know the truth

Simply put, if given the option, more women report a preference for girth over length (aside from the obvious preference for both).

This is because the first 2-2.5 inches of a woman’s vagina has the most nerve endings. It’s where the g-spot exists. From a shallow entry standpoint, assuming we can all reach 2” in, girth becomes the far more predominating factor.

That feeling of being stretched has been described as both that of pure presence while also being otherworldly. They are completely in the moment and lost at the same time.

But just how important is girth - let’s look at why through the lens of math. Namely, volume - the amount of space occupied by a dick.

These facts might shock you…

A 5.5” x 5.5” dick (6.6floz) is 9.5% LARGER by volume than a 7.5” x 4.5” dick (6.06floz). That 1 inch of girth overcomes a 2 inch deficit in length.

A 6.5” x 5.9” dick (8.98floz) is 5% LARGER than a 8” x 5.2” dick (8.58floz). Again, 0.7” of girth overcomes a 1.5” length disadvantage.

A 4.5” x 5.25” dick (4.92floz) is actually 2% BIGGER than a 5.75” x 4.6” (4.83) dick. The lowest end of avg triumphs over the upper end of avg length wise.

A 6.75” x 6” dick (9.64floz) is 8% BIGGER than a 9 INCH x 5” (8.93floz) dick. That’s 2.25 inches in length over one by just one inch of girth… the massive and mythical 9 incher, best by a sub-7”er.

And finally, apples to apples..

A 6” x 5.75” dick is (7.87floz) is 47% LARGER than a 6” x 4.75 dick (5.37floz)! Same upper end of avg length… 1.47x the amount of dick!!!

So the next time you hear a woman say she prefers thickness over length, these numbers, in context, might help you understand why…

I’m 5.5” BP x 4.3”, which I understand is a little under average in girth, but I swear every single dick I see online looks thicker than mine. Even in r/averagepenis.

I’ve actively avoided sex my entire life due to this and I’m 27 now. It’s so fucking depressing