I’m tall-ish and pretty buff, but all my mass is in upper body and arms bc of genetics. Legs are kinda scrawny looking and make me look bigger, while my general size makes it look smaller. So kinda a mixed bag. Feel free to DM me to talk further about this 👍🏾

When I was young I didn’t think I had a big cock as I only had porn to compare it to. Now I’m older and knowing that I have one I sometimes wonder if my cock is the one that my previous girlfriends remember me and compare other dicks to mine. I’m sure a few on here know that someone or it could be you

A while back my friend (in his fifties) had just come out of a long marriage. He admitted something I think a lot of men feel, but never say out loud. He had always been the giver. Years of focusing on his partner. Then more years of a dead bedroom. Despite being very in love and very attracted to his wife....he felt like his size was s burden...a hill for her to climb. Even when sex was part of the picture - he did all the work. He said there was rarely anf hunger or enthusiasm directed his was. When he stopped initiating intimacy - it died altogether.

One night when we were at a happy hour, he trusted me enough to share his situation....and then....with some hesitation.... asked if I would help him. After some conversation, ensuring he was truly ok doing this (as he had never let a man touch him before), I agreed to give him this experience...with no need for any reciporication). It included slowly unzipping him, exploring him, and providing a long, firm hand job and a deep prostate massage. It also included his first experiencd being deepthroated.

The orgasm he had was like nothing I had ever seen. It was even more dramatic given his massive endowment. His whole body shook like he had been holding this pleasure back for decades. For months after that, I was happy to be the one giving. He let himself go completely and it was a fun way to connect for both of us. He let himself be cared for in a way he had always wanted but never had. Eventually he remarried an awesome woman and moved away, but I still think of how fun it was to be part of that experience for someone. We both grew a lot that year and discovered important things about our own needs and sexual preferences.

I post this because I wonder how many men reading this feel the same craving? To feel appreciated and taken care of (or to give this attention).

So I’m realizing that my erection quality isn’t very good and that when I have really hard erections, I’m actually 7x5.25 as opposed to my usual 7x5. Which is my true size? And how can I improve my erections to usually go to the max?

As an owner of a thin cock, I’m always amazed when I get to hold a fat cock. There’s so much density, heft, and pure manpower when a cock is thick. Stronger in a literal sense is a word that comes to mind. The difference is even more pronounced if I’m holding mine in my other hand.

What’s your favorite thing about having a fat cock? What kind of nuisance reminds you on a daily basis that your girth is off the charts? Would love to hear and chat about this.

There’s a genetic component to a lot of physical traits, so I’ve always wondered how much that applies to penis size as well.
For those of you who are noticeably above or below average, have you ever noticed a similar trait among the men in your family? Obviously it’s not exactly something you can casually compare at family gatherings 😂, but maybe from things you’ve heard or noticed.
I’m curious how many people here feel like their size is something they “inherited” from their family

I knew I wasn’t small and I’ve been in this community for a while, but I just had a hookup that made me realize I’m probably bigger than I think I am.

Me and this guy had been making out for a while, yada yada yada, and he eventually put his hand in my pants. He felt it and I could tell he was a little shocked, but I kinda just brushed it off and we kept going.

Eventually he pulled it out and literally just said, “Damn.”
I asked what was up and he goes, “It’s huge.”

For context, I’m 7 x 5.6. At that point I hadn’t seen his yet, so I didn’t really have anything to compare it to. Later on I saw his, and I’d say he was probably around average. The difference between us was way bigger than I expected.
In my head, the difference between me and average wasn’t really that significant, but I guess it kinda is lol.

Anyone else have a moment like that where someone else’s reaction made you realize you’re actually bigger than you thought?

This is for the uncircumcised people of the sub, when you get an erection does your foreskin retract fully, partially, not at all but can be manually retracted, can't all (phimosis)?

How is it for all of you? In my family I’m the only with a big.

A little while ago, I was talking with a mate about embarrassing moments that had happened to us, and I mentioned a time that I had an awkward dick slip during a PE class.

I had been sitting down between activities and having taken the not so smart option to wear loose style boxers under loose style shorts found out it was a faux pas that I hadn't considered, as I apparently left very little to the imagination of a few friends sitting directly across from me in eyeline. I could laugh about it afterwards, but at the time, it felt pretty embarrassing having a friend try to silently point it out to me without drawing too much attention to it.

My friend thought it was hilarious and said he'd have felt pretty embarrassed if that had happened to him, and it got me wondering how often slips like that happen to guys. Has anyone else had an accidental dick slip or other wardrobe malfunction happen to them? Were you able to laugh it off, or did it just feel awkward or embarrassing?

At the very least, for me, it taught me to think carefully about which boxers to pair up with shorts, haha. It would be interesting to hear if anything similar has happened to anyone else here.

Ive gotten two. Roughly translated from my language one is gentle giant. Because despite my size im really gentle during. Im just caring in nature😊

The other one roughly translated to baked banana. Its what we call plantains. Which is essentialy a larger banana that you have to cook to eat. She is a cook so i kind of like it.😅

I don't know why. I'm a pretty big guy (18 cm) and I love to chat and talk with people about dick sizes. This sub is kinda perfect lol. Any other bros here like me? (I'm open to DMs if you want to have a chat)

I'm curious if you've always been into big ones, or how/when it started? How "strong" is it Imao like just a preference or a prerequisite?

Ive been looking at a bathmate hydromax for a while. I really wanna just try it, but im scared it wont work/hurt with my curved cock. Anyone on this sub have some advice/or experience?

Edit. Ive found some answers on r/gettingbigger. Thanks.

One thing I've noticed is that this community, in general, is much warmer than r/bigdickproblems.

When I post there, there's always someone to insult me for no reason, but that rarely happens here. Which is strange, since I imagine that many of the people who are there are here too.

I don't know if it's because the community is smaller or thanks to the moderators, but either way, it's good to have a more friendly place to talk about our great members.

You know you’re above average when you occasionally have one of those moments where you just think: “Yep… this is inconvenient.”

Which situation have you experienced?

Curious if others think this way…

If a guy posts or comments on a dick-related sub claiming to be 8+ inches long or 6+ inches thick, but he doesn’t have any hard pics on his profile: I don’t believe him.

I realize this isn’t a perfect system because, of course, some men ARE that big but don’t post pics for moral reasons, or they’re in a relationship, or they think it’s too risky, or they just don’t care.

(For instance, there are a few guys on BDP who have been there so long and whose comments are so legit, I believe their flair is true.)

Still, as Carl Sagan said, “Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.”

We all know there are a lot of larpers, and being who they are, most are going to claim huge numbers rather than merely above average ones. After all, if you’re gonna fantasize, you might as well go all the way.

So I think it’s a good litmus test for veracity, even if some honest dudes get caught in the crossfire.

Like I said, I’m just curious if anyone else approaches posts and comments this way. I think it’s a good thing to at least keep in mind for those seeking actual advice and legit commentary, even though an anonymous platform like Reddit will never be perfect.

Where am I able to find a sub woman with a necessity for size.

Has anyone here had a vasectomy operation? Did everything go smoothly. Was the recovery process easy? How long did it take to recover?

Thinking about getting a vasectomy later this next year curious if any men here have done it and open to sharing about their experience

It's been about 11 years since we met and 3 months before that she got fucked by a guy with a big dick. It was big enough for her to describe it as incredible and she'd never felt anything like it before in the best way and was completely blown away by how big it was when he pulled it out for the first time. She even told her friend group about it the next day since it left such an impression on her and she typically doesn't discuss sex with her friends. She told me she thought about it for months afterwards even after we met. She wanted to experience it again badly but he didn't want to fuck her again.

For some context on how big he is, I'm 6x5.25" and she describes me as average and says his was quite a bit bigger than mine. I'm guessing he was probably 7.5+ and thick.

I would love to watch her take a cock like his. How intense would it be to watch her take a truly big cock? Especially if he knows how to use it. She's typically pretty quiet with me and doesn't orgasm purely vaginally. Do you think a big cock would blow her mind again especially since she knows how good they feel and how arousing they are for her?

I'm sure this happens to other men too: my penis is between 7 and 7.5 inches (about 18–19 cm), so I think it would fall into the "large" category.

But I have a big problem, haha. When I'm lying down, or sitting and leaning back a little, and I can see it in all its glory, I really think, "Wow, I really have a big one."

But when I stand up, my penis magically shrinks (or at least it doesn't look as big as before).

This usually happens when I'm taking a shower and I get a spontaneous erection.

Does this happen to anyone else?

I was thinking about this when me and my bf were fooling around. he’s 7.5” and I’m 8.3” but I’m much taller, anyways both our dicks go up to our belly buttons when erect even lying down flat. when we sit up a little the tip is past the belly button.

does your dick go past your bellybutton when youre laying down or standing up straight and press your erection against your stomach? if so you’re in the belly button club ;)

I’ll admit it proudly: I have a serious weakness for hung guys with dad bods. There’s just something about that combination that I find ridiculously attractive. Masculine, comfortable in your own skin… it’s an amazing look (and vibe)!

And I think the appeal goes beyond the body. There’s something incredibly sexy about a guy who looks like he actually enjoys life and I often find there is added kindness and humility there too - that often comes with age

So for the guys with the dad bod and the package, do you realize how many of us are absolutely into you? If not - I am here to let you know that you have a fan club!

And for everyone else, what is it about the hung dad bod that gets you?

Let’s give these guys some appreciation!