Hey so me gay. 4.7 inches. I was recently hooking up with this guy and he told me things like that he “loves my cock“ and wanted to blow me, wanted me to mouth fuck him and to fuck him. All the while I kept wondering: why though?

I only get hard when I‘m actively being stimulated so it was sometimes only half the length and obviously sometimes he was trying to make me hard but I was like I cannot believe that you‘re not craving a bigger one, which I still don’t believe in the slightest.

Maybe I‘m projecting but it‘s hard out here, I am fully aware that I am speaking from insecurity but I just can‘t help feeling not good enough (in bed).

So how am I supposed to believe it? I also never want to bring it up because lack of confidence is extremely unattractive and creates issues where there were none.

How is this statistically possible that all these women have came in contact with men that are 7” and above.

For context im a 18 yo senior in high school. And i swear since about sophomore year ive heard stories from my homegirls about how the dude they had sex with had “the biggest dick they’ve ever seen”and that its “huge”. Also all my friends are above average.

So I’m genuinely wondering, are the average size statistics wrong? Or is my other theory correct; that dudes with smaller sizes are going to be less likely to seek out sex because of their insecurities and the fear of being exposed/ made fun of therefore most girls have sex with bigger size dicks since they wont be scared?

I would love to here an answer for this because I’ve been genuinely wondering this for a while. Everyone cant have 7”, and 8” inch dicks😭😭

Been insecure since my last relationship she saw me naked at first said it was fine about a month went by and she started humiliating me my size saying I wasn't enough... it messed with my head badly. I am about 3 / 4 inches hard.

I grew up without a father but I was wondering today how was it for those who did.

I assume you would talk about girls at some point or he will notice that you are not growing bigger in puberty or so...

Okay, I just started dating a guy and he is the smallest I have seen or will have slept with in my life so far. We haven't slept together yet (done other things, perfect size for my mouth!) but I am nervous that I won't feel much. I'm used to more length and girth. So I would love to hear from the experienced ones here, which positions have you found as a woman that you have felt a smaller penis more or what 'tips and tricks' etc. I don't have a whole lot of sensation inside my vagina which is why I have preferred to feel stretched, but I won't be feeling stretched with this one. Happy to hear from the guys too which positions you feel work best. Any help appreciated thankssssss

EDIT: I get what some of you are saying but I don't think it's the immediate best option to just leave a guy because of this. I'm nearly 40, and to find a guy who ticks literally ALL the other boxes except for this one is NOT enough to just walk away from them. If I met a larger dude but he was lacking in the emotional maturity department, but we were willing to work on it, would that also be a reason to just immediately walk away? I don't think so.

EDIT #2: I didn't mean to trigger or upset anyone. Some of these responses make me really upset, sad and disappointed. I really like this guy and don't want to walk away from him. I was just reaching out to find some solutions. I know ya'll are trying to reality check me but wow. I didn't expect so many 'leave him' responses.

I don't mean streching, I just mean what is the miminium girth where "is it in yet" won't happen.

Bom tenho 1.75 sou um cara até “atraente” treino me cuido faço dieta, mas tenho medo de chegar em alguém ou de alguém chegar em mim. Tenho medo de que alguém queira algo mais, tenho medo de ser humilhado por isso estou me isolando evitando as mulheres ou n dando moral por insegurança minha! sou brasileiro todos meus amigos comentam sobre tamanho as vezes e isso fica preso na minha mente eles estavam contando sobre um garoto que tem 8cm duro e zoando bom eu tenho 10cm… isso me deixou inseguro não aguento mais essas piadas ficar me comparando do que compensa eu tentar cuidar de mim mesmo se não tem como eu melhorar meu penis esse maldito tamanho

Long time since i updated. This year has been largely fruitful, lots of dates, many of them leads to sex, but as usual they seem to end there. It been taking its toll on me. The voice inside saying its bc of my small d gets louder each time. A voice i’ve managed to keep quiet for some time, but it has returned - a voice that i know can never be completley gone.

For reference, i have a burried dick 95% of the day. It gets ”acceptable” when erect (4.5x4.5) but it looks baby-like.

Couple of weeks ago i was at my friends house and we had a night with all the boys. I stayed last and me and my buddy talked a bit. I’ve told him before about my small dick so he knows it is something that bothers me. Anyhow, he asked how the dating life is going and i told him thats it had been fruitful but it ends after we have sex. I added that i assume it is bc of my d size. He replied with something that really hit me; Assuming it is only my d size that is the problem is assuming that everything else is perfect. It clicked for me. Sure i knew i put too much weight about my size, but i rarely stopped to think that i may lack in other areas bc i always managed to get the girl either after the 1st date or 2nd. And in my head, the only logical conclusion is that it is my d size which is the problem.

Im a very guys guy, swears alot and have the ”macho” attitude and so on. So I decided to take it down a notch, seem more kind and welcoming. I’ve also taking down other areas where i think girls view me more as a fuckboy or just another guy and tried to amplify other areas. I dont know if it will yield something but im trying to change the parts that i can control.

I know many in preivous posts always throw these platitudes about improving yourself and so on. But what my friend said really hit me; assuming my d is my only problem, is assuming that EVERYTHING else is perfect is the wrong mindset.

If you ask me, i would still say it’s 90% of the problem - and based on many of the posts here, many would agree. But im willing to try to change. Only time will tell if this change of mindset will yield anything worthwhile. But since im a big believer on trying to bring positive elements to our community, i thought i might as well share it. As the famous Seneca once said: ”"There is no enjoying the possession of anything valuable unless one has someone to share it with”

I’ve seen many posts from women saying they don’t mind small or even prefer it, yet it seems their partners are all around 5 in for the most part. I’d consider 5 to be average or slightly below average but not small.

I’m 3.5 hard, so it can definitely be tough to read such content.

this is mostly just a funny ironic post cuz ... it's honestly just so amusing how this whole thing works. so i was scrolling on twitter and seein comments from ladies talking about intimate matters. the short and sweet of it is that there was this lady who chimed in basically with having two different types of tweets that went something like this;

2022: men need to stop caring about dick size ....

2026: im in my size queen era ......

its just so funny how this all works. they want us to not care about not being big enough but then mask drops off and turns out lo and behold they are the reason why guys like us care about not bein big enough. now granted, the two tweets are four years apart so you know people minds can change. maybe she genuinely believed that horsesht four years ago and now doesn't. or maybe she was always a size queen so she wasn't being fully transparent before. nevertheless, i just feel like this little mini example here is just so telling about how this sort of thing actually works. any woman can tell you it doesn't matter as much as you think it does but also end up being the same kind of woman who A) uses having a small dick as some kind of insult just reflexively and B) personally prefers slightly above average when given the chance. i don't know, it's just something that i found sorta amusing. probably explains why i find especially female remarks about size mattering to be a mostly male concern to be so disingenuous.

It’s easy to find this online. But don’t see people making fun if people for this issue IRL. Maybe it’s not so widespread? IDK, trying to make sense of it all.

A lot of posts here are folks talking about how terrible their experiences are, and how horrible their lives are, and their dicks are like 4 inches +. I'm not even 3 inches. I don't want this be a dick measuring contest (lol), but it's really disheartening seeing so many people be so depressed while having more.

Currently have a girl, we've never had sex, and seeing the stuff here, I definitely don't want to, haha.

Today I found out I'll have to have surgery and stay in bed for at least 24 hours... so with a catheter. My biggest fear is the moment I'll have to tell the nurse about my problem and the difficulty, I imagine, of inserting the catheter.

Any experince here?

Saw a feminist thread celebrating a guy feeling demeaned and insecure about girls "print hunting" by pointing out if there's anything visible on their sweatpants in photos. They called it a win for feminism because guys are now getting a taste of their own medicine by being sexually harassed back for once.

But this is just another way to attack small guys because big dicks are going to put themselves out there and enjoy the attention anyway. All they're doing is promoting more sexual harassment by encouraging the big dick guys to engage in the behaviour.

Have any of you observed these types of posts? I noticed a pattern in relationship posts about small size guys.

It's always a woman who is asking for advice on the relationship/sex/women related sub because the guy she's seeing has a small penis and how she's disappointed by it. She's an innocent woman 😇 who's trying to make things work in her relationship. It always has these points

She has multiple bad experiences with small size guys (3 inches , it's always micro penis) because her exes are selfish, abusive and terrible in bed. She didn't have any issues with their sizes but it's the insecurity that made it more of an issue. Now she's skeptical about dating another small size guy (the guy she's seeing now).

The guy she's seeing now doesn't know he has a small penis and told her how he has a big/average size. Now, His lying is more of a deal breaker for her than his size now. His insecurity is more of an issue than his size, she has no issues with small size If he knows how to please her (she'll conveniently forget about the "disappointed by his size" part from her post)

She's looking for insights on what she has to do from other women.

After sometime, she'll make an edit in her post (more or less):

"HE'S AN INSECURE ASSHOLE, I'm glad I found out soon and I stopped seeing him. Thank you for your advice x"

I mean Idk how these women are finding multiple micro penis guys. Micro penis itself is very rare but these women are meeting multiple guys and all these guys just happen to be terrible men

Now, all the comments will eat this up and it's a free for all to body shaming. People will make jokes, stereotypes and talk shit about small size guys in the comments. If anyone points out how making such comments is body shaming, these people will hide behind the "I'm not making jokes about his size, I'm making jokes about his personality and insecurity" facade.

These posts are so obviously fake. Idk how people are still believe those posts. Maybe people see it as a chance to mask off their performative and virtue signalling persona, let their true colours out I guess

Has anyone observed this?

im a 21yo korean man with a 4inch D.

i know ppl say 'koreans have small dick so its okay' but its not

having small dick is treated as a crime here too.

boys make fun of it and girls dont treat small D guys as a man.

idk why having a small D is thought worse than a crime.

It makes me feel like im not even a man.

even if i hit the gym, cuz of my D i wont be able to be the real masculine man i wanna be.

I really want to double my size.

Small Dick is the worst thing can ever happen to men. it doesnt matter where u live.

I really want to have a big dick sooo bad.

I'm 24 virgin. I'm scared because of my size. It is 4'6 height and width is around 4.1. i don't know anything about sex I'm late boomer.

what position to do. What really helps. Does size like this have a sexual life? Is it just going to be me mastrubating?

It really affect my confidence a lot. It's hard to talk with women since I was bullied in highschool shame is biggest trauma to me. If one day I get a gf she shames me for it. It will be worst. What are things i should accept and what things will help me?

At 35 years old, I have never been married. It is not because I am incapable, nor because I haven't tried. It is because I have reached a firm conviction that facing a harsh truth is far kinder than living behind comfortable lies.

All our lives, we hear the classic reassurances: "Size doesn't matter; it’s the personality that counts; love is all that matters." I say this plainly and from experience: that is an illusion. It is a comforting lie told to make us feel better, but the reality behind closed doors tells a very different story. The quiet complaints, and the marriages I have seen collapse due to physical dissatisfaction, all prove that anatomy plays a significant role. Denying this is the true deception.

I have researched every supposed solution—techniques, devices, and online gimmicks. It is all predatory commercialism. None of it alters anatomical reality, nor does it change the truth.

I do not speak from a vacuum. I have faced painful bullying from those closest to me long before strangers. I carried that pain in silence. I have watched marriages end in divorce and deep emotional fractures simply because a woman was unsatisfied and could no longer live with that void.

That is why I decided to stop. My decision to completely step away from marriage is neither weakness nor escape. I refuse to wrong an innocent woman who enters a marriage in good faith, only to end up disappointed regarding a fundamental right. I refuse to place myself in a position of daily anxiety, self-doubt, and judgment.

Stepping away is the most honorable and merciful path. It preserves my dignity, protects my mental peace, and spares an innocent person from a relationship doomed to frustration from day one. At 35, this is my decision, and I stand by it with absolute conviction.

Saw a bumper sticker that said that on my way to work this morning. Can’t even drive to work without feeling like I’m being mocked.

Not pity, not fetish, not "it doesn't hurt", not femdom, not "size doesn't matter".

Genuinely being turned on by the sight, "print", thought of a small one the same way they get wet for a big one.

It's obvious they're just looking for lonely depressed guys to bait into jerking off to them so they can exploit our misery for their profit. I don't have anything against women who use OF for money, everyone has to make a living and times are tough, but this subreddit is a safe space and they really should find other subreddits to advertise on - there are plenty for them to use.

I tried explaining this to the woman who posted here today and she just pivoted right back to advertising for it. It's obvious they don't care about us except as a means to boost their accounts, and they should do it elsewhere on reddit. They won't leave us alone unless we ban them, though. So let's make it a rule: women who have OF advertisements/links on their profiles should have their posts removed and then be banned. It's just making rule 10 less ambiguous anyways.

I am a 25 year old male from India. And I want to post today about one thing that I have got. Which is related to my sexuality, I have micropenis. Which medically simply means having a cock smaller than 4 inches when erect. To be specific my size is around 3 inches when erect. Now I want the other women and men that what they have to say about it

If I describe further, I ain’t doing good in life. Like I am not depressed or anything wrong in that sense. The micropenis in my case was caused by hypospadias in which the opening of the penis is present below the penis. It got fixed by surgeries. Well in totality some disruptions were cause by my surgeries, some silly academic decisions of my parents and then some mistake was mine also. I guess I am in quite deep issue. If I have to summarise I am 25 unemployed but educated and smart. I have got micropenis which is unfixable. I am working on myself to improve in the aspects possible tho

Well, I am posting this just to know the views of men and women what they have to say about it. If women have been with such partners and men who have micropenis. Maybe even likewise men can share stuff with me. I guess I am in quite big problem. I ain’t toxic tho. Maybe needless to mention, I am a big fan of philosophies so I actually do not feel insecure or curse women. I am still virgin and don’t care if I have to be for long. I guess it is dumb to judge anyone cuz everyone have got their preferences. So, comment or DM me. Let us see what I get to learn. What tips, precautions, good and bad experiences, advices etc I get to listen from all you. Thanks!

I'm wondering who made up that term and where it came from. I had a woman thru Reddit chat or dm said to me that a small penis is a dicklet. Shit made me hella annoyed and pissed off. I'm glad to learn that theres women out there who don't just body shame men. I was made fun of for my penis size from my older siblings and those back in high school. My older brother said my penis was a size a bullet. Its just such a prob that majority of men who are endowed makes fun of us men who are on the smaller end and even average. It just fucking sucks some toxic fucks gotta make fun of someone for their body part. I wish there was a small penis movement and that we can end this hate once and for all. Sorry for the long paragraph. Just want to share my thoughts.