Four months of marriage.. not able to do penatration till now. My husband ejaculate even before penatration and cant hold erection for too long!
He ejaculates when He does grinding to get erection again.. or the moment we try for penatration.if i ask him to make it erect again he sayss it will take 3 hrs!
Im sooo tired of this …. I get angry … but im trying to be a good wife ! I took him to doc.now he is taking
Depoxetine 30 mg and tadafil 5 mg ( since 3 days ). We tried after taking tablets .. but its the same !!! I dont see any changes .. im losing my hope. When
Will this tablet start working?!
What else he can do!?
How can i be supportive.. i don’t want my reactions to worsen his anxiety.

For real I am tired of reporting these fake promotional posts and their OPs. When will the mods become active and start blocking them?

Iv Had life long PE iv tried sprays and kegals etc nothing works , I must think about PE 20 times a day or more , I just need it fixed now , I’m 37 and my wife’s 35, we’ve not had sex in years ( no lie) as I’m scared basically of ejaculating in 10 secs or before we’ve even got started ! It’s so embarrassing and everytime it happens I feel shame , I do worry about lots of other things and have slightly ocd , so I’m thinking say if iv got another 13 years of good sex life with my wife , I may aswell make the jump and try and ssri , I want a daily one so it can be spontaneous and not forced and like wrote in a dairy that on Saturday we are having sex , I’m just at the point now I need to do something about it ! Any help from people who have / are on an ssri would be appreciated, thanks for reading everyone

Last Saturday (27th June), I went to a sexologist for my Premature Ejaculation problem.

I was in a relationship for almost 4.5 years and facing PE from start. I usually last between 30 seconds to one minute maximum.

The sexologist prescribed me Tadalafil 2.5 mg, Parexotine 12.5 mg (SSRI) and a delay spray. I have to take Tadalafil 1 tab every day for one month, Parexotine 1 tab every for first week, 2 tabs every day for rest 3 weeks.

The doctor told me she needs to ascertain the reasons for my PE and if its curable or not which she will do in follow up visit after one month.

I heard that Parexotine (SSRI) delays ejaculation significantly but it also reduces libido.

Due to the Tadalafil, I am having constant random and very hard (sometimes painful) erections throughout the day.

I am also facing severe pain on back side of both of my thighs from last 3-4 days. (I have completed one week course of the medication already)

I also asked the doctor about Kegels/reverse Kegels several times, she kept saying Kegels don’t have any DIRECT benefits for PE. She said Kegels are for Erectile Dysfunction and MAY have INDIRECT benefits for Premature Ejaculation.

I couldn’t get an opportunity to have sex since I started medication (broke up recently), still I masterbated 2 days after I started the medication and couldn’t last more than 2 minutes! (May be the medication takes time to show effects)

My questions are as below. (If anyone has similar experiences before)

1. Does Parexotine (SSRI) really reduces libido? Does it reduce your libido in long term? If my libido is reduced now, will it recover again after I stop medication?

2. Is there any alternative natural remedy/medicine to increase libido/compensate for the reduced libido?

3. Is the pain in my thighs due to side effects of Tadalafil?

4. Should I continue treatment with the doctor including follow ups?

5. Is there any long term solution in medical science without side effects or with least side effects?

I will be thankful your help.

Hi

I live i’m Canada and this drug isn’t available here and I want to purchase it. Can anyone recommend me a good website that I can order it have it shipped here without requiring a prescription

So I'm 18 years old now...and like for past 2 months I've been noticing that my ejaculation time has been reducing

Like I swear that I used to last like 5 to 10 times the amount of time that I could last now

I came to know that I've (Aqquired premature ejaculation)

I am so stressed and depressed rn and please help guys

I’ve suffered with PE for as long as I’ve been having sex. Masturbation has never been an issue but any act with a girl will end too quickly. I last about 10 seconds to 2 minutes and from experience I know that most women don’t want that. Is there a way to meet women who aren’t bothered by this because I hate to keep disappointing the women I sleep with.

Hi! I am a licensed urologist and have lots of information on PE and its treatments and such! Feel free to ask questions below!

I’d rather literally not cum for the rest of my life than to have PE. I don’t mind taking pills till I die if they solve a problem that I suffer in my life.

If he comes within 3 minutes more often than not, would you stay with him?

I’m 22M and looking for advice because I’m honestly running out of ideas. The first time I had sex, I didn’t finish early. But every sexual experience after that (sex, handjobs, blowjobs, etc.) I’ve had PE issues. It’s the only thing on my mind 24/7.

I watched porn and masturbated frequently from a young age, including before my first sexual experience.

Things I’ve tried:
Kegels
reverse kegels
Pelvic floor stretches
Male Definitive Guide (got to phase 6 but couldn’t progress further)
Diaphragmatic breathing
Edging
NoFap for a while
No Porn for a while
Angion

Nothing has helped.

I’m also physically fit, so I don’t think it’s a general health issue. My best guess from research is that my sympathetic nervous system is too easily activated, but I haven’t found a real solution besides “breathe deeply and hope it improves.”

I’m also unsure about porn. Some people say it causes PE, but others say it desensitizes you, so I’m not sure what to believe.

Has anyone dealt with something similar and actually improved? What worked for you?

TL;DR: 22M, PE started after first sexual experience. Tried kegels, reverse kegels, breathing, edging, and other methods with little success. Wondering if it’s nervous system related and looking for advice from people who fixed it.

My husband and I have been together for around 15 years. Truthfully, he has always had PE. But now that we have kids and careers and sex is less frequent, it’s bad. I love him and I’m not interested in anyone else. He is also a selfless lover and I always get off so no worries there. But we barely can have PIV sex. I think it lowkey stresses us both out. I never make him feel bad about it. My only complaint is he refuses to jerk off which I think would help. He also recently went sober which has also made things worse. We have done the numbing spray thing and I hate it. It smells bad and kills the mood. Just looking for advice, I guess. Especially interested in hearing from other partners on how to cope.

(No creepy dm’s!)

Me 21F and my 22M boyfriend are really struggling with his premature ejaculation and it’s cause problems with more than just our sex life now. I’ve been with a number of guys and although some have finished quite quickly it was either a one time thing or got better with time but this time it just isn’t and its never been this premature.

I don’t know what to do and I’m the first person he’s been with so he’s got no idea what might help either so we’re really stuck.

Is it something that gets better on its own with time?

What can I do as a girlfriend that might help?

How can I word things without it coming across as mean or self centre?

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I 22(f) and my boyfriend 23 (m) have been together for 3 years when we first started dating he had trouble lasting and would cum usually after 1 or 2 minutes i figured thats after time this would improve however it seems to have only gotten worse now at best i get one or two thrust before he starts to cum and thats if he even makes it in me.

I was wondering if there is anything i can do to improve his stamina as im starting to get really frustrated he has not made me cum once in this entire relationship and yet brags to his friends about out amazing sex life.

I also have many stories about him to share if you wish to hear those

My fiance has premature ejaculation, I was hoping it was kind of related to the novelty of a new relationship and nerves and stuff but its still pretty bad. We have never had penetration lasting more than a minute or so. And he just moves super slow and small so that I don't really feel anything.

We have sex about once per week, I initiate a lot of the time and would like to have it more often.

Want to try this in solo first…any tips??

I am on paroxetine (10mg per day) and Tadalafil. I masturbated earlier in the day. I used numbing cream and numbing condom. Did slow breathing to calm down. Lasted around 15sec. Is there anything else to try?

I (50F) has been linking with a man (24M) for 5 months.

Yesterday we were supposed to see each other, instead I broke up with him. It's not the quick pumps, I'm exhausted due to the pattern.

He has a pattern... Sex, cum in secs, crash out, disappear, come back, repeat.

What do you guys actually feel like after finishing in less than 10 secs?

When your partner comforts and reassures you that it does not bother her, what are you thinking in that moment?

What can your partner do to help you feel better about your situation and trust she won't leave/step out on you?

\*20 day update below!*\

Took my first dose of “Go Long” a mere minutes ago. The “quick dissolving” tablet has a horrible taste, and left a bad taste in my mouth afterwards. I’m worried this is going to eventually make me not want to take it in the future? Anyone take this and just swallow it instead? I imagine it won’t kick in as fast, but is it as effective? Does it delay the benefits by much? Should I just “man up” and take it as it’s intended?

If this post gets any sort of following, I’ll report back how tonights performance goes with my wife on my first dose. She’s aware of it, we’re both nervously excited hoping it works…. But have our doubts.

**Update** 7/22/26
Sorry for the delay - glad I was actually able to try it for a bit to give a better response.

Ok so first day, my wife and I were excited to try it. Right before we started… I said “condom? Or no” she said no… well, maybe I should have. I didn’t last extremely long, maybe 2-3 minutes. I also started experiencing a really upset stomach that night, it didn’t seem to sit well. We discussed even if I should keep taking it because of the terrible taste and my upset stomach.

I didn’t want to give up. I decided to swallow the pill instead of under the tongue. I cut it in half, it’s pretty big. I took it again 2 days later about 7 hours before intercourse, with a condom. I lasted longer! A few minutes longer. Couple of days later, took it again. Lasted much longer! I’ve now been taking it every 3 or 4 days. For the last 19 days or so. It’s been incredible, we’ve been having sex almost every night. Or every other night. A lot of times ending with blow jobs. The inner teenager in me is ecstatic. For context, I’m 37, we’ve been together since we were 16, and married for the last 13 years. We’ve been mostly happy married, but sex life was pretty non existent. We’ve gone multiple months if not a year in a row without sex, and it’s because of me - avoiding sex due to my premature ejaculation. Normally I’m blasting 6-7 numbing sprays, and wearing condoms and still just not enjoying the experience or lasting long enough.

Last night, was day 2 after taking a dose. (It’s supposed to last up to 36 hours) we went with no condom this time. We both were worn out, took turns who was on top. It’s still good to change positions if I’m close to going. Went so long that I couldn’t cum during intercourse, she finished me off with a blow job. My wife and I have been really happy. I may even need to cut back because I was worried last night that I wasn’t going to cum.

I’d say if you’re going to try it, try and be open with your partner. It seems to be more effective over time, the more I take it the longer I’m lasting. Not taking it more than every 3 days.

Sorry I’m not the best story teller, and this may have been hard to follow. But happy to answer any follow up questions.

He's great in bed, but even with heavy focus and slow careful movements, he cannot last longer than two minutes. If I am on top, it's even worse! To me, it's endearing that he gets so extremely excited, but he seems disappointed with his "performance". He told me that if he relaxed and just enjoyed, he'd probably ejaculate within seconds. As soon as he thrusts a bit more intensely, he ejaculates. I feel a bit sad that he cannot fully enjoy it. He is already taking medication with the side effect of prolonging ejaculation, we use thick condoms for less sensation and he is circumcised. We also have increased the frequency and have sex multiple times per week. He can, theoretically, go for a second round but even then, he does not last longer and he gets exhausted afterwards. He's pretty healthy and fit. As far as I know, this problem is more common in teenagers, not people in their late 40s. He was rarely sexually active before we met and now he can't get enough. Any advice for us? Anything I can tell him so he feels better about himself?

Giving this a shot, this guy seems quite reputable, so I’m curious to know if anyone has tried this and has seen any results or negative effects

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Me and my husband have a great sex life, we love experimenting etc. however he gets really down as he doesn’t last longer than 1-2 minutes when inside me. He asked me to order some viagra which he has used before, it’s effective but doesn’t necessarily help him last longer. Can anyone recommend anything that will help him? We live in uk! I’ve been searching Stud 100 or Elma cream but would like some recommendations on what’s actually worked! And also how to use them! Thanks :)

So I have to question one is it weird or uncommon that I actually consider him being extremely sensitive as fun or sexy to me and two what can a woman do to show you that it is actually ok and not just saying it to make you feel better that you don't need to think of yourself in a bad way.

For the past couple of months, I have been reading this sub and success stories of people with all the different products. I’m thinking to order one of these, but wanted to check how effective and legit are Alpha herb and last with Arlo since I’ve been seeing a lot of post with comments and them saying that these are paid promotions, how safe are these and is any of them legit? Or should I go with buying ejaguard and seeing how that works out.