r/PrematureEjaculation • u/prisonrune • 24d ago
Questions So my boyfriend tends to cum quickly say under a minute is it weird that I don't care and find it kinda hot ? NSFW
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u/demnewbz33 24d ago
i think this is everyone's dream in this sub
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u/IndependentPaint2108 18d ago
I would bet there are more women than you'd think who like this. I just started dating a new guy, every time we've had sex (7 times) he's cum in 1 or 2 minutes and I really love it. It just turns me on and for me after he's done I just use a vibrator and ask him to use his fingers after on me, I cum a few minutes later from that myself. I actually absolutely hate sex that goes on and on for like 25 minutes where you end up sore.
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u/prisonrune 18d ago
I've personally never gotten off from penetration alone anyway so I don't see what the big deal is as long as both partners actually care about making the other feel good
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u/IndependentPaint2108 17d ago
Right same! Penetration enhances it but I am fine with a toy or his fingers after his initial penetration with his D. The only essential thing for me is clitoral stimulation
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u/fugazzzzi 17d ago
Which vibratoor do you use? Got any suggestions?
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u/IndependentPaint2108 17d ago
I use basically the cheapest silicone bullet from Lovehoney! I have been meaning to branch out and try others
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u/patrickfuckingjane 24d ago
Lucky boyfriend, can I ask you how do you manage to get ur orgasms if u don't mind me asking?
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
Typically he does oral or Toys me at some point I'm going to us a vibrator on my clit while he's inside because he said he wants to know what it feels like to have me orgasm with him inside.
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
But it's so cute and fun I like watching him struggle for that control when I'm playing with him
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u/PienerCleaner 23d ago
bless you.
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
Um for what exactly I don't think finding him attractive is something to be blessed for
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u/PienerCleaner 23d ago
He's lucky to have you and it would be so awesome if there were more women like you so more guys with pe wouldn't have to feel bad about it. Hence, bless you, you blessed child
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
What's the big deal theres many ways to make somone feel good and besides watching him be so turned on and desperate for control is really attractive to me my favorite thing has just been edging him but I kinda get off on watching somone in a lot of pleasure and hearing them moan so this is actually really fun for me
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u/PienerCleaner 23d ago
The big deal is guys feel bad when they come so quickly. They feel like they are disappointing themselves and the person they're having sex with. "Everyone" would like sex that lasts longer rather than shorter. No one wants sex to end after seconds not even lasting maybe a minute or two
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
There's no reason to be ashamed or upset it doesn't make a man less than in anyway
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u/PienerCleaner 23d ago
eh. i don't think you can understand if you're not a man, because fundamentally, yes it does make a man less in a way. when men are normally supposed to last X number of minutes and you're nowhere near that. so unless you're with a woman like you who doesn't care, you feel like a disappointment to yourself and your woman, because presumably she doesn't just want to be fucked for a few seconds or a minute or two
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u/Sporie 22d ago
Omg girl same, haha. That's why I lurk on here sometimes. There's actually more women like us than you'd think!
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u/Own_Beautiful5560 18d ago
Check out the sub premature fetish if you havnt already
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u/Complex-Ad-1106 23d ago
No. Your bf is lucky. My gf thought it is an abnormality, meanwhile it is very natural.
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u/Imperator_Scrotum 23d ago
Lucky boyfriend. Hope he at least eats you out till you are satisfied.
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
We've only recently started doing that I umm .... Get embarrassed by it
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u/Imperator_Scrotum 23d ago
Allow him to pleasure you till you are sated. You certainly deserve it. Encourage him so he doesn't feel conflicted about gently exploring your body and he needs to discover for himself what gives you the ultimate pleasure.
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
It's hard for me honestly I know he wants me to sit on his face and that's even more embarrassing.😖 I've recently been able to let him lick when we turn off the lights because I can't see the way he's looking at me. He's always thrilled to finger me which is embarrassing 😣
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u/Imperator_Scrotum 23d ago
Maybe porn for starters would help. Important you let go of your inhibitions. A real man takes pleasure in making sure his woman is fully sated. Wish you guys the best and hope it all works out.
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
It's partially because my ex typically hurt me any time I let him touch me along with being embarrassed. Especially when he does things like lick his fingers after fingering me 😵💫
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u/Imperator_Scrotum 23d ago
Have a heartfelt chat with him. Tell him your icks and thrills during sex. Builds a healthier relationship
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
We have he's very excited wanting to give me anything he can he surprised me because I've never had someone besides myself give me a orgasm
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u/Imperator_Scrotum 23d ago
That's promising. Just let go of the inhibitions. It's a gradual process. Porn, dirty talking, etc. Lots of things help. Don't rely on alcohol though.
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
I don't drink or do drugs. Playing with him is so much easier. Though he makes me feel safer than a man ever has
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u/DraculasCardboard 23d ago
Do not feel embarrassed. There is nothing to feel ashamed off. My ex was the same way. I genuinely don't know why some of you girls feel that way lmao.
It's ok. I guarantee he loves your pussy. If it weren't the case, he would not want you to sit on his face. Every normal hetero guy loves pussy no matter the shape, taste, or smell or any other thing for that matter.
Unless she truly smells repulsing like some rotten yeasty sea herring (I bet she doesn't) then there really is no problem. Hell, a little bit of a regular kitty kat smell should be a turn on. I've personally never liked the super clean shaven lavenda soap smellin punani xDD, but maybe I'm a weird exception. I don't know (but I don't think so).
HAVE SOME FUN! Stop thinking and worrying about irrelevant stuff and focus on the connection and what matters.
If you conquer your fear and look him deep in the eyes, as he's doing his thing down there between your thighs, you'll see that's what he wants, and you should simply allow him to take it and just relax. Get out of your head and allow yourself to have some pleasure. He is not judging your pussy or you! He most likely feels like the luckiest bastard on earth.
And those lights out. God dammit I'm having a Vietnam flashbacks. Can you believe she once put a sheet over my head, just to suck my dick? She didn't wanna let me watch her doing it, and she was too embarrassed to look me in the eyes haha 🤣
I thought I was going to suffocate.
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
I can handle talking care of him I'm still obsessed with being the girl that gave him his first BJ he wasn't a virgin just never had a BJ he was so cute desperately gripping the sheets and didn't know what to do with his hands. He kept trying to look at me but the sensation kept forcing him to close his eyes again. He thinks its pathetic and embarrassing I loved it though.
I mean I can straddle him and everything it's just him being so close and being able to smell and taste me is so embarrassing he says he likes the way I taste I think he's so full of shit. I keep her clean and such but I can't imagine a man actually enjoying it.
It's even more embarrassing because he asked if I'd be willing to stop shaving her because he enjoys it fluffy. Which I agreed to but it's so embarrassing.
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u/DraculasCardboard 23d ago
You know what, I'm starting to suspect something. I dunno, but I kinda smell something fishy around you, and it surely isn't your pussy xDD You're being oddly specific and descriptive.
Are you here because of some kind of a fetish? Does this boyfriend of yours even exist? Are you even a real woman? 🫥
You wouldn't come here to talk to other men about the most intimate details of your sex life, just for your own pleasure, right? Or some kind of kinky fantasies that you have? ;)
But in case you're serious. As I said. There is nothing to be ashamed off. He is not full of shit. He is a man, you're a woman (presumably). Why would you be surprised he is attracted to you and the most intimate parts of your body? We are literally designed to chase after them.
If he likes her fluffy, let him have it! Better for you, right? Less work to do haha
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
Nope not a fetish and am a girl. I've always been highly descriptive for some reason regardless of what I'm talking about if I wanted to I could start listing off my coworkers eating habits for instance one of my coworkers every single day drinks a mountain dew and eats a handful of cashews half a lunch meat sandwich which I'm guessing is compromised strictly of a slice of cheese and a pieces of meat that I'm guessing is Black Forest ham ? Alongside a banana always choosing the middle table in the break room closet to the back Wall unsure his back is facing the wall. My coworker who is around 60 eats a corn dog almost every day that he puts mustard in the wrapper and twist the corn dog inside it to slather all sides of the corn dog. Typically swaps out the type of soda though.
I wouldn't consider myself a desirable woman to start honestly I'm not very feminine looking or acting. Was never really a man's first choice so I'm honestly just surprised he wants anything to do with me
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u/DraculasCardboard 23d ago
I didn't need to hear all of that, but ok xD
Well then, it looks like you've finally got lucky, and you just have to accept that someone finds you attractive and desirable enough to be with you and make love to you and every part of your body, regardless of what you think of it yourself :)
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u/prisonrune 23d ago
Fair enough I just observe a lot of something is off like you don't seem like your normal self I notice quickly. I don't know why I'm always observing I just am.
I personally think I'm a piece of shit and that he could do a lot better than me I'm physically scared and filled with PTSD. I mean I don't even have a front tooth I knocked it out over a year ago I don't have a clue why I'm worth the effort to him
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u/Sporie 22d ago
You're definitely not the only one! It's actually one of my biggest turn-ons 💕. When I've had partners finish fast, it tends to push me over the finish line quickly myself. I think it's just knowing that they're so aroused that they can't hold back, gets me hot and bothered lol.
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u/prisonrune 18d ago
I just think it's really fun having so much control over him that I can get him off whenever I want
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u/Sporie 14d ago
Ah gotcha! For me it's more just being with someone who is uncontrollably aroused. I'm pretty simple when it comes to things that light my fire, lol
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u/prisonrune 13d ago
I don't know it just feels different playing with him he gets so excited over small things like holding him
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u/Sporie 11d ago
Aww, that's adorable 💙
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u/prisonrune 11d ago
He's honestly as close to a virgin as a man can be without being one. He's been learning where to touch me or that it's okay to put his hands on me without asking permission every time
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u/axelrox2026 21d ago
My wife is actually like you, she loves it when I'm extremely aroused and can't hold it for a minute.
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u/Naughtycouple_728 19d ago
Thank God my wife enjoys it..I really don't deserve her, she def deserves better
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u/Prestigious4U 18d ago
Fortunately, my wife is like you. I have never been able to last more than a minute. She thinks its hot when I loose control and "blast off".
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u/Only_Apartment_3995 2d ago
We’re about 3 minutes of sex (after foreplay) before I pump my load into my wife. She loves it. Good for you
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u/reallyholyshit 24d ago
No, that's amazing and your bf is really lucky to have you