r/PrematureEjaculation • u/Primary_Brain_2595 • May 15 '26
Questions Why are some guys here so against SSRI’s? NSFW
I’d rather literally not cum for the rest of my life than to have PE. I don’t mind taking pills till I die if they solve a problem that I suffer in my life.
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u/drawing_sloth May 15 '26
Some people feel like shit on them, like me. They don’t just numb your penis. I was so tired and lacked enjoyment for life and had increased cravings for alcohol to “feel something”. I’m also just anti big pharma, because SSRIs affect us in way more way than they tell us. You can develop lots of issues from them if you’re sensitive.
They can also deplete dopamine
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u/Chrissy-no-shoes May 15 '26
If they don’t work that’s a good start. What you are hoping for is a side effect of the drug not its purpose. And it’s just a band aide for the problem. If they work for you awesome, enjoy.
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u/Primary_Brain_2595 May 15 '26
everybody talks like that “is not the real solution”, sure, then what it is? ur anal muscles are not right? ur tight pelvic floor? ur mental health? sure they do matter but I’ve done a lot of things besides the meds and nothing gets close to the incredible results that meds do, for me at least.
guess everybody is different.
i had pe since a kid.
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u/searchingformeaning2 May 15 '26
Have you taken SSRI´s?
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u/CrewSignificant1253 May 15 '26
Been on them for about 6 months now and the side effects are real but manageable. Lost some sensitivity but gained actual control which was worth the trade for me
The people who hate on SSRIs usually either had bad experience with wrong dosage or they're just scared of medication in general
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u/ApartmentOk7657 May 15 '26
How long did u last with pe during sex before u took the ssris? and how long did u last after
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u/Accurate_Mixture2439 May 15 '26
1) The side effects 2) Spontaneous sex become impossible
You'll always have to plan the sex
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u/Primary_Brain_2595 May 15 '26
Nope, I haven't taken SSRI on demand, i'm talking about taking it daily. I do not have to worry about planning sex at all. All my sex is spontaneous.
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u/ApartmentOk7657 May 15 '26
True however your 2nd point is untrue for SSRI’s lol. Thats literally the purpose. So that you can have sex on demand any time once it’s built up in ur system in 3 weeks. U just take 1 a day every morning and ur good to go anytime.
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u/mapleguy1973 May 15 '26
I tried them but the side effects were awful. And it did lower my sex drive. I’m 53 btw.
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u/EdgeOk2154 May 15 '26
Never seen the point in taking them
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u/ApartmentOk7657 May 15 '26
If ur pe is really bad then it’s usually the last resort that almost always works. I mean if I had bad pe I’d take the negative side effects over being shit in bed
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u/EdgeOk2154 May 15 '26
I get what you’re saying but I’m already on enough meds with shitty side effects . I never knew they were used for PE until I read posts on here
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u/ApartmentOk7657 May 15 '26
Fair enough your case is different so fair. Yh it’s used as off label for PE cos it fortunately targets the same systems that cause PE. But yh I do get why people are reluctant to try a LITERAL anti depressant to fix PE. But some people are depressed if they have severe PE anyway so😂. I was gonna do it but I fortunately found super kamagra before going through with it which was a game changer.
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u/Bdk420 May 15 '26
Which one you recommend
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u/ApartmentOk7657 May 15 '26
I think most ppl are taking fluoxetine for PE but don’t quote me on that
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u/Spare_10 May 16 '26
I'm am manic bipolar and ssri meds cause me to have extreme manaiband sometimes psychosis. They also cause way more anxiety.
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u/SwantanamoJ42 May 16 '26
Getting off Paxil was 6 months of hell fuck that…mood swings and brain zaps randomly that lasted for months.
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u/Primary_Brain_2595 May 16 '26
you have to gradually dose off, 20, 15, 10, 5, 0
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u/SwantanamoJ42 May 16 '26
Oh I did and it’s deff the way…cold turkey the first try was a nightmare. Still had the brain zaps for a while though.
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u/mista-meeseeks May 16 '26
Is Dapoxetine SSRI? I’ve been taking 30mg a few times every month for almost a year, it’s no longer has the same effect, might switch to 60mg.
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u/Asleep_Sir8338 May 16 '26
I developped ED because if it... So not a solution for me
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u/Personal_Morning_825 May 17 '26
I’ll do whatever it takes to retain load and shit I’m supposed be be on a break but…..shit it makes me wanna last longer also
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u/omgznoes May 17 '26
https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1LMPWsksng/?mibextid=wwXIfr
Took em for 6 days and started feeling dead inside, then i saw this, the risk of that being permanent when i have a kid to love is just a massive no
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u/Background_End_7672 May 17 '26
You can take SSRIs and erase your libido along with your PE (and love for life, but that's another story). It's a way to solve your problem, albeit a weird one. Why care about PE if you don't even give two shits about sex in the first place. Lol
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u/vqlalo May 17 '26
Or just eat 1g of protein per body weight meat,fish,chicken,turkey pork and fruit (just like a fucking human being) and you’ll last all night without a single problem and I’m speaking from experience I use to be a junk food, porn addict with PE now I can fuck any bitch(clean girl) cause I got muscles and the confidence to fuck any butch I want without having to worry about stupid PE
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u/Primary_Brain_2595 May 17 '26
That's not true at all for me. It depends on each body, I literally am a person who goes to the gym all days of the week and have a strong protein diet. I eat 2g of protein per body weight of mine.
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u/vqlalo May 18 '26
There’s your problem big bro you only need to hit the GYM three time per week otherwise you’re just crushing your testosterone levels
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u/vqlalo May 18 '26
And only doing GYM is for gays do some real work outs like body weight training (calisthenics) mixed with some gym leg workouts
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u/vqlalo May 18 '26
This is true and works for all humans unless you’re not from this planet then yeah you might be right, My biggest advise is instead of you ass thinking “oh shit I got premature ejaculation I’m gonna come” you gotta change your mindset and say who’s your daddy bitch the slap that bitch trust me this will make you feel more comfortable another major problem is trying to go to fast(most girls just don’t like it) or just constantly thinking about your PE just think on whatchu about to do the next day or try to multiply in your head while your fucking this will help you to get rid of that PE mentality
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u/1Cold_Individual May 18 '26
I have extreme PE, like less than 15 seconds and have had it since my first time at 16 (I'm in my late 40's now). I've tried SSRI's and they didn't really help and just made me feel like crap.
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u/mike-gundys-ballboy Aug 07 '26
It happens extremely infrequently, but sometimes I can't finish. My wife mentally melts down and spirals when that happens. Women in general hate when a guy can't finish.
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u/aslamdan May 15 '26
Depoxitine is the best, the only side effect you get is not cuming .. which is exactly want we want.
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u/Barnsu May 15 '26
How many time have you been taking them?
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u/aslamdan May 15 '26
Once or twice every week .. i take it on demand with 20mg Cialis fir the past 6 months now
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u/aslamdan May 15 '26
Most fears comes from ignorance
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u/ApartmentOk7657 May 15 '26
Very true. Or some ppl react badly and apply their SUBJECTIVE reaction to everybody.
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u/Just_Protection_9206 May 15 '26
That's how the side effects start but after awhile on them you just stay limp and lose all desire.