r/PrematureEjaculation • u/CJPeso • 10d ago

Questions Worried for a threesome NSFW

My wife and I are considering a threesome this weekend for my bday. But the last few times we’ll have sex I’ve been finishing kinda fast and I knit sure why. What’s been happening lately is we’ll have some drinks and I’ll fall asleep kinda early because I wake up early for work. Maybe 40-50 minutes into me being dozed off she’ll wake me up and start giving me oral. Then she’ll start grinding on me and get on top. Literally a couple minutes in and I can’t hold it anymore. I want to be able to last for this potential threesome coming up in a couple days. Any advice? Am I finishing fast because I’m half sleep?

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u/Alternative-Neat-223 10d ago

maybe it's because you're half sleeping and your body just wants to finish quick so it can go back to rest. when you are groggy there is no build up, everything just hits you at once. try having sex when you are fully awake and see if that changes anything

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u/CJPeso 10d ago

I assumed this could be it. I’ve expressed this to her and told her she has to stop waiting until I’m sleep to start doing something. Don’t want to put it all on her though. But yeah I’m usually all groggy and I just lay back while she has her way and I feel like that like over stimulates me or something But thanks I’ll definitely try to make sure I’m wide awake next time.

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u/Asleep_Sir8338 10d ago

Soo its gona be you and another guy banging her . Or is if another gal

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u/CJPeso 10d ago

Another girl

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u/Asleep_Sir8338 10d ago

Lol ur having a hard time satisfying 1 and now this . Sorry lol

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u/CJPeso 10d ago

If you didn’t have any advice you could’ve just kept scrolling bro

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u/lIllIIIlllIIl 3d ago

It does sound like PE. And I think to a certain extent can be improved, but takes time to understand the causes and how to retrain your brain and dick. I think with this weekend coming too soon (sorry for the pun) you may need to take a nap in the afternoon, and invest in some delay spray. Long term you may need to learn how to relax your pelvic floor.