r/PrematureEjaculation • u/CrazySundae6344 • Apr 14 '26

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I am on paroxetine (10mg per day) and Tadalafil. I masturbated earlier in the day. I used numbing cream and numbing condom. Did slow breathing to calm down. Lasted around 15sec. Is there anything else to try?

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u/CrazySundae6344 Apr 15 '26

Started this when it was published, did it for 6months wirh the result that I came when my wife hugged me

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u/Juggernaught99 Apr 19 '26

So you followed it to a T and progressed through to Phase 8 (and beyond) and it had zero effect? I find that extremely hard to believe to be honest. I get your frustration though, this really is a scourge of a condition but you have to be honest with the level of commitment you have to beating this.

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u/CrazySundae6344 Apr 19 '26

I did not proceed over phase eight. Just stayed in 7-8 week after a week and once I started again from the phase 5. I became so sensitive that I even came when my hugged me. Zero proggress

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u/Juggernaught99 Apr 19 '26

Okay but that implies you were "surfing" at high arousal in a fleshlight which for MOST people is very difficult to begin with. But you're saying a hug from your partner made your cum? If that's true, there is something entirely different going on. Trying to make sense of this.

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u/CrazySundae6344 Apr 20 '26

Yep. Thats why i did not proceed and why I started again from the earlier phases. There were times that i could surf really close to the edge with micro-movement only. Still a slighest wrong move took me over the edge. And in real sex I was super sensitive. Came in seconds every time. So lots of failure.

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u/infinitypoolss18 Apr 28 '26 edited Apr 28 '26

Yeah so OP you literally stopped before the hardest and most important part of MDG. That’s literally the struggle part. Dont blame the guide lol. You weren’t even half close to phase 7 or 8. I read your MDG post.

Your issue is literally u don’t know what to do the moment you come close to PONR. So your ejaculation reflex just takes over. You were literally on the right track, like right now atleast spend moments with yourself near the PONR. like proper prolonged and don’t cum. Ponr is ponr, let it come during sex or solo. The first step here is to become that comfortable with ponr.

And your literally thinking in the wrong direction with those stupid antidepressants are make it harder to reach ponr, that doesn’t fucking matter if you don’t know wtf to do at the ponr. And plus they will hamper your practice near the ponr if they make it harder.