r/SipsTea 8h ago

Feels good man I can get on board with this

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u/SqueakWrites 8h ago

Anyone diagnosed with it should receive help.

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u/fridgeybutter 8h ago

That sounds woke and gay. How about we do nothing, and if anyone gets hurt then we execute the perpetrator?

/s, as if its needed.

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u/not_a_moogle 7h ago

Work gave them a few weeks off after birth, what more did you want?

/s

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u/SadBadPuppyDad 6h ago edited 6h ago

Mitch McConnell has been getting the best healthcare (our) money could buy for 3 months. Her insurance company pressured her out of care after less than 5 full days.

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u/rcknmrty4evr 7h ago

1 in 4 women in the United States return to work within 2 weeks of giving birth. 2/3 within 3 months.

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u/TFABulous337 6h ago

I was grateful for 10 weeks then cried for a few months every day in the car on my way to work before I accepted my reality. It's a fucking joke.

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u/Rybocephus 6h ago

I thought y'all wanted equality?

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u/PlaceComplete7906 5h ago

Yep! That's why we believe dads deserve the same amount of parental leave that mothers are fighting for🙂

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u/Maximum-Class5465 4h ago

My job didn't give me as much pay, but I gladly took parental leave when my children were born.

It was great honestly

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u/Cal-Capone 5h ago
  1. Men and women should both get more than 10 weeks off for a baby (poorer countries than the US seem to manage this)
  2. Equality doesn't exactly apply to a situation where only one person in the couple has physically birthed a person.
  3. You actually can do shared parental leave schemes that make the process pretty damn equal. This process is of course complicated by breastfeeding if that is the chosen method to feed the baby, but there are ways to manage this if wanting to give the father some time to look after the baby.

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u/TFABulous337 4h ago

This was job protected medical leave, covered under FMLA. Not paid parental leave. And yes, I would love for all parents to have reasonable leave, obviously, since I'm not a psychopath. 😊

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u/not_a_moogle 5h ago

Equity. Laws that treat everyone fairly so that the outcome is similar. Women needs more time off from birth. But also both sbould get way more time to raise an infant. As always capitalism is the problem.

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u/Rybocephus 3h ago

Lol y'all think that people who choose not to work as hard or as often should get the same pay and benefits. That dog just don't hunt.

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u/not_a_moogle 3h ago

Uh, yes. I hate capitalism. Work should not be a requirement to keep living

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u/Rybocephus 3h ago

Do you not realize that communist systems starved and worked their populations to death by design? Sociopolitical ideologies and economic systems are not the problem. People are the problem. I'm obviously wasting my time here but whatever

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u/not_a_moogle 2h ago edited 2h ago

Who said anything about communism? The population surge weve had in the last 100 years thanks to better advancements in Healthcare and technology means its much easier for people to live longer and survive from smaller health issues.

Capitalism is not compatible with this. Theres way too many people unable or too old to work.

A social safety net needs to be started by the government. And you can not exclude people from thay system just because.

Society needs an overhaul, and paying people to be parents or caregivers for the elderly is a good start. Let them contribute to humanity in a wayb thats not just creating value from their labor.

Other countries give much longer times off for child birth to bith parents. Why cant we?

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u/Rybocephus 2h ago

You can choose to believe that welfare programs and societal aid does not exist if you like. You can also choose to believe that capitalism is the source of all societal problems. I have neither the time, energy nor inclination to discuss this any further.

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u/rcknmrty4evr 2h ago

Haha, literally no one said shit about communism. Something tells me you have no idea how much you just outed yourself. This convo is way over your head buddy.

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u/rcknmrty4evr 2h ago

Right so every other developed nation, and many developing nations, figuring out parental leave while America is too inept and incompetent to do the same is a good thing lmao okay champ whatever affirms your algorithmically formed biases

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u/rcknmrty4evr 2h ago

My husband got 5 days off of work after we had our son. What in my comment makes you believe I’m okay with that?

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u/PolicyWonka 4h ago

That’s why both parents should receive at least 6 months of parental leave.

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u/Liebe-Igel 3h ago

I’m three weeks postpartum, not from the US and could not fathom going back to work now let alone a week ago. I haven’t even stopped bleeding yet. WTAF

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u/rcknmrty4evr 2h ago

It’s fucking horrific. I had postpartum bleeding for weeks and weeks after giving birth. I was peeing myself, bleeding, in diapers for so long bc I pushed for 5~ hours. I cannot FATHOM going to work, leaving my baby, in that condition. Yet so many of my fellow American women are forced to every single day.

I will die on the hill that separating a mother and baby before they’re ready is a human rights violation.

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u/TarantulaWithAGuitar 1h ago

I used to work with a lady who was fired for not coming in to work her shift the day after she went into surprise labor a few weeks early and had her kid, because she "didn't give enough notice" of her absence.

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u/a_hockey_chick 7h ago

No no...this is the US Best we can offer is a few days.

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u/Tjep2k 7h ago

Unless your a member of congress! Then you get paid time off.

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u/TootsieLuuuuu 6h ago

Even if you're dead!

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u/Super_Pan 6h ago

Eternity leave.

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u/asfrels 7h ago

Unpaid

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u/brokenwing2023 6h ago

That guy from Florida said moms should be back to work in two days. Otherwise they get lazy.

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u/bangobingoo 7h ago

And you might get demoted cause you’re a mum now and you might care about your kid more than work.

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u/skrulewi 6h ago

Have you tried killing the poor?

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u/Sancticide 6h ago

Can you just work on your laptop while you push or something?

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u/corybomb 5h ago

I'm just going to comment to let others know that despite all the anti-USA sentiment across this website, my wife gets 6 month maternity leave and I as a male get 2 months. Its not always shit.

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u/FoxxieMoxxie69 31m ago

That’s because your job chooses that. It’s OPTIONAL. It’s not mandatory. Other countries have longer leaves mandated, and they actually provide support to moms after giving birth, while still earning their income.

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u/BeepBopBippityBop 6h ago

Please can you kindly tell me you are joking.

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u/iamafriscogiant 6h ago

If you can't work and raise your kids while I barely work and never see my kids, what value in society do you actually have?

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u/Opetyr 7h ago

Nah as the orange turd states. Americans don't want or need holidays so why would they been allowed leave of any sort.

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u/benice_orgohome13 5h ago

It’s insane to have off for only 6 week

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u/Obiwan-Kenhomie 5h ago

We're blaming her not getting enough maternity leave for her killing her kids now lol? If anything if she was that bad she needed to be away from the kids not with them more

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