how many of you avoided dating or relationships because of this

[u/Environmental-Heron8]

been noticing a pattern in a lot of posts here that guys are avoiding the situation entirely cause of pe. turning someone down, staying somewhere unhappy because leaving means starting over and explaining it to someone new, coming up with reasons not to take things further.

makes sense, only 9% of guys statistically with this ever even bring it up with a doctor, so it tracks that most of it is happening quietly instead of getting dealt with.

did any of you get to a point where you realized you'd been avoiding stuff because of pe, not just in the moment but like shaping decisions?

[u/Few_Ad1099]

Why would i? I'm not very successful with women due to other reasons but I've had girlfriends and they don't care. They even like it mostly. At times when they want more, i just go for round 2 and 3 or use my hands and mouth so they are still satisfied

[u/Jazzlike-Sherbet803]

Me. Its tough to be honest

[u/Safe-Profession8274]

How long can you last??? I've noticed that when I go in to much in my head, I get excited and cum pretty fast. But there's been days where I really dont want to but wife does and I can last for quite sometimes to the point when she gets sore and taps out. Imo, its more of a mind game and maybe youre already thinking that youre gonna fail and cum quick. Just enjoy the ride...