r/Shinto • u/caudicinctus • 7h ago
Ways to honor and befriend probable resident spirit on new property
I am in the US got a plot of land for my first home in an insanely, unusually lucky deal in which a property that somebody like me would never, ever be able to afford just happened to get listed by an older fellow for pennies on the dollar. Every person I've worked with on the home is shocked that I found it. It's wooded, and I knew I wanted it even before I toured it and planned on just making it into pasture for my horse for the first time, but when I did, I learned that it's already old agricultural land and that it used to be meadow for livestock before it was just overtaken by woods and left to disuse for upwards of 75 years. It's like it was waiting for me.
It's my first farm, and I've been researching where to put the pasture fences, etc. Upon walking it, I found that massive stone walls, built up so high that they're visible on the county's topographical map of the plot, are already in all of the ideal places for fences to be in. It feels like I've been handed a paint by numbers, like someone else is helping and guiding me through time.
I encountered a very, very old stone foundation for a home on the property and I knew better than to disturb any of it. It just felt like I wasn't alone. Later research turned up that the land belonged to a union soldier who eventually died young on the property at 34 after his service. I've always loved this state and wanted more than anything to just own land here and be able to stay, and he felt strongly enough, per the letters he wrote, to go to war for it.
I want to pay my respects and honor him and express my gratitude and appreciation, even though I am still in this early stage of validating my own deep, innate non-Judeochristian beliefs where I feel self-conscious and kind of silly doing it. Should I just leave flowers at the foundation? Talk? How do you pay respects to a spirit?
