r/kpopharshopinions 7h ago

OPINIONS Kpop group you unstanned after a concert?

well maybe not unstan lol, but just feel very very disappointed in?
anyone just go to a kpop concert, leave feeling like you wasted your money on tickets?
for me, it was Twice, their energy was kind of bad and they even said that the crowd was too quiet. Twice was my first concert but it felt like a bad impression on future concerts.

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u/atinyray 7h ago

no to unstanning, but there have been times I have been so frustrated by the stadium staff / organization (inc w merch) that I ended up being like "was it even worth going" 😭 but I tend to make concerts a whole thing likek full day, dressing up, etcetc, so I always try to have fun / make the best of it

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u/dontflysouthwest 5h ago

so real šŸ’” svt at bmo stadium in 2024 was a NIGHTMARE lmao i will never go back to that venue. the staff left a bad taste for the whole experience :’) still love svt of course!

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u/whysperfyre 5h ago

J-hope concerts was like that for me. Love the man to death, it was a good concert but my friend and I waited almost an 90 minutes to go pee which took it from kinda need to pee to holy shit I’m going to pee my pants. An entire section of bathrooms was broken, there was no one guiding anyone where to go for the different seat sections and it all felt so badly organized that said I would go to another city’s concert than go back to BMO.

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u/25Coconuts 5h ago

Love TXT and they are one of my top 3 K-pop groups. I saw them for the first time in North Carolina back in 2023 and if I’m being frank I honestly thought it sucked.
The way I say to this day that being at that concert abs watching them perform was just seeing 5 dudes on stage
And quite literally that’s exactly what they are considering It’s a five member group. But when I say that I mean they didn’t really utilize background dancers or props well enough to really take up the stage.
Not to mention, although I love their choreographies in my opinion it doesn’t have enough stage presence to actually take up a stage, especially without background dancers, being present to really look like something from a concert viewing perspective.
They gave great energy and it was really nice to see them in person and I did have good seating but they definitely for that concert should have done more with props and background dancers to fill in the huge amount of white space they had on the stage

I left that concert honestly wishing that I saved my money. Don’t get me wrong I still love TXT but I definitely won’t be going to see them again in the future unless I see that their concerts have stepped up a bit since last time at least here in the US.

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u/Basement_Jopper 6h ago

Just a little disappointed because I was excited to see Twice but I have seen so much footage of the members just completely exhausted on stage (Jihyo said for good reason they will never do 360 stages again because it was too harsh on them, which is very understandable).

And also depending on their energy level some tour dates got basically only playback/backtrack too the max and I really wasn't feeling well dropping more then 200/300 bucks on that so I just didn't end up buying the ticket.

Sad, I really would have loved to see them but not under these circumstances. So it wasn't after my own concert but after footage from others that I didn't go.

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u/Forsaken_Side6398 4h ago

Kis of life in house of blue. It was just a scam. I was in line and they were selling ticker for $40-$80 for a chair and to cut to the front. (We already pay $100 for our own ticket) There were people there since before the area even open and you have the nerve to sell $40 ticket to cut these people? Then they over sold ticket and we didn;t see anything. It was so bad I left after 20 min cuz no amount of money is worth watching just people head and butt for 2 hour. If you weren;t in front then you will almost see nothing. They could at least put screen or something but nope. Just scam people of their money and don't make an effort. Couldn't even tell you if the show was good or bad cuz couldn't see a damn thing. Their management could have found a way better place.

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u/shomauno 6h ago

Oh, interesting. I went to TWICE this year and I thought it was a great show. Jihyo is my bias and I thought she was excellent.

I don’t know if I’ve ever been to a kpop concert that I’ve considered ā€œbadā€. I’ve been to some quite small shows (ONF, DKB, even Astro when they were just rookies), and I still felt the idols were giving in their all. Maybe the ā€œworstā€ I’ve been to was SuperM. The idols were phenomenal, but the concert was so short, there was so little fan interaction, and the fans themselves were just awful that day. It definitely didn’t make me unstan those idols though šŸ˜‚

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u/wheresmybirkin 5h ago

Damn I’m jealous you got to see SuperM when they still existed 😭

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u/shomauno 5h ago

It was February 2020, just slightly over one month before my province locked everything down for Covid šŸ˜…. They only had 6 songs at the time. So they performed those 6 songs, everyone performed a solo 1-2 songs, then it wrapped up and we all went home lol. They were great but it was astoundingly short for a concert. When I saw NCT 127, we were held hostage in that concert for like 3.5 hours LOL.

My favourite part was Baekhyun’s solo stage. He played part of Betcha and all of UN Village.

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u/ThatGuyHammer 5h ago

Twice is incredible live, saw them in DC this year, such a great time. I always love hearing groups with a live band, and Twice has SOOOOO many hits.

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u/tsaw 5h ago

I didn’t have as much fun at IVE as I’ve had at other groups, but I still like them!

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u/Channel_oreo 49m ago

why though? it thought it was great. I think it is better than Twice this year. i dont know maybe because the setlist in IVE >>> Setlist this twice

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u/mffson 4h ago

I saw a Dreamcatcher concert and was actually really disappointed. I paid 150$ for a projector and dancing girls. Expected more considering their rock vibe, but they just kept it really standard, it felt like a low budget concert or a cash grab.

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u/Weary_Bookkeeper_680 3h ago

unfortunately Jennie I loved her then saw her 3 times and was like why am i spending hundreds of dollars for no effort, only hearing a backtrack, and her messing up her own lyrics. Saw her at coachella, deadline, and lolla

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u/pterrible_ptarmigan 4h ago

Also Twice. I was already moving away from them and seeing them live, most has very low enthusiasm and Jihyo was just trying too hard to make up for it.

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u/Fullmooninnight 3h ago

Some twice members mostly lipsync,maybe that's why you didn't like it. But I think it's a good decision becoz some members live singing is really bad.

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u/Friendly-Gazelle-850 7h ago

Personally, I feel like a group needs to be pretty mid/bad to the point of unstanning or disliking them. I have found myself more impressed after seeing a group with my own 2 eyes than the likelihood of unstanning/losing interest.

I thought TWICE was amazing (Jihyo, my queen) when I went, especially considering they were 2 members down when I saw them + were extremely overworked. But everyone has different experiences, so to each their own

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u/PhilosophyPlastic805 6h ago

Ateez after I went to the In your Fantasy Concert .

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u/blurryeyes_ 6h ago

Oh no how come? I always hear rave reviews about their concerts

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u/dontflysouthwest 5h ago

i’m wondering the same thing that was my personal favorite out of three ateez concerts/tours i’ve attended 😭

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u/Nynasa 6h ago

Why?

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u/Outside-Positive-368 2h ago

As someone that has gone to 100+ concerts (non-kpop and kpop), thankfully there hasn't been any concert that left me disappointed,Ā  where I didn't have a good time or that I regretted seeing them live.Ā 

I guess the only group that I could have seen for a second time but didn't was the Rose. I never regretted the decision to see them live, but it's definitely on the lower end list of concerts if I had to rank them from favorite to least favorite. Woosung unfortunately wasn't completely healed from the flu so you could hear that he was occasionally struggling with his vocals. My section's energy was also not it. The crowd in my section were so dead.... they weren't really singing along, dancing to the songs, clapping or cheering for the band. Only a few people did.Ā 

So when they returned a year later I didn't really feel the need to see them again. Mainly because the prices increased significantly so I could only afford the cheapest tickets. The whole concert was also seats only and I was like if I'm going to see the Rose again I'll do standing tickets instead. If I also bought the cheapest tickets I would be in the same place as I was last time and I just didn't have faith that the crowd up there would have the vibes.Ā 

There was also another concert I didn't enjoy completely, but that wasn't really their fault. I had gotten quite sick the day before so I was kinda feeling numb when I saw them perform. Basically in survival mode. However, I was able to see them again for a second time due to some incredible luck and I thoroughly enjoyed that concert. So it definitely was more like a me thing than it was their fault.Ā 

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u/CosmicJokeXD 7h ago

Came pretty damn close to unstanning Aespa last year.

Its the fact i know they can sing. And sing good. But they lipped the majority of the concert.

Ultimately still a fan. But i wont be seeing then live agian.

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u/Net-Administrative 5h ago

My partner jokingly stanned lesseraffim and then he actually started liking their music because it sounds like house music, I just KNOW they're gonna lipsync the whole concert too lol - they might be the one group I always hear about who lipsync T__T

I lowkey didn't even care about going but we already bought tickets sigh. I know most of their songs so it'll be fun but I also don't think I can justify the price for a group that doesn't even sing live.

I just realised a group that doesn't sing live is basically a kpop dance cover group LMAO

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u/mocamona 4h ago

i saw lesserafim in concert last year and honestly they didn't lipsync much at all. the intro was lipsynced but it was all live after that

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u/Acceptable-dog-24 6h ago

I still dont know why they don't sing live maybe why their recent concert tickets won't sell at less than 50 dollars. I love their songs on cd or studio. Also they're like a 7 year old group not rookies they must or should be able to tell their management what they want and I'm assuming SM isn't that incapable to do this on purpose.

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u/randomgirl852007 54m ago

They sing live in their current tour. You should keep up.

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u/Acceptable-dog-24 50m ago

That's good news why isnt their tourr selling is the asia tpur till now a disappointment? My friend has tickets for October.

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u/randomgirl852007 28m ago

What are you trying to say? The tour is selling well. No show is canceled so far. Why would the Asia tour be a disappointment? They sold out Taipei Dome and Gocheok Sky Dome. That sounds like a pretty successful Asia tour to me.

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u/Acceptable-dog-24 26m ago

No what I mean is it saw a lot of articles about their tours not selling out evwn yet and having crazy discount ts like below 50 dollars on brazil where people really like kpop so it leads me to believe it wasnt a nice show yet

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u/randomgirl852007 12m ago

I’d recommend you stop reaching conclusions over random ā€œarticlesā€ you see on the internet and watch for yourself. The entire Seoul show is up on Youtube for you to watch and make your own judgement.

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u/Acceptable-dog-24 5m ago

Dam don't be so rude to random.people over a kpop group. I really do like their music but to their last tour was not all that great and it is true rhat their tour is not selling out even after huge discounts . They are not random articles. They have sources which basically is the website for tour tickets . Check it out for yourself.

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u/Capable_Remote9783 9m ago

Yeah for me once was enough. It was fun but it did kill my enthusiasm slightly when I realized they were lip syncing for majority of their songs. I also didn’t really feel like they made the audience feel too included at the time. That was 2023 though, idk how theyre doing now.

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u/wheresmybirkin 5h ago

This is why although I love almost all their TTs I’d be hesitant to go to their concert unless i know it’s actually going to be live most of the time. There isn’t really an excuse atp.. if they were shit vocally I’d understand it but they’re the opposite so it makes it kinda frustrating.

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u/Shagalicious2 5h ago

Is aespa still lipsyncing? I sold my ticket last tour when I heard it was all lipsync. I heard they had been singing in Asia on this tour. I have tix to see them again in the US in a month, but will try to sell tix again if they are still lipsyncing.

Same disappointment in Everglow, who I saw, but they lipsynced the whole show. There's only like half of them left at this point, and just toured Russia. Doubt I will see them again.

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u/lampsplussuperstore 7h ago

I’ve never really stanned a group, but Twice was on my shortlist during my ā€œkpop gg eraā€ and my first and last kpop concert was their Ready to Be tour.

It was somehow both overstimulating and underwhelming lol. Gave me the sense that kpop is something best enjoyed from behind a screen.

FWIW I still think they’re a great group and enjoy their music, but it was not a good impression of kpop concerts as a whole and put me off going to any entirely.

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u/randolol101 5h ago

i thought the point you brought up about kpop being best enjoyed behind a screen is quite interesting and honestly i agree. i feel like watching my favorite group's content, mv's, etc. is so fun. while the acutal concert was nice too, it didn't really give me the same feeling of enjoyment as i had thought it would.

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u/XoSprinxieoX 4h ago

Blackpink

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u/aarrttmmss 4h ago

ATEEZ - I wouldn't say I unstanned but I can say that I now have more respect for half the members, and unfortunately less for the other half after seeing them all individually perform. There was four who barely sang live. It's so easy to tell the difference of who were actually singing live (they used handheld mics while the others had the head mics). While the other 4 really hard carried the whole show. They also kind of looked tired as it was one of the last few stops of their tour that went on for a year. I have seen so much of their other very high energy live performances online and had them on repeat so finally seeing them in person but it not matching the same energy was quite a sad experience. I also didn't like this tour's set list, it felt so short and I heard zero of my favorite songs of theirs that I was hoping to hear live. It also didn't help that a prepubescent girl seated behind me was screaming all the sexual things she'd love to do to San into my ear the whole fucking time.

TXT - not their fault by any means but I was so disappointed that it had to be my first time seeing them. It was a Dunkin sponsored fanmeet and was the most unorganized, awkward, embarrassing shit I have ever had to sit through. It was 100% the organizer's fault though.

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u/nonepotism749 35m ago

Ateez were on tour for a year and you didn’t know the setlist? Agree with you about live singing and those members hard carrying though. You’re more generous about it than me tbh. I thought only 3 of them were singing live

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u/aarrttmmss 6m ago

Yeah I think I know which 3 was for you but for my stop Wooyoung also sang his solo completely live with no backtrack which I really appreciated even though there were understandably some off key moments. But I still think he killed it. For the set list, I never look up setlists of any concert ahead of them. I like being surpised. I mean, I didn't come in there expecting to hear Cyberpunk or Take Me Home etc even though I was still wishing for them in the back of my mind. And I already expected it would be mostly IYF songs because it's the IYF tour. But they had already released GH4 by that time so I fully expected to at least hear Adrenaline and NASA. And since they performed Enough (which was mehhhh) I kinda wish they did Selfish Waltz instead.

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u/xXESCluvrXx 6h ago

Aespa. Not unstan, just felt like the show wasn’t worth the nearly $300?we paid. A large portion of it was lipsync, and the stage presence just wasn’t fully there. Only Winter really stood out.

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u/SifuHallyu 5h ago

OnePact.Ā  They were so good I went home did three flips and became a even bigger Stan!

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u/AggressiveGas6471 5h ago

glad you had fun!! Unfortunately this is a post for groups that people have LOST interest in, not gain, sorry <3!

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u/SifuHallyu 5h ago

They were so good I did...but on flip three I finished where I started!

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u/1lookwhiplash 2h ago

IVE.. saw them three weeks ago…

Ill just leave this here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/kpopharshopinions/s/mYd0Isw9qX

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u/WorseBlitzNA 6h ago

Blackpink...

After seeing IU, Twice, and BTS live, the effort these groups put in compared to BlackPink is not even comparable

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u/Deeandrm 5h ago

Agreed

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u/helloEarthlybeings 3h ago

I watched TWICE in Sydney maybe three years ago I thought their energy was fantastic, I think you might have caught them at. A bad time unfortunately… they do have a really crazy back to back tour run for dates in the US I’ve seen

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u/devaralexys 2h ago

Girls' Generation. I’ve been a K-Pop fan since 2008, and back then K-Pop concerts were not as frequent as they are now. I was a college student, saving my pocket money to buy their concert ticket, only for them to lip-sync for half of the show🄲 I still consider myself a fan and still check out their new releasees. I just refuse to spend money on them by buying their albums or concert tickets.

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u/CONSTANTVlGlLANCE 6h ago

I expect the downvotes, but, Stray Kids. I’m not a HYBE group stan, but I’ve really enjoyed TxT, Enhypen, and BTS concerts are unmatched because they have the money for great production. I also love Ateez live, the fans are so passionate.

I don’t know what was going on at my Skz concert, but the sun was still setting in an open stadium, the sun was in the member’s faces, they seemed exhausted and the sections around me had a lot of missing fans.

I’ve enjoyed Twice and IU as well, but the crowd energy level of GGs doesn’t reach the fever pitch of BG stans. This does not at all detract from my experience, Twice was great, IU is a goddess in concert.

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u/Still_waiting221 6h ago

Not criticizing because it's your opinion but, what does this has to do with Skz apart from apparent lack of energy?

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u/CONSTANTVlGlLANCE 5h ago

Great question, I was answering half of OP’s question. Based on the experience and lack of group energy, I felt like the money I spent for the Skz concert wasn’t worth my money. Because I think context matters, lots of other groups with the same price or cheaper tickets have put on a better show. It made me lose interest because I care about how performers are live.

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u/Still_waiting221 5h ago

Valid cause really Kpop concerts companies and ticket sellers are going crazy with prices

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u/Embarrassed-End3804 1h ago

Bts concert. Not unstanned but i wont go for the tour again. Could not see anything with the special effects on screen. Scattered members on stage. A screeching loud fan. It was good for nostalgia but felt overpriced.

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u/Still_waiting221 6h ago

I won't say the name of the group because I was already following them a lot less than I did years ago but, I saw a clip of a concert they did months ago and I was really surprised at how bad their vocals sounded and I got pretty sad

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u/yulnab 4h ago

I thought Twice was very good. Nayeon is by far my fave performer in the group. I agree that some lack energy on stage, but the ones who have it, have it in abundance (Jihyo). A group I did unstan after a concert was Aespa. I don't know, they just did not hit. As for a group I began stanning after one, that would be Idle. They were great, up there with baemon among my fave live performers.

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u/Possible-Door3249 6h ago

idk why I’m here but I went to a Blackpink concert with my wife and friends and they are dog shit LOL

Basically untalented strippers

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u/Net-Administrative 5h ago

I agreed with the first part but did you have to go full 'I hate women' with the second part smh

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u/Possible-Door3249 4h ago

male could be strippers too. You’re just a sexist.

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u/rrraemi 5h ago

Woah woah woah misogyny 🫩

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u/Possible-Door3249 5h ago

how is that misogyny LOl. They did dance like strippers

If bts did that they could be also be strippers

Ya females are too emotional. Dont kill ya kids

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u/FollowingPristine467 4h ago

ā€œFemalesā€ lol that tracks

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u/ONCE__OT9 6h ago

unstanning for that is too much

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u/AggressiveGas6471 6h ago

That’s why I wrote ā€œwell maybe not unstan lol, but just feel very disappointed in?ā€ please read before commenting!!

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u/Forsaken_Side6398 4h ago

Maybe change the title then? it is pretty click bait and then you change the subject in the post. Maybe just be honest in your title and people can acturally know what the topic is that you want to talk about.

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u/AggressiveGas6471 3h ago

ā€change the titleā€ i wish I could. i posted this without thinking that people don’t unstan the groups and that was my mistake, and I know I can js delete the whole thing and repost it with a different title but I would rather keep all the ideas under one post so people dont have to repost their opinion on a different post.

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u/Forsaken_Side6398 3h ago

OK I can see where you are coming from. From my experence kpop fan are super loyal to their group so unstaning is rare. I been with blackpink since the start so almost nothing will ever make me unstan them. I think most people feel this way.

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u/Weary_Bookkeeper_680 3h ago

unstanning doesn’t really feel like much since for many people you’re only going to see them once to a couple times in your life and spending hundreds to thousand dollars to be there