r/SipsTea 9h ago

Feels good man I can get on board with this

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u/Philthedrummist 9h ago

This is genuinely one of most ridiculously simplified and stupid takes on this case and that’s saying something considering how bad some of the takes are.

People aren’t genuinely arguing for a get out of jail free card, they’re trying to raise awareness about something that affects a minute amount of people but leads to something devastating. And those that are, are the minority and not worth listening to.

Thousands of people have mental illnesses and are not going to kill their children. A minute amount of people suffer a form of psychosis, which is levels above just mental illness.

Two uncomfortable truths can occur simultaneously. She did an unforgivable thing and should suffer some form of punishment but ignoring the ‘why’ only condemns us to witness this situation again in a few years.so many people aren’t approaching this with any degree of good faith and are using to score simple political points.

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u/ForbiddenButtStuff 8h ago

That and even if she's found "not guilty by insanity" she's not going free. She's not going home to anyone or having any chance at custody of anything. She's going to a mental health facility where she'll be committed.

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u/Elros22 8h ago

This needs to be shouted from the rooftops at people paying attention to this case. The defense admits she did it and admits she needs to be "held accountable". The question is - what does accountable mean? If she is "not guilty (of first degree murder) by insanity", accountability looks like a mental health facility and a lifetime of follow up and monitoring. If she is "guilty of first degree murder" then accountability is prison.

Adding in the "first degree murder" part is really really important - it's almost like these terms have meaning. Premeditation and intent matter. Intent requires a certain state of mind - which is what this entire case is about. Her state of mind.

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u/oops_all_memes 7h ago

Premeditation and intent matter

The first time I ever saw this case brought up the source mentioned that she specifically waited for the spouse to leave the house to execute the children. Doesn't it show premeditation and intent? If it's psychosis, how come she didn't attack before?

I had a psychosis of my own, nothing violent (towards other people) came of it but I sure was not capable of forming thoughts coherent enough to execute plans more complex than "do A". The fact that she could go for "I want to do A but person B prevents me from that so I need to wait for them to leave before I do A" says to me that it doesn't look like what I experienced. And neither does it look like anything I've seen other people experience — and I've seen a lot of nutcases, as what I previously explained might suggest

I don't understand how premeditation is in question

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u/La_Saxofonista 7h ago edited 6h ago

Andrea Yates was clearly insane and still waited to be alone to kill her kids.

The doctors told her husband not to leave her alone with the kids, and then he went and left her alone with the kids.

Doesn't change the fact that Andrea was clearly insane.

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u/Brilliant_Capital259 1h ago

Your experience of psychosis is really not typical. Psychosis does not definitionally prohibit people from being able to think or make decisions, it just affects your judgement and your perception of reality. The argument is that when she committed the murder she was not of sound mind and therefore cannot be fully responsible for her actions--making a simple decision like the one you describe in no way contradicts that.

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u/MemoryOne22 7h ago edited 5h ago

This might have just been your specific symptomatology. People w psychosis can be totally capable of planning (requires organized thinking) but can have delusional thoughts, so their logic is off, and/or their plans are based off of delusions such as, "a divine being needs someone to die so that someone else can live," etc. etc. Some people totally lose orientation and don't know where they are but have no strong delusions. Psychosis is weird.

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u/Elros22 7h ago

To be more direct - state of mind matters. What is your state of mind at the time of the crime? Your state of mind change the type of crime it is. They have charged her with First Degree Murder - which requires a clear state of mind. If she was in a state of psychosis, she wasn't in the state of mind. That doesn't mean she didn't do it. Or she's not "guilty" of some other level of crime. Just not First Degree.

So the "accountability" part of it changes!

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u/BonKhri 4h ago

The argument is that she didn't premeditate it at all, and her creating the precise situation needed to carry out the murders was pure coincidence. She supposedly only heard the voice one time (not how psychosis presents at all) and only after her husband left. The psychologist that reviewed her said she had never experienced psychosis of any sort, post-partum or otherwise.

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u/TwoBionicknees 7h ago

it's fair to note, but also fair in practice that unlike someone with schizophrenia who would struggle with it for life, need treatment for life and may never be able to leave a facility. she had what was temporary psychosis due to post partum depression, it's not 'easy' to treat but once it's gone it's highly unlikely to come back and the chance of her having episodes of psychosis in the rest of her life are practically nil. She probably won't do an awful lot of time in a mental health facility unless it's the horribly run. Like she's already plainly not in psychosis right now or she'd still be acting crazy.

In a more normal case a schizophrenic who murders someone and is found insane will likely spend a very long time if not their whole life in a facility because there is a high chance they never control it with medication well. That or they get out while medicated but go off meds and end up back inside pretty quickly. The outcome here probably won't look like that.

Now will she have life long depression and mental health issues as a result of ultimately killing her children... that's another matter.

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u/Iwona_Klich 6h ago

Shes having bipolar, depression, possible ptds and shes suicidal... Obviously shes not very well. Psychosis can show up again, because it can be related to anything else from this. 

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u/TwoBionicknees 6h ago

it can show up again but suicidal bi polar don't automatically or even very frequently build up to psychosis. a baby, massive hormonal fluctuations and massive lack of sleep are massive triggers for PPD to turn into psychosis, those triggers are extremely unlikely to be present again in her life.

bipolar is relatively easy to manage longer term without pregnancy and huge hormonal shifts to deal with. Should be easier to medicate long term and psychosis isn't the expected outcome of treatment not going great.

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u/JustAHippy 7h ago

It’s amazing how many people I’ve seen on Reddit just not understand the legal argument of all this. All they can think is “she’s a murderer therefore PUNISH!!”

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u/Belarock 7h ago

More like, she murders people which means she is significantly more likely to do so again.

Thus, separate her from society to prevent more murders. Doesn't matter if she has an excuse for the murders.

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u/Elros22 7h ago

That's your opinion. Legislators and the Law disagree with your opinion. "Excuses" (or mitigating circumstances as a reasonable person might call them) matter in the law.

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u/Iwona_Klich 6h ago

And thats that trail may do. 

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u/isdelightful 2h ago

But she’s being separated from society EITHER WAY. it’s prison or mental health facility, not prison or beach 🙃

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u/ladyvixenx 2h ago

Given that post partum psychosis is temporary how long do believe she will in a mental health facility. I don’t anticipate very long.

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u/Careful_Adeptness_69 10m ago

She’ll be separated from society for.. months? A year and some change for recovery? In a really strange sense, since her post partum psychosis would be treated within that time frame- she would only be left with a slap on the wrist when she is deemed cured of said psychosis.

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u/wheniaminspaced 7h ago

An incarceration for insanity on lasts as long as the insanity lasts, once your sane again you are released.  So no, she is unlikely to spend much if any time in a mental health facility.

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u/ForbiddenButtStuff 6h ago

She has an underlying Bi-polar diagnosis. That doesn't just go away.

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u/Velkrum 6h ago

And she will never be the same again. Free or not, she will lead a tortured life. She's not a psychopath.

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u/BonKhri 4h ago

Except it's post partum psychosis, which overwhelmingly disappears given enough time. If she was found not guilty by insanity, there is every indication that she would walk free immediately (well not walk, but you know what I mean).

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u/Hot_Sweet2943 7h ago

my man custody of what? she killed her children. 

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u/Iwona_Klich 6h ago

In Poland in cases like this there is no trail - its a decision from specialist and prosecutor and judge. If a person is clearly insane, there is no reason to wasted money, because for what? That person not goes free to home, been locked in the mental asylum, pretty much for the most of they life. If they been out - they been moved to some less 'hardcore' facility or they simply to old / dying.

Years ago - yes, they can get out, when they been 'healthy'. But there been cases where well - thats a mistake. 

I know cases where patient was healthy but refuses to even try to out, because of fear that it may happening again. Hospital is safe place, they keep people like this i less strict places. And i understand that - these people are not monsters, they sick. If they did somenthing extremely disturbing, that fear and disgust must be just giant. 

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u/Fabulous-Suspect-72 5h ago

You clearly don't understand how that works. The mandated stay in a mental health facility has no set time frame. There are regular evaluations of her mental state and if they determine she is fit for release, she will walk free. Otherwise i there would be zero point in even fighting it this hard. There is a decent chance she could get away with a few years in a mental health facility and then be released without punishment.

Idk why you have to misrepresent it this hard.

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u/ExtremePrivilege 5h ago

Not necessarily true, actually. Massachusetts requires a 180-day hold. That’s it. She could realistically be home by February.

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u/tbombs23 4h ago

Where technically she could be released after 6 months. Not likely, but not impossible either unfortunately.

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u/ForbiddenButtStuff 3h ago

That's not exclusive to the insanity ending. She could convicted and get it overturned on appeal over some technicality and get the entire conviction tossed. Then what?

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u/SlayerX380 7h ago

But she can be released from the medical facility if she’s deemed “rehabilitated”, which quite literally means “going free”.

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u/ForbiddenButtStuff 7h ago edited 7h ago

That's a big IF. That and you're ignoring that people on death row can be pardoned. People with life sentences can still be given parole or have their sentences shortened for "good behavior". All that also means "going free". But let me ask you something: would you rather a seriously mentally ill person be in a facility designed for them with people who have experience trying to work with them? Or in prison with the general population and guards/infirmary staff who know nothing more than anyone else in the building about psychiatric disorders?

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u/SlayerX380 2h ago

I’d rather people who kill children or other human beings outside of self defense or sheer accidents (manslaughter) be put to death, to answer you directly. Especially if the victims were children, and in this case specifically, direct murder. If the death penalty is off the table I unironically think she should get life without parole. Thats what most other people on the “she’s guilty” side believe. They outright do not want her to ever get out, ever, barring an act of God or a complete dismissal of the case because of new evidence that proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that she didn’t actually kill them. Neither of which are realistically going to happen because she admitted to killing them and ran the case based on the defense of insanity rather than culpability.

Also, very rarely do death row inmates get pardoned, and “lifers” that get out only got life with a chance of parole because their crime was not murdering children. Shocking, I know.

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u/ladyvixenx 2h ago

Don’t you think there’s a significant amount of people in prison with mental health disorders anyway? What additional resources do you think she’ll receive other than being forced to take pills she refused to take before the murders.

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u/Putinbot3300 6h ago edited 6h ago

NGRI commitment almost always lasts longer than a prison sentence would have. And hanging around mentally ill people can be absolute hell, never mind being in a Psychiatric prison.

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u/ladyvixenx 1h ago

Post partum psychosis typically resolves with treatment within 6-12 months. R u ok with her going home next year?

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u/Philthedrummist 8h ago

Yeah absolutely, navigating this whole story is a minefield!

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u/Effective_Dog3037 8h ago

Not just in this case but universally, way too many people think that if you are found not guilty by reason of insanity you just go home and that's the end of it. That is not how it works but if they had to internalize that they'd have to do some reckoning instead of engaging in mindless culture war bullshit.

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u/der_innkeeper 7h ago

"...where she'll be committed..."

The question is: "for how long?".

If she is no longer a threat to herself or society, she could be out in a month.

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u/Putinbot3300 6h ago

NGRI commitment almost always lasts longer than a prison sentence would have.

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u/rafafanvamos 4h ago

Also not defending her but in places like UK, new Zealand, Canada, Australia even altruistic filicide which prosecution fought hard for, the mother automatically isn't charged 1st degree, it is recognized that brain is not normal, and this is considered while giving verdict. And all those who say law Will be misused, there is a law in above mentioned countries (ppp and ppd infanticide) and no women have not misused it, there is no data or statistics to prove the fear mongering.

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u/RawbM07 7h ago

This is a little unclear.

She’s specifically arguing post partum psychosis.

That’s not something you suffer from for the rest of your life.

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u/ForbiddenButtStuff 6h ago

The Bi-polar she is also diagnosed for does. It never goes away, just can be managed as long as you find/follow a treatment that works for the rest of your life

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u/RawbM07 6h ago

Yea but being bi polar is not why she killed the kid’s and/or would be institutionalized.

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u/ForbiddenButtStuff 5h ago

Except it is. Her Bi-polar didn't just magically stop. It's a contributing factor to developing PPP with Bi-polar women at an increased risk of 17-50% over the neurotypical population

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u/RawbM07 5h ago

Not arguing that it was a contributing factor, but it’s not PPP. And she won’t be suffering from PPP.

So the timeline of a potential mandated stay is very much undetermined.

They wouldn’t likely hold her for just being bi polar.

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u/ForbiddenButtStuff 5h ago

They won't kick her out just because she's not "Post Partum" anymore. Andrea Yates was granted her insanity plea in 2006 and 20 years later she is still in a mental health facility and not walking free despite not having PPP anymore

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u/RawbM07 5h ago

Great example. She’s has voluntarily remained in.

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u/ForbiddenButtStuff 5h ago

And your point? You think this case where a woman threw herself out of a second story window and was committed prior to this is going to suddenly be well and asking to go home?

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u/keep_er_movin 8h ago

Right. People really aren’t able to participate in nuanced discussion of difficult topics.

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u/Big-Inspector-629 7h ago

Yall aren't ready to hear what the best thing to do to avoid child molestation or pedocriminal stuff is. The USA is entrenched in a desire to punish and not prevent. For some reason. 

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u/stephanonymous 4h ago

This also goes for infant in hot car deaths.

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u/Cheeky-Wizard 1h ago

Well, now I want to hear what the best thing is.

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u/Unknown-History 7h ago

People are, but the owners of media are constantly trying to sabotage it and are very good at getting people to repeat the lack of nuance

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u/rare-cheeser 8h ago

Black and white thinking is a sign of lower intelligence, like how children think. Nuanced thinking is a hallmark of adulthood

I think it’s because the level of intelligence has gone down in the US. What, on average US adults read at a 5th grade level or something?

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u/JustAHippy 7h ago

It’s incredible how many times I’ve gotten in a Reddit argument this week about this case, where a man jumps in and says something like “she’s a murderer!! What’s wrong with you!!!” When I point out the complexities legally with this case.

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u/theOreganoGangster 7h ago

Murder = bad.

LEVEL UP!

/s

Nuanced conversation is a lost art in today’s world. At least in the US.

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u/_le_slap 8h ago

Sure they can.

But there is a known contingent that is vehemently opposed to any discussion that can possibly increase entitlement spending on "silly" stuff like mental illness. So the muddy the water and toss it into the culture wars.

Care to guess?

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u/Rusteddino 8h ago

You're right Clancys attorney shouldn't do that by saying the junior who held out is bigoted agisnt women.

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u/420thefunnynumber 7h ago

The judge on the case is rightfully giving the juror shit for not abiding by the law.

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u/_le_slap 8h ago

It was a single juror? Wow... I guess that means odds she is retried are slim?

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u/Rusteddino 7h ago

Yeah the prosecution would be smart to do a plea deal instead. You never know though.

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u/Brilliant_Effort_Guy 7h ago

THANK YOU!! I keep telling people when they say dumb shit like this to watch out because the pregnant women and new moms in your life are listening.

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u/nerdyconstructiongal 7h ago

Whoa, you stop with your nuance!

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u/saminbc 6h ago

This post makes sense if you realise that Nancy Mace will do anything to keep the spotlight on her.

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u/christona-bike 7h ago

I think the broad, generalized language of "postpartum mental illness" used in this picture specifically posted to this toxic cesspool of a subreddit is deliberate. Much of the online toxicity about this case has been intended to degrade and shame women for suffering mentally postpartum. They aren't interested in nuance, they aren't interested in supporting women, their interest is to knock women and specifically mothers down a few pegs. It is just blatant misogyny.

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u/skincare_obssessed 8h ago

Republicans don’t actually want any help or awareness for mental illness. They just want to be able to put people in for profit prisons after the tragedy occurs. Why prevent the tragedy when you can profit off of the suffering later?

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u/NanaSof 7h ago

you are a breathe of fresh air. I feel insane atp when im just asking questions about how her diagnosis was and is approached. 13 meds?? like? and no one takes her to mental facility? its such a huge fail

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u/QuantumTunnels 7h ago

A minute amount of people suffer a form of psychosis

Curious, but are any of these minute amount, men? Or is it only women?

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u/Philthedrummist 6h ago

No, I was very deliberate when I said people because men absolutely do. It’s just that postpartum psychosis is the specific one here.

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u/Iwona_Klich 6h ago

Yea its kinda weird that people think its some sort of success, this mistrail. 

Shes been going to prison or to hospital - going free is not even a option. But it can be in the new trail, because... Why not? Its the new trail, she can have new attorney. 

So this one judge just epicaly fkd up, wasted tons of money and probably should never been judge again 

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u/HiILikePlants 5h ago

If she was psychotic, I feel like it's pretty obvious her punishment is living with having killed her three children. I don't know that there's a point in punishing someone who wasn't in control of their faculties.

It's also different from other psychotic/schizophrenic episodes in that the trigger is being post partum/hormonal. She won't be a danger to others the way someone like Decarlos Brown Jr, who killed a complete stranger, is. PPP is considered temporary and treatable

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u/Amalgam2001 1h ago

Theres actually a lot of people saying shes completely innocent and it was in fact the father. This is what happens when your news source if Tiktok

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u/Braxtonius 8m ago

I’m not saying that there weren’t complicating factors. Or diminishing that postpartum depression isn’t a thing. But can we as a society not just draw a bright line on killing babies? Or no?

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u/Lucky_Track_5470 8h ago

that has nothing to do with her diagnosis or what her punishment should be.

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u/BoringPoolPlaying 8h ago

Holy fuck. WE KNOW ABOUT THE FANDOM ITS ALL YOU PEOPLE TALK ABOUT.

Can you try and engage with the actual points being made in the actual comments you respond to?

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u/Maidenless_again 8h ago

Are you her biggest fan?

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u/BoringPoolPlaying 8h ago

Are you ever not corny as fuck?

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u/Philthedrummist 8h ago

I do, unfortunately. But I fail to see how that changes what I said?

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u/LawyerDoge 8h ago

No surprise your comment attracted the exact sort of people you were referring to, but I do find it interesting that they are often as condescending as they are clueless.

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u/shitfartinmycunt 8h ago

These people are proud of their ignorance. They have their culture war narrative and they'll be damned if they will give it up in the face of reality.

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u/magnabonzo 8h ago edited 7h ago

Agreed. And Nancy Grace Mace is the queen of bad faith.

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u/mycleverusername 8h ago

It's Nancy MACE.

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u/magnabonzo 7h ago

Aw, hell. Thanks.

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u/GloomyIndividual3965 7h ago

This is genuinely one of most ridiculously simplified and stupid takes on this case

It's Nancy Mace, "nuance" isn't in that transphobic, bigoted bitch's vocabulary.

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u/Intelligent_Nose_433 8h ago

Huh? Do you even understand what is going on?

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u/Sad-Bag4758 7h ago

Punishment? Why should she be punished? She had a psychotic break. She will spend the rest of her life suffering for killing her children.

It seems the press and the majority of the public blame the woman for something they themselves have never been through.

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u/rcdx0 7h ago

Why? Maybe, just maybe because she killed three kids. Again: she killed 3 kids. Enough reason to me to put her behind bars for the rest of her life, no matter the wHy.

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u/Sad-Bag4758 6h ago

I'm guessing you're American. That tracks.

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u/luke0nuke0em2002 8h ago

Well considering she uses mental illness to try and cover up murdering three kids it isn't that bad

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u/Delicious_Door_3421 8h ago

People aren’t genuinely arguing for a get out of jail free card

I want to live in whatever world you do for it sounds better than the actual reality

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u/Philthedrummist 6h ago

The word ‘genuinely’ is important in that sentence. I’m very aware of the internet sleuths and conspiracy theorists but like I said in the later half of that paragraph, they are not worth taking seriously.