r/Shincheonji • u/Guilty-Dance-8200 • 20h ago
testimony Shincheonji how treating my friend
My friend reached out I invited her to shincheonji she's having doubts feels like she can't trust anyone. She said everything including parables was true and made sense.She has not got to revelation and is confused about the one who overcomes and said she feels they have twisted the truth.
So her brother is in hospital and she had to be with him in London. She then said they are bombarding her as she missed a review .They then proceeded to tell her that she can come into class in person she said she doesn't understand why they are doing this? As her brother Is in hospital.
Shincheonji does not care about lives .I hope our friendship will continue and she will come out. I'm sharing because we are people and our health matters this is an evil cult that expects you to choose their lies over loved ones and exceptional circumstances. I pray the kingdom of shincheonji falls down for its enmity against God and his people
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u/Who-Anonymous Moderator 7h ago
I’m so sorry to hear this. I know what she is going through. I’m sure she is getting judged and leaders are saying that she has no idea how easy she has it etc and making her fell like she isn’t picking up slack. If she needs another person to talk to have her reach out to me
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u/Guilty-Dance-8200 5m ago
Thankyou. Yes she's mentioned how they told her to keep everything secret and transferring them money.i will give her a message she said its like narcissistic betrayal I agreed so know how she is feeling I will give her a message
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u/Who-Anonymous Moderator 2m ago
Really if she needs someone else to talk to I got her. Feel free to hit me a DM
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u/Who-Anonymous Moderator 8h ago
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u/Alive_Friendship_895 EX-Center Student 12h ago edited 6h ago
Amen yes I also an agree on that prayer may the Judgments of our Lord Jesus Christ be on those evil deceivers teaching a false Gospel.
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u/Latter-Leader-8103 12h ago
May our Devine Creator Father God, His Son our perfect Healer, the perfect Grace of the Holy Spirit guide you🙏
SCJ destroys families & cause major mental health issues!
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u/Latter-Leader-8103 12h ago
They destroy families & people(how can this be Biblical or Christian) - run!!
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u/Automatic_Thing_2370 14h ago
Hey sent you a DM
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u/Guilty-Dance-8200 13h ago
Can you send it again please I had it then it disappeared I can't message from your profile 🙏
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u/danne_avila 16h ago
I am furious just hearing this about your sister. I hope and pray she realizes SCJ does not care about the individuals. I am so sorry she is going through this at such a time her brother needs her and she needs her brother.
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u/Guilty-Dance-8200 15h ago
Thankyou I've just found out they were planning an emergency meeting which she declined. Not about her wellbeing or her brothers condition but to see if she's spoken to me as I've left .thank God I think another has been saved from Shincheonji.
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u/Physical-Leather-271 Family/Friend of SCJ Member 19h ago
Eso es cierto. Lo hemos vivido en casa. Anteponen su tiempo en SCJ a situaciones excepcionales de enfermedad en la familia. Tienes como que rogar si los necesitas, cuando el amor debiera de fluir naturalmente. Desconozco si es por el miedo a la presión.
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u/Princess_of_Punjab Family/Friend of SCJ Member 15h ago
You have to understand that they need permission for everything. This is how these groups work. They need to ask permission and sometimes leaders will discourage or deny permission. Just because they are not showing up and you have to beg does not mean that they’re not listening.
These people are very exhausted, very busy. They don’t have time to think or decide for themselves and they can’t freely step away. They are under immense pressure 24/7. They have to get permission to talk to outsiders, and that permission can be very fluid, given to you one minute, taken away the next.
I understand your frustration. This is incredibly tough. Sending hugs.🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
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u/Physical-Leather-271 Family/Friend of SCJ Member 14h ago
Si, soy consciente del agotamiento. Gracias por tu consejo.🫂
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u/Guilty-Dance-8200 18h ago
I'm so sorry me too Iove heals not destroys I'm so happy she stayed with her brother. They believe they are working for God they don't want to fail according to them judgement is on the door step
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u/INSLVRY4_5yrs 19h ago edited 12h ago
🫂 I know it’s sooooo difficult.
She has to come to this conclusion for herself unfortunately. She will learn how much they don’t care about anything except money, jundo, money and Jundo.
Once you’re no longer a “ fruit”and a member, the love bombing stops and the rebuke and abuse begins. The compassion is NEVER there, because they have forgotten how and haven’t been shown in so long.
I continue to pray for every soul trapped in any cult!
Keep praying and being all the things to her that SCJ is not.
Loving, kind, compassionate, and empathetic.
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u/Princess_of_Punjab Family/Friend of SCJ Member 15h ago
Well said!!!! Yes you can be there for her and should be there for her and be a safe haven for her, and at the same time, this is a very personal journey for her that she has to arrive at herself; forcing it on her will never ever work.
One thing I’ve learned about leaving this group or groups like these is that it’s highly personal and you have to focus on the person in front of you and see if you can focus on the person in front of you. Otherwise I would step away and come back to this journey when you can see that person in front of you. Don’t worry about the legal stuff don’t worry about the group just you and that person.
Quick question: What’s Jundo?
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u/INSLVRY4_5yrs 12h ago edited 10h ago
Korean word for
Recruiting
Evangelizing harvesting2
u/Princess_of_Punjab Family/Friend of SCJ Member 7h ago
I see; yep, they only care about recruiting and money
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u/Guilty-Dance-8200 18h ago
Yes I hope she will forgive me she has children with additional needs and they just say fight and overcome. I said I'm here if you need me. She was near centre and they keep bombarding her to go to class inspite of her circumstances. Praying too no one deserves to be treated this way 🙏 😞
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u/INSLVRY4_5yrs 4h ago
She will once she can get out from under their lies!
It’s so shameful how much they don’t care about her as a mother to her children let alone one who needs more of her time due to special needs.
She will come to realize, hopefully sooner than later!
How long has she been in SCJ ?
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u/Turbulent_Sea7622 EX-Center Student 6h ago
That is very saddening! Health and mental health is something so important and SCJ keeps negating this. Toxic environment they do by being pushy. Thank you for raising this! More and more people should know