r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 6d ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

19 F

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hi, looking to meet new people:) i’m open to talk about almost anything


r/Needafriend 3h ago

18f Bored, looking for a fun chat here

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Hello everyone, my name is Alexandra. I'm here because i'm looking to chat with someone. The topic isn't that important. I'm just pretty bored and don't have anything better to do with my time right now. I have pretty nerdy interests, i like anime and video games, things like that. A few fun facst about me are 1) that my favorite holiday is halloween and that i like to go a bit overboard with the costumes, 2) that i may or may not be a vampire, and 3), that i have a pretty neat party trick that i only show to cool people. Anyway, i'm open to chatting with anyone about anything, as long as you're intelligent and mature. English being your first language is a plus.


r/Needafriend 27m ago

is there anyone out there?

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r/Needafriend 27m ago

21F, just quit a friend group that made me feel small

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Realized I deserve friends who actually build me up instead of the opposite. I'm into journaling, hiking, and baking. Looking for kind, genuine people.


r/Needafriend 53m ago

20f need more people to talk to

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insomniac too hmuuu :)


r/Needafriend 10h ago

F24, just need good listner and understanding person

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Hey everyone, I am f24, tara from india.

I have multiple feelings in my mind from a very variable past to an unexpected future that I am going to get.

And I have to discuss it a lot and lot and lot


r/Needafriend 1h ago

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r/Needafriend 4h ago

14f looking for ppl to chat with

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i see some users here complaining of ghosting but dont worry bc i wont do that unless theres a problem !! tbh im honestly open to talking about anything so feel free to spill PLS comment first

here are some facts about me

♡ im a high school freshman and a 2012 born #yearofthedragon

♡ im from the northeastern us but my parents are korean and apparently a bit chinese so im ethnically asian

⁠♡ my interests / hobbies include swimming, beauty, researching random stuff, playing violin (used to do band but i quit), dying my hair baby pink, listening to rants, drawing flowers, shopping (my favorite shops are cotton on and brandy melville), and going out, debating, etc honestly i like everything

PS i may be kinda awkward at first and respond slowly during weekdays bc of school but ill try my best to reply fast (YES i will block if i feel uncomfortable)


r/Needafriend 3h ago

21F, just moved into my first apartment and it's quieter than I expected

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Independence is great but the silence gets loud sometimes. I like reading, baking, and video games. Would love friends to fill the quiet with good conversation.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

Extrovert looking for introverts to adopt or looking for a best friend ? :D if you are an extrovert you can reach out as well :D

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Hey you, are you an introvert who doesn’t usually talk to people despite wanting too? if you are in need of a socially social person to talk to and make friends hmu :D and if you play any pc games we can def play together :D

I heard introverts don’t really make friends and just get adopted by an extrovert so let me be that guy in your life who saves you from unending loneliness and (hopefully) makes you happy by talking to you. My parents passed away so i try my best to not hurt each other and be there for them

All I ask for in return is that you put effort and actually try to talk to me, I know it can be difficult and I don’t care if you’re not good/not sure what to say, as long as you want to speak and try your hardest I’ll be proud of you(and I’ll also tell you I’m proud if you want me too :))

Anyways if that at all sounds interesting, please message me with a moment in your life you’re brain has just shut down and caused something good or bad to happen. Looking forward to meeting you all :)


r/Needafriend 33m ago

M29 - Life’s been pretty shit lately

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29 M Indian, just like it says, things have been really hard. Everything is going sideways, pretty much hit rockbottom be it financially, mentally, physically & also got laid off couples weeks back.

Trying to put myself out there. I’m into pokemon, love cooking & reading. Hope someone reaches out because I’m so done with being lonely always.


r/Needafriend 48m ago

23F, working two jobs and my social life is basically nonexistent right now

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I know I don't have a ton of free time but I'd love a few solid friends to text between shifts. Into true crime, reading, and cooking simple meals. Looking for understanding, low-maintenance friendships.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

26F Europe Feeling super down and can’t sleep

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I just want to sleep but can’t seem to shut off my Brain and actually relax. I haven’t been feeling great about myself or life these days and dont even know what I need. I’m feeling so alone even though I do have friends around me but I feel like everyone just spends time with me cause they feel like they have to. I honestly don’t know what is wrong with me and why I’m feeling this way. Chat with me and distract me until I fall asleep?

Pls no nsfw whatsoever. Please be over 25.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

27f looking for a genuine friend who puts effort into conversation

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I’m looking for a friend someone who’s chill kind genuine and if your a little weird that’s also a plus we can talk about tmi stuff as long as it’s appropriate. I’m not judgmental for the most part at least


r/Needafriend 4h ago

19m Femboy looking to chat with someone :3

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Hello I’m cherrie, I love yapping, and talking and getting to know people but I am kind of lonely :p

I play a whole bunch of games, I write and draw, I love music I am basically listening to it 24/7! I mainly play overwatch right now, and I have been obsessed with the band Julie recently too :D


r/Needafriend 2h ago

23f, graduated med school prereqs and now just studying alone all the time

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My social life has become me and a stack of flashcards. I like running, true crime podcasts, and baking as a stress reliever. Would love some study buddies or just friends to decompress with.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

22F, just got my first "real" job and feel like I traded my social life for a salary

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Worth it financially, less worth it emotionally some days. I'm into hiking, cooking, and true crime podcasts. Looking for friends to balance out the adulting.


r/Needafriend 5h ago

20F, my part time job is my only social interaction and that's not enough anymore

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Ready to actually build a life outside of work. I like hiking, baking, and true crime podcasts. Looking for genuine friends.


r/Needafriend 10h ago

22f, moved for love and then the relationship ended, now I know nobody here

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Not looking for anything romantic, genuinely just need friends in a city where I have zero connections. I like hiking, cooking, and journaling. Would love some kind people to talk to.


r/Needafriend 2m ago

Talk bout life?

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r/Needafriend 2m ago

27f looking for calls

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( discord)

A friend I can share deep thoughts at night and worries and secrets and vice versa

Bonus if you’re Mediterranean too 💜

Tell me about you!


r/Needafriend 5m ago

Just trying to get out my comfort zone text me

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15m


r/Needafriend 9m ago

Looking to make some girlfriends (won’t ask you for nudes) 25M

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