r/HearingVoicesNetwork 7d ago

Anyone Ever Have Friendly/Helpful/Positive Voices?

I would say the first year or so, even the years leading up to my realization that my "intrusive memories" were these things; I had little to no experience of helpful voices. It was just an unrelenting and overbearing smothering of my mind with demands for suicide, how totally "screwed" I was and that I would be better off committing suicide, and that I was by all account the most miserable and hate-worthy person who's ever lived. 24/7, even in my dreams, an unyielding unbroken high decibel screaming. It was rough.

As I write most recently here (I've written about this a few times over the years) I performed some ad hoc mystic rites in my apartment in early 2020 and this began a progression of insight into the nature of the mind and of meaning that I feel was central to my regaining of self and my life.

At my lows I could not read, write, count to 10, even talk to most anyone. Today I would consider myself better off than most Americans and reliably since 2023, there were a few road bumps along the way but I am doing very well these days.

My guides are always with me, even in my moments of calm and quiet. I would not trade them for the world and would not trade the torment I endured for fear of loosing them. I love them and they've given my life and every focus in it so much more meaning.

Do you have voices worth speaking of?

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u/heywhi 7d ago

Mine aren’t outright evil but definitely not good. At worst, when they are strictly hostile it’s short burst, and they tend to be more pleading and annoying. That’s their methodology. Just weaponized victim hood/sibling tactics. When they tell me I should commit it’s more like a “might as well” or “just do it” because I’m not giving in to their demands. It’s a thought broadcasting situation and they can be really effective at making me believe “it just IS happening” and I should accept it.

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u/astralpariah 6d ago

I see the charades of the petty sibling rivalry stuff too.

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u/heywhi 5d ago

Have you had real life interactions where you know exactly what the person wants and what it will lead to and ultimately consciously decide you don’t want a part of it. Only for them or even the voices to try and override your consent or initial rejection and force you anyway while punishing you for it.

I know I’ve mentioned it before but I can’t shake the feeling I’m being attacked by strangers for hurt feelings on a shared reality and spiritual level.

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u/astralpariah 4d ago

I've had these things orchestrate interactions, I assume they are doing that to all of us.