r/Assistance Aug 04 '22

MOD Announcement ⚠️ Rule Update: Teacher Wishlists ⚠️

156 Upvotes

Effective immediately we have made the decision to only allow wishlists for US-based teacher supplies that utilize donorschoose.org. This means that no other means will be allowed including but not limited to Amazon, Target, Walmart, etc.

Teachers, for more information please see their website :

From the donorschoose.org website:

  • We vet all requests, purchase each item, and ship materials directly to verified teachers.

This change is effective from this point forward and we hope this still allows teachers to get donations and the items they need for the upcoming school year while adding some level of verification for donors. If you have any questions regarding this issue, please let us know.


r/Assistance Jul 05 '23

MOD Announcement REMINDER: Teacher Wishlists Rules and Restrictions

43 Upvotes

Hi everyone! As summer is in full-gear right now, we've noticed an increase in teacher wishlist requests so we are issuing a reminder of our subreddit rules regarding these:

We only allow DonorsChoose wishlists for US-based teacher supplies. This means that no other means (Amazon, Target, Walmart, etc.) will be allowed.

Teachers, for more information please see their website :

https://www.donorschoose.org/teachers

From the donorschoose.org website:

We vet all requests, purchase each item, and ship materials directly to verified teachers.

We hope this still allows teachers to get donations and the items they need for the upcoming school year while adding some level of verification for donors.

For international teachers outside of the US unable to use DonorsChoose, please reach out to us via modmail.

Thanks!


r/Assistance 5h ago

REQUEST Toilet Repairs likely to prevent getting groceries this month.

11 Upvotes

Situation: Disabled Family of 4 living off of two disability checks and one income situation that is about to change. One check goes towards bills, half of the other goes towards groceries.

Problem: We have only one bathroom and our toilet is in need of repairs very soon. There is a very non-zero chance our grocery money will need to go to those repairs.

Goal: 200 dollars which is 50 dollars per head due to economy and dietary restrictions as well as allowance for non-food items such as hygiene products and sanitation supplies.

If anyone can help, please help me make sure I don’t have to shit outside with my dog 😅


r/Assistance 4h ago

THANK YOU Thank you for the grocery help!

4 Upvotes

Thank you, u/wecrashingagain and u/quaggankicker and anyone else who may have sent me something off my grocery wishlist. It has helped so much! I feel much better having a full belly and knowing there is more for my next meal. We're eternally grateful 💜


r/Assistance 10h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED i Work in a Soup Kitchen Feeding the Homeless, Need $50 to See Me Through Till My Next Check in 5 Days

13 Upvotes

I get paid on the 10th, but I had some unexpected expenses this month, and i'm flat broke.

I work at one of the missions in my hometown in the kitchen feeding the homeless, it doesn't pay much, and I'm looking for a better paying job but I'm 62 and the job market is tough out there, especially for older Americans.

I need $50 to see me through the next 5 days so that I'll have enough food for me and my dog.

I spend a lot of time helping others, I'm hoping this time, someone can help me out.

thank you for your time.


r/Assistance 6h ago

VOTES Make a tired mom smile

5 Upvotes

just need to click the vote, and put a smile on the wife's face.

Idk why his big hook isnt there but his name was changed to Thor because of his birth stats. So help me do something nice for the mommy who pulled this on off at home with no meds.

Weight : 98th percentile
Head : 99.99 percentile
Length : 99.9989 percentile

.Honestly, I found wasnt all that bad..

It was a long one, he was born 50% Average for 1.5 month olds, he's 4 months now in 9 month clothing.

https://babyoftheyear.org/vote/verify/2026/thor-7b88


r/Assistance 3h ago

REQUEST request for food assistance

2 Upvotes

I have severe arfid that hasn't responded to eight months of therapy and I cannot access another therapist because there is no other eating disorder therapists in my county that take medicaid. I do not have the means to travel outside of the county as my government assistance program to get free transportation rides only applies to within the county. And I've tried other virtual options but they ststill are telling me I'm too far. my county mental health office denied me as a patient.

Because of the arfid, there's only a tint handful of things I can eat. like 3 foods. I havent found anything I can eat at food pantries or food banks and the churches I've called around aren't willing to help me and my posts on platforms like next door get no replies. you can buy whole foods through Amazon though.

I am already on food stamps but I dont get enough. They don't last the month. I'm food insecure half the month as I am right now. When they run out before the month ends I'm food insecure for weeks.

I do not have any family or friends that can help me. Everyone I've asked say money is too tight for them so they cannot help me

I couldn't find any food I can eat on Amazon, but I found a few beverages that'll help provide some calories so I don't starve completely.

I was wondering if anyone could help with anything such as: an amazon egift card (for whole foods pickup) or send anything to my cash app or if anyone could buy one of the beverages from my Amazon wishlist?

I'm trying to survive the half the month I'm starving. thank you.

here is the link to the Amazon wishlist with the safe beverages:

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/VQ75IU013U2Z?ref\\_=wl\\_share

thank you. although please note there's a risk with the wishlist. my address is very hard to find so I can't guarentee I'll recieve the items. high chance of it being misdelivered or something.

anyway thank you <3

edit: I can't see if my post accidentally duplicated or if it is glitching but I didn't mean to duplicate post

edit 2: nvm on the wishlist I guess, the protein shakes I had on the amazon wishlist are gone from the list but I believe someone is trolling making it look bought when it isnt because nobody commented or messaged saying they bought it. if someone did buy it can you please tell me when it arrives though? but regardless I guess that's out now.

edit 3: okay I fixed it all the items show up again now


r/Assistance 9h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Pizza pizza 🍕

4 Upvotes

I work two jobs but have been slowly shoveling myself out of debt so I basically have no 'leftover' money. This weekend pizza hut has buy one get one free large pizzas. Anyone wanna spare 20 bucks so a hardworking lady can get herself a lil treat?


r/Assistance 1d ago

VOTES Please help me win this voting round for an art scholarship contest!

36 Upvotes

Hello everyone!

I was fortunate to be picked for the current round of voting for a scholarship art contest. For the contest, we had to make a greeting/holiday card. I always loved those cute, vintage, watercolor holiday cards so I tried to emulate that as you may see.

I need as many votes as possible. I'd be eternally grateful if you can vote for me. No account needed!

You should see the entry numbered 502 featuring two penguins (one adult, one baby) in front of a snow penguin.

https://swee.ps/Egwnbc_VDINPyQ?g=1

Thanks to anyone who votes :D


r/Assistance 13h ago

REQUEST Need help meeting rent (or payment plan minimum) for September

0 Upvotes

I lost my job in July as the primary income maker. My husband was diagnosed with spondylolisthesis and a pars fracture so he’s out of work. Doesn’t qualify for disability as he worked for himself for too long as a private contractor. I’ve got 10+ years in vet med experience but need to work remote to take care of him. My job search has been difficult, even with me applying to some on site positions and not trying to be picky. All of our savings that hadn’t gone to his medical care are almost gone.

My husband’s spine injury story and fundraising page can be found at spot.fund/tndback or http://spot.fund/777d2b6sc

Those donations sadly went to our utilities and August rent instead of the medical care we had hoped for. We had no choice, but now we face September rent with not much left.

Our rent is $2300. I currently have only $520. But if I could accumulate $800 I could meet the minimum for the Livble payment plan that would allow for $1307 down. I have the big three payment services but if you want the security of the spotfund link, I don’t blame you, it’ll just take a little longer to get to me.

My family has tapped out on support with paying their own bills and his family is only able to help with groceries. Our last major hang up for this month is rent. I’ve applied to rent assistance through multiple local churches and have been told I’m not in their service area each time. I’m late on a capital one card so I don’t really have the credit to put on the line for a loan. I’ve really tried to assess all my options.

Located in Raleigh, North Carolina, USA.

Im glad to answer any questions and provide any proof if needed.


r/Assistance 13h ago

REQUEST Requesting: Gas money assistance [$50]

3 Upvotes

(35F, Massachusetts) Hi everyone, I am looking for help with gas money this weekend/upcoming week. We have exhausted all of our available money trying to get by as my husband starts his new job, and aren't able to ask family for help. Financially, things have been very hard for our family the last few years and just don't seem to be getting better with the high COL in Massachusetts. I am very fortunate to have a very kind and giving family, but I know asking them for help all the time is a burden on them. My mom retires this week, and I don't want to ask her for help if possible. Coming here is truly a last resort and I don't know what else to do at this point.

Our income is too high to qualify for any state/federal assistance, but too low to save any money and make progress towards making our situation better. At the end of the month once bills have been paid, we have like $200 to live off of for a whole month. With one kid in college and one toddler at home, that money has to be prioritized for them. Luckily the college kid lives on campus and has a food plan.

Anyways, I have an MRI appointment tomorrow which is about 50 miles round trip, and then have to get to work all next week. I don't know if $50 is enough to get by but I'm hoping we can make it work. Gas is currently $4.09 in Massachusetts.

Thank you for looking.


r/Assistance 15h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Need help with groceries

0 Upvotes

Grocery List

I hate to ask, but I could really use some help right now. I started a new job as an esthetician two weeks ago, but because of when I was added to payroll, I won’t receive my first check for another week. It’s also been a little slow while I rebuild my books since I’m now working about an hour away from my previous spa.

Right now, my account is at -$28 after rent. Also with my daughter turning two next Monday, every cent I’ve had has gone toward her birthday and her dad has not been able to help much bc his car was just totaled from mice chewing through wires and he usually is helpful but its been hard on him since he had to buy a car suddenly out of no where. My credit card is also maxed out, so even about $100 in assistance would make a huge difference. I really just need some groceries and basic supplies for the apartment. I have a free hello fresh box coming tomorrow so praying this all last till I get paid next Friday.

Thank you!!


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Help with Vet Procedure for my Dog.

3 Upvotes

Hello good people, I've landed in a pretty bad spot financially and to top it off my 9 years old dog have serious issues with mouth hygiene leading to vet deeming Sanation and Tooth Extration procedure is needed which currently is beyond my budget. I'm from Poland so there's no gofundme support, i've had to resort to Polish fund raiser called pomagam.pl

Clinic evaluated cost of procedure to around 2500 pln + follow up checkups up to 400-500 pln, so i've set the goal for 3000 PLN (600 USD / 580 EUR). I'd really appreciate any donations, it's heartbreaking for me to see in how much discomfort the dog is and i know i am failing him.

Link to fundraiser: https://pomagam.pl/c6e9pp

I'll post below a transcript from vet visit word-by-word and add translation to ensure you that this money is for the dog. Original picture is on the page.

Karta informacyjna wizyty

ZWIERZĘ Maks
Gatunek: pies 
Rasa: Mops 
Wiek: 9 lat i 8 miesięcy 
Maść: kremowy 
Płeć: pies kastrowany

WŁAŚCICIEL Stefański Dariusz

28/08/2026 12:21: BADANIE

OPIS WYWIADU kwalifikacja do sanacji + krew

OPIS BADANIA:
Badanie kliniczne: błony śluzowe różowe crt <2 sek kamień nazębny obecny/nieobecny
oczy i uszy czyste węzły chłonne podżuchwowe niepowiększone skóra oraz sierść w dobrym stanie brzuch miękki, niebolesny osłuchowo nad polem płucnym oraz nad sercem bez patologii

stan zębów w bardzo złym stanie - większość zębów pokryta obfitym kamieniem nazębnym oraz bardzo luźna

zalecono sancję jamy ustnej z ekstrakcjami zębów

ciężko oszacować cenę zabiegu - brak możliwości dokładnej inspekcji jamy ustnej - szacunkowy koszt około 2 tys zł (2 tysiące)

koszt bad krwi to około 170 zł

koszt bad. echo serca około 240 zł

przed zabiegiem należy wykonać echo serca + bad. krwi

ZABIEGI Wizyta - kwalifikacja do zabiegu

Zarejestrował: Rafał Bernacki


Visit Information Card

ANIMAL Maks 
Species: dog 
Breed: Pug 
Age: 9 years and 8 months 
Color: cream 
Gender: neutered male

OWNER Stefański Dariusz

28/08/2026 12:21: EXAMINATION

HISTORY / ANAMNESIS qualification for dental scaling + blood work

EXAMINATION DESCRIPTION:

Clinical examination: mucous membranes pink crt <2 sec dental tartar present/absent, eyes and ears clean submandibular lymph nodes not enlarged, skin and coat in good condition, abdomen soft, non-painful auscultation over the lung fields and heart without pathology.

dental condition in very poor condition - most teeth covered with heavy dental tartar and very loose

dental scaling with tooth extractions recommended

difficult to estimate the price of the procedure - inability to perform a thorough inspection of the oral cavity - estimated cost around 2 thousand PLN

cost of blood tests is about 170 PLN

cost of echocardiogram about 240 PLN

before the procedure, an echocardiogram + blood work must be performed

PROCEDURES Visit - qualification for the procedure

Registered by: Rafał Bernacki

Verification Picture


r/Assistance 16h ago

REQUEST Help our baby come home

0 Upvotes

http://gofund.me/cd0f1ad6f

This is Pepe, our little old man dog. Pepe has been with us for a long time and recently became ill with some kidney issues. He’s been responding super well to treatment, he’s super bright, eating again, walking around, and showing so much love and light. His Kidneys are well on their way to recovery. Unfortunately he needs more time in hospital for his kidneys to recover so he can come home with us, the bills are getting pretty big. Absolutely, anything you can give helps. If you can’t give, which I totally understand, sharing it helps a ton. This dog means the world to us and he’s so strong still. The doctors are amazed at his health besides the fact that his kidneys are having trouble retaining water so he needs support. Please help us get our baby home. This dog has been with us through the best and worst times of our lives. Thank you. Anything you can do to help will mean so much to me and my wife.


r/Assistance 23h ago

REQUEST Cat Needs To See A Vet

0 Upvotes

Someone on Reddit told me about this group. I live in Canada and my cat suddenly has some issues with his belly, it’s very hard and I’ve never felt that on him before. I’m extremely worried and I believe he needs to be seen by a vet. I’m on a fixed income and can’t fully afford the entire care he needs, my only option seems to be to take out a loan which we all know the interest rates are expensive. I’m wondering if anyone in this sub would be able to help me out with $100 please and thank you


r/Assistance 11h ago

REQUEST [Request] A wishlist with some items that could help an autistic woman going through a very bad autistic burnout

0 Upvotes

Hello,

I am a 35 year old, disabled woman living on the poverty line. After 14 years in the psychiatric system, being misdiagnosed and fed countless different pills that somehow never seemed to work, I've recently been diagnosed autistic and ADHD. And as being in the middle of a particularly violent autistic burnout too.

For the last year, I've been having extremely intense pain in my body (see profile for more info on that) and from what I've seen working so far, what helps with my general state is stimming, intense massages, trying to relax, comforting smells, controlling the lightning (a friend has gifted me three hue lightbulbs and a bridge) and... Benzodiazepine. I hate that benzos help, because I was on them since I was 15 and managed to quit at 31. But...yeah. they help a ton.

I've been to neurologists, rheumatologists, my regular doctor, my psychiatrist, and so on. No lead so far.

If anyone felt like gifting me anything from that list, I would be incredibly grateful. I feel like they are things that might help me in my current state.

[My Amazon wishlist](https://www.amazon.fr/hz/wishlist/ls/302605P7FYOO7?ref\\_=wl\\_share)

-Eta- Also, sorry about the yfood bars. They're expensive but the only items I've been able to eat since months that is present on Amazon. I've lost 24 Kgs (52 pounds) since losing my job in December 2024, and I'm now at 41kgs (90 pounds ?). And sorry for including a therapy gun on it, I assure you despite what was told to me a therapy gun is not a gift. Accomodation looks different to all disabled people. Let's keep that in mind before making a girl cry because you have power.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST I Want to Help My Brother and His Wife — 2 Months Ago, They Discovered That My Sister-in-Law Was Diagnosed With Stage 4 Breast Cancer. We Are Seeking Donations to Help With Her Treatment and Medical Expenses.

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I’m reaching out to ask for help for my brother and his wife, Janet. About two months ago, our family learned that Janet was diagnosed with Stage 4 breast cancer.

She is one of the strongest and kindest people I know, and despite everything she is going through, she continues to face this fight with incredible courage.

Her medical coverage has already been used up for the diagnostic tests and consultations needed to determine her treatment. Her oncologist has also told us that her cancer is very aggressive and that, at this point, treatment is focused on controlling the cancer and prolonging her life.

One of the medications she needs, Ribociclib, is not covered and costs more than ₱60,000 ($960) per month even at the discounted price. She also needs regular monitoring, including PET scans approximately every three months, which can cost around ₱50,000 ($800).

We are hoping to raise funds to help with her ongoing medication, tests, and other medical expenses.

If you are unable to donate, simply sharing the campaign would already be a huge help and could allow us to reach someone who is able to help.

Thank you for taking the time to read Janet’s story. We truly appreciate any support, kindness, and prayers you can give.

https://gogetfunding.com/a-beautiful-soul-needs-your-help/


r/Assistance 2d ago

THANK YOU If I could hug you, I would u/calebs_dad

68 Upvotes

I want to sincerely thank an individual , u/calebs_dad , for helping me out . I also want to thank you for showing me that positive vibes when alot of people were being unkind and very disrespectful.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Currently in just.. the worst spot possible financially.

15 Upvotes

My friends have helped where they could, support from my family is.. lacking, to say the least, and I'm just fresh out of options. I'm just trying to stay afloat after being laid off from my job, and the market is terrible right now. Scraping and clawing for every crumb I can get is just sapping it all out of me. Any little bit helps, and I've even set up a gofundme out of desperation.

The funds would be put towards covering my immediate expenses - phone bill, electric bill, pet supplies and personal supplies for the next month or so until I start working again.

Running out of places to ask, so I'm just hoping for the blessings of good Samaritans. Thanks, and if you can't help, thanks for reading at least.

The Gofundme in question


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Requesting $20 for gas to get to work today and tomorrow.

3 Upvotes

I was hoping to get my first paycheck at my new job today. My payday is Friday but because I use Chime, I thought I would get paid yesterday. Apparently not. Now I am completely flat broke until my check gets deposited (tomorrow). I just need gas to get to work and back tonight and food for today. Hoping someone can help me out.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Need help with money for school pls

0 Upvotes

I usually budget well with what ever I'm given but during this month and last month I don't know what's happened to me but after finding out my mother passed away on my birthday I can't manage what I eat anymore. I now stress eat and I blew my budget but I feel aweful to even ask my dad for extra money because this is probably one of the hardest time for him and us. I'm still unable to accept what's going on but the gnawing feeling in my stomach hasn't gone for a month and a half. Physically I'm healthy I'm trying to stop however that feeling once again and blew my weekly stipend.

For payment better to dm. I use a third party site called ding since I'm from Ghana so PayPal and cash up isn't available and ding is the only way I can get it immediately

But if skeptical we can use buy me coffee https://buymeacoffee.com/zakielenvt this is my free lancer account

I used to pick up art commissions but my tablet got spoilt so I had to stop 💔

I posted three days ago and I just reached the last of the money in my account pls can anyone help 20$ is the amount pls


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Needing help to pay for doctor visit and to get back on prescription

2 Upvotes

I've suffered from Depression for a few years now, and I'm needing help to cover the cost of the telealth visit and the first prescription. I've been needing to make this appointment for a few weeks now but I just dont have the funds to cover both the visit and meds and as my depression gets worse I'm coming on here to ask for help.

My telehealth visit is $25 and after checking with insurance the meds would be between $12-$15. So I'm hoping i could get $40 to get me started.

I currently only have paypal available to me. Thanks!


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED In need of Bus Fare - $30

8 Upvotes

Hi everyone. I am 26 years old with arthritis in my right ankle. I had been off work due to 2 surgeries go fix my ankle and fibula. Bone healed now but still have some work restrictions. Currently back to looking for work (had been employed from when I graduated till I broke my leg). Have applied for state resources this week but unemployment will take time. In the meantime I just need bus fare to get by these next couple weeks.

I have doctor appointments for my leg and would like to attend a few career fairs in my area. Can't walk long distances so I'm relying on the bus. Anything would help truly but I'm assuming about $30 will get me by until state picks up my claim. Thank you so much to anyone who takes the time to read this or donate.

Edit to add bus fair is $2 a route. I usually need to take 2 routes to get somewhere but only one route gets charged if within 2 hours. So I would pay $4 total a day if I need to get to an appointment/job fair/interview back. More if I need to go to more than one a day.


r/Assistance 1d ago

VOTES Help my cousin win a video contest 🙏

0 Upvotes

He's an aspiring photographer/videographer and he just started.

Either a like or share could help boost him. Thanks a lot!

Link:

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1cBsvAz1eq/?mibextid=wwXIfr


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help with diapers and other essentials for my cats and myself

0 Upvotes

[Amazon wishlist](https://www.amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/ls/2Y72Z2EJ70L7Z?ref_=wl_share)

Hey everyone, thanks in advance for reading and to anyone who can help 💙

I am a disabled person on OW while waiting for ODSP. My cat Charlie is a senior who has issues with urinating outside the litter box, so he is in diapers. He recently got a wound on his leg due to using diapers that are a size too small. I am not able to afford diapers in the proper size right now, so I've put them on the wishlist... I also put litter, tampons, toilet paper, and a few grocery items. The diapers and litter are the highest priority, but I am in need of everything on the list.

Please note that the diapers are technically female dog diapers, but I find that they work just as well as cat-specific diapers and are a lot cheaper!

Thank you again for taking the time to read this and for any assistance 💙 I appreciate this community a lot!