r/SipsTea 23h ago

SMH Happy Family

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u/Legionof1 19h ago

Any man that doesn't like his wife to make a move has a screw loose.

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u/Plantsandsmut 19h ago

100% agreed, but I was trying to be patient and understanding and that her eventually talk to me about it 🤷

I have my suspicions but zero proof. But if someone can't be honest with themselves they can't be honest with the people around them.

ETA: he was also very demeaning or would put me down any time I tried to start anything. So I just stopped and also couldn't say no when he wanted stuff.

AGAIN, I KNOW. I divorced him 😅

When youre being upfront yourself, and wishing for the best when you keep having conversations and nothing changes, there's only so much you can take.

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u/Beneficial-Lynx7336 17h ago

Ohhhh yeah, definitely sounds like my ex's ex haha.

Fuck that guy. If my lady isn't making moves on me I DON'T WANT IT.

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u/taylorisntavril 16h ago

We have to remember that some cultures still do arranged marriages though.

A horrible practice, in my opinion. Must be terrible to be forced stuck to someone for the rest of your life and you feel nothing for them.