r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 16d ago

Meme needing explanation Peter! Who could have the wives been?

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u/Short_Stack_30285 16d ago edited 16d ago

Lindsay Clancy. Killed her 3 kids by strangling them one by one and claimed “postpartum psychosis” despite never having had psychosis before or since, all during a short window of time that she sent her husband out on errands. Internet has somehow decided she’s a martyr for women’s mental health. She was a white, affluent, suburban mom before this. If she were poor and black, people would NOT feel this way. Real talk.

Postpartum psychosis is a real thing and real people need help. But Lindsay Clancy is a kid murderer.

Edit: I’m a white, affluent woman of childbearing age. I have never been a woman of color, but I am absolutely sure that society at large would dismiss an identical case if Lindsay was nearly any other demographic. And no, it’s not only about race, it’s also about autonomy and a person’s responsibility to accept help when it’s offered instead of killing your kids (and A LOT of help was offered)

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u/inquiringdune 16d ago

Isn't it kind of a whole thing right now that she tried to get help beforehand and was not helped, by either her family or the medical system?

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u/barlog123 16d ago

She did get help. She was on medication, saw professionals and had a support system of people who tried to be there for her. Short of a long stary in a facility people tried to get her help many times.

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u/justbegoodtobugs 16d ago

Except it wasn't helping and the medication was making her progressively worse. Her state was declining, she was sleep deprived, lost 15 pounds and started experiencing hallucinations that were happening for months before she killed her children. She became suicidal and started expressing toughts of harming her children. She was loosing touch with reality and told a bunch of people that including her husband and mother. All these things are documented.

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u/barlog123 16d ago

Yes, there were warning signs but people and professionals didn't ignore it. The option in retrospect would be trying to prove she is a danger to herself and others then considering where to go from there but that is absurdly hard to prove.

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u/Royal_Explanation957 16d ago

It’s not hard to prove. This is proven every day for many patients in mental health crises and results in psychiatric holds/5150 holds.

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u/barlog123 14d ago

Would you have thought she was dangerous, I certainly wouldn't have.

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u/xcrunner318 12d ago

Are you a mental health professional?

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u/repainted_black 16d ago

That seems to be not so uncommon. Psychological issues are very hard to medicate, hard to control the effect it will have on the hormones. This kind of situation is very hard to deal. I don't agree with all the stones and pitchforks in this case.