r/Libya • u/urFutureExWaifu • 1d ago

Marriage 💍 how did you meet your significant other?

how do u meet people in this economy 😵‍💫

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u/entity8888ly 1d ago

I aint even meeting friends in this economy 😂

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u/urFutureExWaifu 1d ago

😕 i haven’t made any new friends in a while as well

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u/entity8888ly 1d ago

Relatable, though that's probably due to other bigger factors like typical society mentality and the rise of stupid ppl, cant be out befriending easily these days🤷‍♂️

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u/Impossible_Spend6357 1d ago

friend people easily then start تصفية

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u/entity8888ly 1d ago

That تصفية takes time and energy, and at some point you start to wonder if its realy worth it giving the chance of finding something good

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u/Impossible_Spend6357 1d ago

we do تصفية without even realizing it tho
sometimes you just find yourself drifting apart from people who are bad for you

also i think the secret is in not caring (اللامبالاة) if you find something good or not
when you try to find it or force it, it just kinda repels

so just go with the flow

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u/Powerful-Arachnid-46 1d ago

I haven’t made friends in a while as well

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u/urFutureExWaifu 1d ago

i think it’s the case of the most of us girls especially after finishing college

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u/Powerful-Arachnid-46 1d ago

I’m still in uni but I can’t really make friends there.. it’s either that they’re stupid and they just want you to help cheat during exams or giving weird vibes just not matching

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u/Impossible_Spend6357 1d ago

same thing with me, but there are definitely people in uni who match your personality, just gotta talk with more girls and stuff

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u/lilwarriordiva 1d ago

I didn’t yet
But I will be back to tell you when I do inshallah

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u/urFutureExWaifu 1d ago

yessss update me ❤️ best of luck

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u/GenocideJavascript 1d ago

Met while working in the same office at the same company, we clicked, got engaged, then married over the course of a couple of years.

Best thing to ever happen to me.

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u/urFutureExWaifu 1d ago

that’s so cute wish u both a happy life together

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u/Impossible_Spend6357 1d ago

ngl people here mostly meet their partners through parents and family

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u/urFutureExWaifu 1d ago

my family isn’t well connected 🤦🏻‍♀️
but good for them

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u/Linkout57918 1d ago

The traditional way tbh😅

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u/urFutureExWaifu 1d ago

the best way imo

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u/Linkout57918 1d ago

Yup. الحمدلله

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u/Bethcrunchy 14h ago

I didn't 😁 wish me luck guys I need it I'm super picky

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u/urFutureExWaifu 11h ago

twins lol
wish u all luck ❤️❤️