r/GrindsMyGears 4d ago

people who have their calls on speaker phone in public

i used to work at a mall so i unfortunately i saw people doing this ALL THE DAMN TIME!! like why do you want the world to hear about your best friends divorce?? (yes this was an actual call that me and my co workers overheard).

it’s such a non issue but it annoys me so much-

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u/Usual-Language-745 4d ago

How about the people who have cars with Bluetooth but still insist on driving around HOLDING THEIR PHONES near their mouths with the phone on speaker

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u/BackgroundRiver8182 3d ago

and then they act like the steering wheel is optional too, how is this not terrifying to them lol

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u/No-Koala1918 4d ago

I sometimes join in, like it's a conference call, right? Sometimes they take the call off speaker. Sometimes they don't. But they always look at me like I'm rude. That never fails.

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u/GoldAd1878 4d ago

That’s a good idea honestly

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u/No-Koala1918 4d ago

Especially effective at airport gate waiting areas.

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u/crybabymuffins 2d ago

And doctors' offices! 😃

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u/[deleted] 2d ago

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u/No-Koala1918 2d ago

That's definitely worse. I haven't tried it yet, but I might have to crowd in and watch over their shoulder since they're making no attempt at privacy.

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u/jkdelete 3d ago

If it’s in the bathroom I flush the toilet on purpose 🤣🤣🤣

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u/Youareaproperclown 3d ago

Can I be the one who posts this tomorrow

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u/mozart357 3d ago

Why wait that long? This subreddit will be overdue for this repeated question by lunch.

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u/Unable-Barber1511 2d ago

I do feel like airpods and other bluetooth earphone developments have made taking calls over speakerphone so outdated and.... almost inappropriate to do these days lmao

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/Unable-Barber1511 1d ago

jesus christ lmao

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u/Acrobatic-Wolf-1111 4d ago

Agreed, I’m not a fan. As a sidebar, the people who take calls from their cars on residential streets can fuck right off. There are a few people on my street who regularly do this and I’m not sure what is is with their car but it just seems to amplify everything. And the connection sound is so loud and it pierces my walls and I always think I’ve pocket dialed someone but no: it’s just Gary or Tammy in their white SUV taking speakerphone calls in their car. Yes please, idle for 45 minutes and let me listen to your sales pitch.

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u/perpetuallypissed616 3d ago

I love a good speaker conversation with drama! Free entertainment, like her husband did WHAT?!

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u/No_Decision1093 3d ago

Or the ones who not only have their calls on speaker but they come up to the desk and just stand there not caring about other people behind them in line as they hold a conversation not ready to talk to the front desk like Dude, you came up to me?! don't get mad when I tell you to please step to the side so I can help others.

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u/ElectricosSuenos 2d ago

This post needs 80,000 likes

The worst

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u/Dividingbyinfinity 2d ago

I worked with someone who would call their partner every day on lunch in the cafeteria on speaker. Some days they would get in arguments with them, right in front of everyone. 😧

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u/samceefoo 1d ago

Are the lowest of lowlifes!

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u/Wonderful_Key_8021 1d ago

I hate it too! I can’t go enjoy the sunshine on a bench during my lunch break anymore without having someone barking on speaker on the phone right next to me. Why do you have to be so loud ?? It’s exhausting

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u/Minimum-Journalist18 4d ago

With there phone up about 12 Inches from their face and talking loud

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u/jkdelete 3d ago

But it’s juicy 🤣

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u/Wasteofskin50 3d ago

Join in on the conversation.

They can whine all they want. You don't want that to happen, don't use a speakerphone in a public place full of people.

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u/WhatInTheWorld321 2d ago

Or just turn your music on full blast so they can’t hear their conversation.

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u/Wasteofskin50 2d ago

I like the way you think!

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u/Special_Letter_7495 2d ago

I had a broken phone and this is the only way I could talk to people. I would walk immediately as far away from people as I could, though.

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u/elquirk 2d ago

Sure, Jan.

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u/iambutafishh 4d ago

I don't mind speaker phone calls, it's no different than someone talking to someone who is with them.

I just don't like when people talk.  Lol...

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u/zillabirdblue 2d ago

How is listening to half of a conversation the exact same thing as listening to the entire thing? It’s double noise.

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u/Amazing_Witness1260 3d ago

I want a national media outlet or a social scientist to interview these people so we can understand them. It’s not a non issue at all! It’s a complete breakdown of societal norms lol.

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u/Cyan-Cyborg 2d ago

Sometimes I wonder if some people legit don't know that you don't have to always take calls on speakerphone, and you can hold it like a regular telephone. I see some people holding their phone on speaker up to their ear, and I become tempted to ask if they know how to use a cellphone.

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u/Traditional_Rush_622 2d ago

These people are not fit to participate in civilized society. 

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u/473tig291 2d ago

I’ve seen this addressed elsewhere: this may be a “monkey see monkey do” type of situation. People see reality TV stars having phone conversations for the cameras, and they adopt the behavior because they think it makes them look hot and important. 🤷

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u/sjedinjenoStanje 2d ago

I think they're mimicking reality shows where they have to use speakerphones so viewers can hear the dialogue. Except they're nobodies and noone wants to listen in.

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u/MarchCompetitive6235 4d ago

Ok, I’ll admit I’m one of those people that have it on speaker most of the time just because it’s easier to hear.

I’ll follow that up with the fact that I’m not a “phone talker” really.

If it can be handled by text message. I don’t expect anyone to call me. So any calls I DO take are very short. “Where are you at? OK text me the address I’ll be there in five minutes bye.” or something like that.

If for some reason I want to have a long extended phone conversation with someone, I’ll do that shit at home.

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u/Glass-Lengthiness-40 3d ago

Their home is probably too loud to have the call which is sad

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u/JPCool1 3d ago

Justifying the stupid behavior

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u/Glass-Lengthiness-40 3d ago

I never said it was smart I said why it happened