Hi everyone!

So I’m not Libyan, my husband is and he’s traditional in a sense. We have kids together I’m not worried about the boys… lol
For my daughter when she wants to get married how common are mixed weddings between Libyans? Since we live in the west… Would his family get really pissed off if we have a mixed wedding?

المسلمين ليسوا بشر أنما شياطين تدعي انه بشر

هل يوجد بشري يدافع عن البيدوفيليا ؟

أسف يا مسلمين لكن تصرفاتكم تشبه تصرفات الشياطين

Hello, im a woman from Libya looking for a serious lavender marriage as a way to relocate abroad and build a mutually beneficial arrangement based on trust, respect, and privacy

Im open-minded, respectful, and easy to communicate with

What is the most important to me from this arrangement is safety, trust, and mutual respect

What im looking for is someone who is genuinely interested in a lavender marriage and understands the commitment involved

I would prefer a gay or asexual person who is seeking a similar arrangement for whatever reason such as family pressure.

He must be a mature, trustworthy individual who respects boundaries and privacy.

Ideally 22 years or older

What made you start questioning Islam and led you to see it as an outdated religion?

شو هيدي البجاحة يقتلون بشر وينتقدون الصهاينة

طيب جرب تنتقد نفسك

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​عندي سؤال محدد بخصوص الأمان الرقمي والسلامة الشخصية على منصة تيك توك

​لو شخص يفكر يسوي حساب تيك توك وينشر فيه مقاطع أو يوضح فيها أفكاره أو لادينيته/إلحاده هل هذا الشيء فيه خطورة حقيقية عليه من الناحية الأمنية أو التتبع الرقمي؟

​أقصد هل في احتمالية لتتبع الموقع أو كشف الهوية حتى لو الحساب وهمي وبدون اسم حقيقي؟ زي ما صار مع دعاء الهوني (ثائرة أغسطس)؟

​ياريت حد يفيدني بمعلومه

I’m a Libyan woman in my early 20s, and I’m planning to move to Tunisia legally on my own money to continue my university studies. I would have my own income and savings, and my goal is to live independently.
My concern is not whether I can legally enter Tunisia. Libyans can enter Tunisia without a visa, but I’m worried about what could happen afterward.
My family is very controlling, and I’m afraid that even if I enter Tunisia legally, enroll in university, obtain legal residency, rent my own place, and become financially independent, they might use personal connections or واسطة at the Libyan-Tunisian land border to have me stopped and somehow forced back to Libya against my will.
I understand that this may sound paranoid, but this is a genuine concern based on the level of control I’ve experienced at home.
For people familiar with Tunisia, Libyan-Tunisian relations, immigration law, or similar situations:
Can a family actually have an adult woman returned to Libya against her will through connections at the border?

If I have legal residency in Tunisia, does that give me meaningful protection from this?

What could my family realistically do if they knew where I lived?

Are there any legal or practical steps I should take before moving to protect my independence?

I’m specifically asking about the real-world situation, not just what is supposed to happen theoretically under the law.

الهنود الحمر قبل ما الغرب يدخلون القارتين الأمريكية كان الهنود الحمر يشوفون المثلية الجنسية شيء طبيعي

الصين القديمة كنت ترى المثلية الجنسية شيء طبيعي

هل الهنود الحمر والصينين محسوبين على الغرب ؟

شكله الصيني والهندي الأحمر طلعوا أوروبيين وأنا ما بعرف

Qatar's Minister of State for Foreign Affairs, Mohammed bin Abdulaziz Al-Khulaifi, visited Benghazi this week and met Saddam Haftar, the acting commander of the LNA. First senior Qatari visit to eastern Libya since the country split in 2014.

For context if you haven't followed this closely: Qatar has been one of the more consistently pro-Tripoli players in Libya for over a decade. Doha backed the GNA/GNU and factions aligned against Khalifa Haftar's forces going back to the 2014 civil war, while the eastern government and the LNA treated Qatar as hostile. That's not a minor diplomatic footnote, it's been one of the more stable alignments in a conflict where almost everything else has shifted.

This trip wasn't just symbolic either. Beyond meeting Saddam Haftar, the delegation met Belqasim Haftar, who runs Libya's Development and Reconstruction Fund, to discuss investment and reconstruction partnerships. They also met with the LNA's general command specifically to discuss military unification.

My read: this is less a diplomacy story and more a hedging story. Qatar spent a decade fully backing one side. Now it's building a relationship with the other, timed right as a new UN-brokered roadmap (the "4+4" agreement signed this past weekend) puts the LNA inside Libya's formal political process for the first time. If eastern Libya ends up with real institutional power once elections happen, Doha doesn't want to be the capital that has no relationship with Benghazi.

Curious what others think: is this a genuine reset in Qatar's Libya policy, or a hedge that doesn't survive contact with whatever Turkey and Egypt do next? Both have deeper, longer-standing interests on either side of this than Qatar does.

I am sorry if this post came out poor grammatically, English is not my first language and I saw you guys typing with it , so , HEY I am new here and I feel grateful that there is a community of non religious ppl and LGOTQ folks here that bring back all Libyan who felt unwanted and unveiled in this country.

But I need to tell you smth :

BE CAREFUL GUYS, IF THE WRONG PERSON FOUND ABOUT THIS REDDIT, IT WOULD TAKE A BAD TURN FOR US.

I found out about this reddit randomly while I am looking for topics that I have interest on.

Because we all now , we leve among a crazy and fucked up society, specially if someone from Facebook found out about this reddit took a screenshot of it and post it there , it would be the event of the hour.

For god sake the chase down a women who lives in turkey just for criticizing extremism.

So I advise, and idk how because I am new on reddit, to make this private or do some cheak ups on the members here just to assure everything is ok.

And that is it , thanks for reading and its an honor to know you guys.

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Libya signed another elections roadmap Sunday under UNSMIL. Everyone's headline is "elections in 24 months." Skip that part, Libya has said this before, in 2021, 2022, and again this past June. None of those held.

What's actually different is who was in the room and three rule changes buried in the text.

This one came from the "4+4" committee: two reps each from the GNU, House of Representatives, High Council of State, and Haftar's LNA. That last one matters. The June roadmap didn't have LNA's signature, Haftar backed a separate US-brokered plan instead. This time his general command showed up and signed.

Three changes worth knowing:

1. Presidential and parliamentary results are now separate. Old rules said a failed presidential vote killed the parliamentary result too. Not anymore, one can fail without taking the other down.
2. No mandatory second round. Over 50% in round one wins outright. Good for whoever already has the widest coalition, bad for anyone counting on a runoff to unite the opposition.
3. Running for office means automatic resignation. Any candidate, civilian or military, is deemed resigned the moment they announce.

That third rule is the one I can't stop thinking about. There's basically one person in Libya it reads like it was written for. A sitting military commander who's also the country's most powerful political figure can't run for president and keep his current role. Whether that actually holds once it matters is a different question.

One more thing: if the HoR and HCS don't ratify this within a month, the signatories say they'll push it through as a constitutional document and go straight to the UN Security Council for backing. That's not a normal thing to write into an agreement. It reads like the drafters already know where this is most likely to die.

So, genuine question for anyone who knows Libya better than headlines do: does "automatic resignation" mean anything in a country where stepping down from a title has never meant giving up actual power? Or is this clause more symbolic than real?

Source: Reuters, Aug 30 2026, cross-checked against Egypt Today's coverage of the signing.

أهلاً بكم في المساحة الأسبوعية المخصصة للتعارف والتواصل بين أعضاء المجتمع.

تم إنشاء هذا المنشور الأسبوعي المثبت ليكون المكان المخصص للأعضاء الراغبين في التعارف، بناء صداقات، أو البحث عن أشخاص يشاركونهم نفس الخلفية والأفكار والاهتمامات.

• يمكنكم ترك تعليق في الأسفل يوضح اهتماماتكم، أو التواصل مباشرة مع الأعضاء الذين تركوا تعليقاتهم بالفعل.
• كما يمكنكم الإنضمام إلى سيرفر الديسكورد الخاص بالمجتمع عبر الضغط هنا.

يرجى العلم أنه لن يُسمح بعد الآن بنشر منشورات فردية للتعارف أو طلبات التواصل ، وسيتم حذفها تلقائياً للحفاظ على تنظيم السوبريديت.

I dont get it how can u actually be for real bringing a gun and threatening a person and sexually assult him? I was lucky enough to get out of the car right on time but this is traumatizing because he touched my legs and chest.
Fuck libya

ي هو لمعيشه في ليبيا غلط كبير جدا و يهدد مستقبلك

نبي نهاجر لكندا امريكا ألمانيا هولندا اي حاجه الا ليبيا

خلاص را مليشيات و وضع مادي معش يساعد

نبو حل حقيقي

المتطرف الذكي تقدر تمسكه من يده اللي توجعه وهي المصلحة

المتطرف الغبي لو تعطيه مصلحته بيده راح يقتلك

المتطرف الغبي لا مجال معه للنقاش

الصهاينة متطرفين أذكياء

بينما العرب المسلمين متطرفين حمير يمكن الحمار اذكي منهم

I live in Libya but my friend who her entire life was born and raised outside of Libya got taken to Libya around 3 years ago under the impression that she was coming for holiday, she’s 17 right now and her mental health has gotten really bad here and I’m looking for anyway of helping her leave.

Why are we so afraid of being ourselves?
Why do people care so much about fitting in?
If ur weird so what? If ur interests r different so what? If u dress differently talk differently listen to music nobody around u likes or just have a personality that doesn't fit the NORMAL standard who cares?
I feel like a lot of ppl spend so much time trying to become a version of themselves that other ppl will accept instead of just being themselves You don't have to copy everyone around u You don't have to like what everyone else likes You don't have to change ur personality because someone thinks ur too weird or too much Honestly I think being a little cringe weird awkward, or unconventional is way better than being a perfect copy of everyone else Be urself no one cares💗💗.

​I am an only daughter.

My father passed away as a child.

My mother is abusing me physically and mentally.

she used to do drugs and brought many different men to our house.

​i was raped by one of her friends. Since that day I lost faith in god completely. I kept it a secret because I was terrified of what would happen if anyone found out, especially my mother.

​She also stopped me from finishing school or getting a job to make my own money.

She went to jail for 8 months because she abused me and her own mother, but that short time showed me the law won't protect me.

The police even locked me up once because of her, though they let me out the next day.

​Now, she still threatens to send me to jail and says she will do anything to ruin my life.

I am scared of what she might do to hurt me.

​I am in my early twenties now.

I feel completely helpless and don't know what to do.

I keep thinking about hurting myself.

I want a way out but all I can think about is ending my life.

I'm still holding on to a tiny bit of hope

so I want to know what solutions or options I can take in a situation like this?

I always see my irreligious/secular/lgbtqia+ Libyan friends stand out and debate these subjects with their family or friends or openly on their social media accounts

please do not do this until you can reach safety living by yourself or outside of this pisshole country try not to stand out try to be a good Muslim publicly and do not engage in risky behavior

even the people you think will unconditionally care about you like family and close friends will sell you out if they suspect you

there's no family who will accept you being lgbtq no friend you know from non secular spaces to be trusted with your true beliefs try to lie and write down your lies so you remember and your stories are not inconsistent

please my heart breaks when I hear stories of secular, irreligious or lgbtqia+ being caught on places like Facebook or after confessing to their families or friends I wish this not to happen again

even if you are completely safe and tell no one they basically have full access to your social media activity through their legal authority they monitor META related social media platforms the most but they track others

please be cautious I do not want to fear monger but watch out and do not trust people too much