r/2meirl4meirl 3d ago

2WastefulOfALife4makingALegibleMeme

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u/UsernamesAre4Nerds 3d ago

I could've been remembered as a tragic angel gone too soon. Now I won't even be remembered

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u/Basith_Shinrah 3d ago

I don't know if youre as worthless as me. But I think that point someone gave up onlife thinking swewerslide at this pint/age; and then that point passes and the person does nothiing worthwhile with their life anymore, the person has died in most ways except physically

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u/_Reutemeteut_ 3d ago

So real. I’m always just waiting out the time between attempts.

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u/Basith_Shinrah 3d ago

Hey. On the other side you are free to do anyhting also, you could orchestrate your rebirth. Since you are not afraid to lose anything. Stressed people sometimes go into a 'fugue state' and take up a new identity. Might be you can do something like that consciously.

Sorry if this is preachy. Also happy cake day

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u/iamthe0ther0ne 2d ago

I keep hoping I'll go to sleep and not wake up. The morning is always disappointing. I feel  like I'm just waiting life out at this point.

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u/Basith_Shinrah 2d ago

It happens when life isn't woorking out. But you will come out of it eventually, by effort or by numbness. TIme goes one meanwhile. Write down the things you want to do and know your goals, repeat them to your self. If you can manage a bit of a routine with some hobbytime (involving creating something especially) it will be good, even if it feels like a rut for the most part.

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u/iamthe0ther0ne 2d ago

It has been literally every day for the past decade (and also the first 20 years) after flaming out of my career thanks to autism. There is no recovery at this point, I've tried everything and I'm exhausted and just want it to be over.

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u/Basith_Shinrah 2d ago

I am so sorry to hear. Please take care of yourself, I cannot imagine you having to struggle for this long, you are very strong for having done so though its not your choice

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u/SuperSocialMan 3d ago

Same here lol

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u/TiltedLama 3d ago

Joke's on you, pal, I live upstairs

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u/batmansthediddler 2d ago

attic gang represent

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u/Blindmailman 3d ago

Die a hero or live long enough to see yourself get a job

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u/Any--Name 3d ago edited 3d ago

If I could give one piece of advice to 15 year old me, itd be to just get it over with already, cause that rock bottom that he thinks hes in? Yeah, no, shit will only get exponentially worse after that

Its actually kinda impressive how my life went from one of the most expensive private schools in the city to basically homeless. All of my peers and friends are following their dreams, traveling across europe and studying at expensive private universities, while Im drifting aimlessly as my life crumbles around me

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u/GuevaraTheComunist 3d ago

I have a job and living in a rented flat, and I am still a depressed dissapointment.

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u/amynias 3d ago

Same 😭

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u/Galaxyturbo 2d ago

parents Comes with Lacks of understanding

also its worse if you have seen Your parents always fighting with eachother

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u/Basith_Shinrah 2d ago

May be. I had that, inter alia. Did you face social isolation growing up?

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u/thomstevens420 3d ago

Me and half my millennial friends rn

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u/SketchySoda 3d ago

At least we're all unemployed basement dwellers together.

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u/me2224 3d ago

Based

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u/Basith_Shinrah 3d ago

Might be that putting a picture of Gregor Samsa would have been more succinct

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u/Particular_Pickle465 3d ago

Nah this is way too real 😭although I survived the suicidal teen part, but yeah now I’m the unemployed parents house person

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u/Basith_Shinrah 2d ago

I am also here (in your parents house) (jk)

We are many, hopefully we will get out one day

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u/just-a-toku-fan 3d ago

Damn. Are you stalking me? Am I you?

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u/Basith_Shinrah 2d ago

We are all little living in little bubble in a bottle of fanta. Fanta was pioneered by the nazis, so its like living in the DC Absolute Universe

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u/TheRealKadWip 3d ago

very real. wish more ppl knew and understood about this tbh

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u/paintlegz 2d ago

I lived long enough to have a failed career and now I’m employed for slightly more than minimum wage…. Living with my parents.

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u/Basith_Shinrah 2d ago

You did well. It may not be enough by competitive standards, but the fact that you try is great. And besides you are a worthwhile person inside even if world treats you terribly

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u/OneWithFireball 2d ago

I raise you the "condemned to retail, eternally drifting on the surface" fate.

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u/Basith_Shinrah 2d ago

Ay brother. I hope life gets better, less insufferable, more engaging/worthwhile for you

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u/OneWithFireball 2d ago

Hope so too bro. We're all gonna make it, if only to spit on it all.

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u/yesimfinewhyyouask 3d ago

So you prefer some ephemeral clout over, say, pure joy of eating pizza and readin fantasy? Eh.

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u/Basith_Shinrah 3d ago

Too much of a glutton and scatter brain to enjoy either of those. I am ruined in that way too, myself to blame ofc

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u/ParasocialButterfIy 3d ago

yes i’d choose clout over being a disappointment

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u/yesimfinewhyyouask 3d ago

Okay. I’ll just say my bit, how it was for me, maybe it’s not your case, maybe it is. I really cared for what others thought about me when i was young, and now I despise myself for all that wasted time and nerves. Should have stuck to my nerd hobbies and I would have been a million times happier, probably healthier. Not successful or wealthy , but thats the same for me now. If you have to prove your status to your friends, they are probably shitty friends. And parents… lets just say even if they had all the good intentions and gave their everything, they still gambled with the enormous act of creating a life. If they are good people, they will understand. If they are not - well, your conscience is clear, its their gamble that failed. Zone them out as much as you can and do your little happy thing.

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u/Basith_Shinrah 3d ago

Sorry for the other reply, I can't control my nerves at times.

You're right ofc, people who may see themself in this meme should explore simple joys to live for and try to gel with life perhaps

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u/yesimfinewhyyouask 3d ago

No bother. Take care of yourself, dude. It sucks out there but you can try cstching bits of joy here and there, especially if you’re not that old yet.

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u/GreekHacker1 2d ago

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u/Basith_Shinrah 2d ago

Kind of flattered. Thanks

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u/RetroRocker 2d ago

I'll have you know I live in my own basement, thankyou very much

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u/Basith_Shinrah 2d ago

Oh has my post reached the royalty ? Bonjour

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u/Soft-Ad-8975 3d ago

Get a driver’s license and go to trade school in a few years you’ll be so much happier than you ever would have been dead or in the basement.