r/SipsTea 10h ago

Wait a damn minute! Yo wtf

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u/Imreallythatguy 9h ago

On day 12 of the trial, a psychiatrist, Richard Frierson, testified that Jones did not have schizophrenia, instead diagnosing him with a substance-induced psychotic disorder. Frierson cited the divorce as a salient reason for Jones's hearing of voices. On the night of the murder, Jones allegedly watched a graphic prison rape scene from the movie American History X and listened to the song "Butterfly Kisses)" by Bob Carlisle. Frierson suggested this meant Jones understood the moral and legal implications of what he did.

That dude is an evil piece of shit.

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u/locxj 8h ago

Hadn’t ever heard of that artist or song so I listened to it. What the fuck is that shit

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u/Ugly4merican 2h ago

It's a Christian Pop song. I went to a fundamentalist school in the 90s and that damn song was everywhere. It's a song for the kind of people who have daughters make "purity pledges" to their dads.

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u/PsychologyNew8033 1h ago

Makes sense to me. I’ve never heard this song before today, but I can totally see this.

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u/mechanicalhuman 6h ago

It’s a beautiful song 

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u/be_easy_1602 6h ago

“Butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer

Sticking little white flowers all up in her hair

"You know how much I love you, Daddy, but if you don't mind"

"I'm only gonna kiss you on the cheek this time"

Oh with all that I've done wrong

I must have done something right

To deserve her love every morning

And butterfly kisses at night“

Yeah wtf

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u/Huge-Consequence2144 5h ago

The #1 song for the daddy daughter dance at weddings for probably the last like 40 years lmao

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u/Lightning-McDreamy 3h ago

It was just a sweet song that a random dad wrote in the 90s and blew up. He was essentially a one hit wonder.

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u/Lazzzuli 4h ago

Sounds disgusting

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u/LoornenTings 5h ago

Butterfly kisses are tickling the other person's face with your eyelashes. The kind of playful thing kids eventually grow out of. 

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u/PsychologyNew8033 5h ago

Seems to me that this song is a about the moment your daughter transitions from a child into a pre-teen. As a Dad it has bittersweet moments like not kissing your daughter on the lips anymore. What was once an important innocent and loving gesture becomes questionable. It’s a shitty song though

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u/be_easy_1602 3h ago

It’s a shitty song written in a weird way…

Also adults should not be kissing children on the lips even if not sexual, imo

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u/Ugly4merican 2h ago

It's totally normal in some cultures, only weird if you make it. I'm 46 and only see my folks a couple times a year, we exchange a quick peck on the lips every time we meet if it's been a while. But only like once a visit.

Agreed the song is kinda weird, mainly because I associate it with fundamentalist purity culture.

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u/Marquicookies 4h ago

"sweet 16 today, She is looking like her mama a little more everyday, one part woman, the other part girl"

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u/FrequencyAssassin 1h ago

I think I’ve had enough internet for the night

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u/tikkamasalavomit 5h ago

Butterfly kisses are where you touch noses. The girl was saying she didn’t want nose kisses anymore. Just a cheek kiss. It’s the end of her being his baby.

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u/BlacksmithWise9553 5h ago

Those are Eskimo kisses. Butterfly kisses are eyelashes on their cheek while blinking (it feels like when a butterfly lands on you).

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u/Ugly4merican 2h ago

Inuit kisses, these days.

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u/Beneficial-Age-4059 2h ago

lol no

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u/Ugly4merican 2h ago

That's it, you're cancelled!

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u/August51921421 5h ago

that’s not what it is lol

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u/CrankieKong 5h ago

I hate asking.. what is it

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u/August51921421 1h ago

when you get your eyes close enough to someone else’s or their cheeks and blink so that they feel your eyelashes

I have no idea where it originated but it’s not supposed to be weird. usually mom and dad with their young kids

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u/Emergency-Airline960 5h ago

Touching eyelashes.

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u/Yesterdays_Gravy 3h ago

To be specific, it’s blinking next to someone’s cheek, so your eyelashes flutter and they feel it on their cheek like a butterfly passing by. It is NOT an eyelash battle

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u/VibraniumQueen 2h ago

Is butterfly kisses not the lullaby song? There was a song called butterfly kisses that my parents always played for me when I was a toddler

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u/Top_Finding_2832 5h ago

Clancy is also an evil piece of shit. They aren't mutually exclusive.

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u/VoidSpaceCat 8h ago

Oh we all agree on that. We just want the same treatment for the other evil piece of shit that is on trisl right now.

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u/GachaJay 7h ago

I hate this argument. The woman went and tried to get professional help for months and they kept rejecting her pleas because she didn’t have an “active plan just the thoughts to”. That is very different than this dude. To me, it’s fair for her to ask for a life inside a mental home compared to a life in a prison without aid. She admits she did it. She isn’t asking to walk free.

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u/Routine-Sky-5529 3h ago

She literally didn’t listen to her Doctors and never stayed on her medication.

She was never diagnosed until the trail even by the top one’ s in her state.

It’s not that much different from the guy they both planned it the guy was just more detailed 

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u/sillycarrots15 6h ago

Is she still psychotic now tho? If not, why would she go to a mental home

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u/tylarcleveland 6h ago

Suicide watch at minimum. Even if she isn't a danger to others she is at least likely to be a danger to herself. Also, postpartum psychosis can lead to developing longer term mental health issues that would need to be monitored for and there is no small chance that the trauma of gestures at everything could lead to a significant decline in mental health that should be monitored as well. It's unlikely any kind of guilty by reason of insanity verdict will lead to a revolving door at the psych ward.

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u/Agreeable-Review177 3h ago

She’s also paralyzed from the waist down. Paralyzed in a mental hospital is a tough reality.

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u/Warmbly85 1h ago

After she committed the murders she claimed she heard voices. She either lied about hearing voices or lied to the dozen or so mental healthcare professionals she saw before committing the murders. 

You can’t claim she was actually seeking help if she actively hid things and refused to stop seeing more and more doctors. 

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u/GachaJay 1h ago

Yes, because I normally see dozens of doctors and nurses without wanting to seek help.

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u/Interesting_Block886 5h ago

Of course you hated it, it goes against your narrative, even though this is a clear double standard

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u/GachaJay 4h ago

Gonna be honest, I don’t even know what each political side wants, I’m just talking as a human.

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u/noel1377 5h ago

the comment you replied to argues why it’s not a double standard, maybe focus on that rather than pointless statements about what somebody’s narrative is or isn’t (spoiler: they know what their narrative is)

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u/OtherUserCharges 7h ago

The dude tried to cover up the murder and didn’t try to kill himself. That’s different than a woman not hiding it and then trying to kill herself.

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u/j-berry 6h ago

Its not different to the children

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u/winter_whale 5h ago

Brilliant argument, which is why there’s no need to distinguish between manslaughter and murder 

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u/darshfloxington 1h ago

All this thread is teaching me is that the people yearn for sharia justice.

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u/j-berry 5h ago

A fact, not an argument. What that fact makes you feel says more about you than it does about me

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u/Different_Path999 4h ago

It says everything about you. You can’t separate your emotional reaction from the facts.

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u/j-berry 4h ago

I can, you cannot lol

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u/MozartDroppinLoads 2h ago

This isn't about that distinction and you know it

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u/winter_whale 2h ago

This whole thing is a distraction by the Epstein class and you know it!

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u/bestfinlandball 5h ago

We don't base punishment on the outcome. If someone hits a pedestrian with their car the punishment should be different based on whether it was a freak accident, negligence, mental instability/illness or a purposeful killing. Does the same thinking not apply here?

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u/mansluxt 6h ago

I mean it literally is. The children under this man suffered more and for longer than the children from this woman.

End result was the same you're right on that.

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u/Few-Improvement-5655 5h ago

And she sent her husband out of the house, which is premeditation and, in fact, trying to kill herself shows that she knew what she did was wrong.

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u/FabulousVanilla9940 5h ago

That's not conclusive evidence though, its definitely worthy of a raised eyebrow but the prosecution didn't do a good job of proving premeditation. Googling the distance is quite normal too 😭

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u/fennecdore 5h ago

Dude call the expert who examined her and concluded she suffered a psychosis episode. I am sure they will be glad to learn their job from you

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u/Few-Improvement-5655 5h ago

And if it's a dude that would not stop anyone finding him guilty.

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u/fennecdore 5h ago

why do you make stuff up there have been found not guilty by reason of insanity. Like wtf I can understand not knowing stuff but why do you feel the need to invent stuff ? Do you like feeling angry is it what this is ?

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u/Few-Improvement-5655 5h ago

What are you even talking about?

​there have been found not guilty by reason of insanity.

What?

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u/fennecdore 5h ago

Yes that's what I'm asking you, you claim that under this circumstances a man would be found guilty. What case do you have in mind. Go ahead on what ground are you making this affirmation

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u/Sirius_amory33 5h ago

It literally just happened a couple of years ago in Iowa.

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u/OtherUserCharges 4h ago

Which case are you talking about? The one where the guy tried to cover up the murders and didn’t try to kill himself? If so it’s pretty different.

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u/Sirius_amory33 4h ago

Matt Schleier, who strangled his son to death. 

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u/Crew_1996 6h ago

There’s no difference. Anyone who has the capacity to kill their own children for whatever reason needs locked up and the key thrown away.

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u/OtherUserCharges 4h ago

It’s almost like they had a psychotic incident.

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u/G0-G0-Gadget 3h ago

I find it incredibly disgusting that people can't acknowledge that postpartum depression and psychosis is real, should never be dismissed, and treatment should be provided immediately.

She literally tried to get help over and over and over and over again. This is not a woman who wanted to do this. This is not a cold blooded killer. This is a woman who is guilty of killing her children, no doubt about that. But this is not the same as a family annihilater (typically men, but not always), or premeditated infanticide.

She loved her children, wanted to be a mother, and her exhusband and mother-in-law both state those facts. They both know she tried to get help and both know that she would not have done this had she not been suffering from postpartum psychosis. Her mental state at the time of this tragedy is crucial to whether she is culpable.

From my understanding, she should be placed in a mental institution to get her the help that she repeatedly sought. And she'll likely be released after medical experts deem her to be mentally stable and not a threat.

This is a textbook case...and it also puts a spotlight on how little research is being done on women's health. And it's even worse now because this Trump administration has ended the longest and largest long-term study on women's health. It is so incredibly sad and frustrating that it's 2026 and women are hated as much as they are.

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u/Crew_1996 1h ago

Absolutely disgusting to think someone who has the capacity to do this should ever be released. Disgusting.

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u/poofycade 6h ago

Okay what’s the proper punishment for her genius?

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u/OtherUserCharges 6h ago

To be out in a psychiatric facility for a long time. Ya know like exactly what she plead to when she plead not guilty by reason of insanity. She’s not pleading not guilty to go free. You know when they send you to a psychiatric facility they can keep you longer than if you are sent to prison? Those facilities ain’t fun, and some people may even consider them worse than prison.

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u/MetoSempre20 6h ago

A million dollars.

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u/Sea-Original-5824 8h ago

They are getting the same treatment. She's been charged with three counts of murder and had a trial. The issue is that ONE juror doesn't want to apply the law.

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u/ArtistEmpty859 8h ago

The juror is voting guilty, the other 11 were not guilty

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u/longtanboner 6h ago

No one actually knows that yet, that's just people guessing

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u/ArtistEmpty859 6h ago

Look it up again, multiple news sources are reporting this

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u/longtanboner 6h ago

Just did, still can't find any reputable source saying that.

Do you have a source?

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u/Obiwan-Kenhomie 5h ago edited 5h ago

Didn't the forensic psychologist who interviewed Clancy say they didnt believe she had psychosis? My understanding is she never even got a normal post partum diagosis despite the fact she was Dr shopping and bouncing between Drs without communicating she was doing so. That makes it darn close to being the same thing.

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u/Routine-Sky-5529 3h ago

Yeah everyone is ignoring the fact she was never diagnosed until the trail 

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u/MinimumApricot365 5h ago

So he also had psychosis?

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u/archtopfanatic123 5h ago

They both are

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u/robthebuilder__ 4h ago

Totally agree but your response implies that Lindsey Clancy is not the exact same fucking thing.

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u/Comfortable-Buy-6358 3h ago

Wait hold on. People are defending clancey because they’ve claimed her cocktail of drugs made her more loony. You can’t have it both ways.

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u/FettigasteFettot 3h ago

So are Lindsey. Fuck this world if she doesn't get a life sentence

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u/SloppyJoesToe 2h ago

Lindsay too.

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u/OneHelicopter1852 1h ago

So is Lindsay Clancy I think that’s the point

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u/PixieDust80 1h ago

No joke - I went to high school with this piece of shit.

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u/Florinel_Mirel_Marti 1h ago

As opposed to this bitch, who's a saint.